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All About Love / Re: Girls attractiing to opposite sex is different
« on: December 12, 2019, 01:57:48 am »
BIG BOOBS  :-* and good character

What kind of a good character, I suppose you mean obedient and compliant? :-X

I think better see pics first .... buyer's remorse is a terrible thing to suffer especially for bedminton

Why will hv remorse, I thought guy do all sorts even with objects or animals , old ppl even

That can be quite embarassing when you patronise the shop again.

I remembered many years ago during my poly days I had a crush on a lux shampoo promotor working in a Popular Bookshop (don't ask me why Popular bookshop got sell shampoo) and in the end I picked up my courage and ask her whether I can befriend her and of course... she rejected me.... :( And I had not seen her again after that.....

Here is my idea..

Buy something from the store while getting her to service you. Gaze at her from time to time when she make eye contact smile in a charismatic way exposing your teeth. If she smiles back, and if she's holding her phone , direct your gaze to her phone and then back to her eyes and grin. She would know that you are interested in getting her number.

If there's no response, you buy your stuffs and then pretend to search for your phone (pls off it to silent mode before entering shop). Realising it is "lost" u pretend to panic and ask of her if she could call your number to locate your phone which might be misplaced in the shop. There you got her number then tell her u rmb where u misplace it (in the washroom) and say your thanks. Before leaving glance back n smile + wink.

Den you can start your texting game.

But then in local context I suppose it is very hard to ask directly as we tend to be more cautious on strangers.

I think the better way is to patronise the shop often when she was working and let her have a deep impression on you while trying to initiate some small chat with her.... And from there proceed accordingly....

Being confident and being dominant is very very attractive to a lady as it shows you can handle her while not putting her on a pedestal. Confidence is an aphrodisiac, which is why confident guys can date women way above their league. Be confident in your approaches but not stalkerish. Rejection doesn't matter, if you get rejected move on to the next. If I'm guy that's what I would do. Don't take any sort of rejection personally. Move direct and swift, be upfront and gutsy.

As long as the fweelings are mutual and the husband doesn't find out bah .... ???

Unker high chaotic energy , so you usually handle this way , you forgot to read the title ...

All About Love / Re: 10 Things to do after a breakup
« on: December 10, 2019, 11:27:27 pm »
Break up with friends,

Drink , made new friends ,

Life is better , we outgrow ppl

When you didn't do wrong and are happy , sit back and relax , u realise you don't lose ppl , they lose you

Let your happiness piss them off , that they know they didn't do nth for you to be upset about losing nth . Only sunken cost is time wasted. Yes let their resentment sink in. Let them enjoy being surveillance cams to your stories and posts, while you bother nth abt their lives.

And him knowing you're married doesn't stop him :o
Do guys nowadays not bother about whether the woman is attached or married?

Chit Chat Corner / Re: Love scam
« on: November 19, 2019, 08:01:17 pm »
Dunno what the doxxing rule comprises but don't think you can get your money back... There's only a few ways... Trick or threaten

Trick him to come out, since he's a greedy person, tell him after many days of chasing him you have thought it clear, u still in love with him and you want to help him more and you still have more savings to loan him and you are smitten can't get over him at all, don't mind eloping with him, give him some bait to come out.. this time make sure there's no money involved and you are able to know all of his full personal details and addresses and place of employment ,better still his wife full name and employment place or his mother and father, best is get access to his phone even and screenshot down all his scamming chats and send to your own phone number / email. I don't think the name he give you is even his real name.

You mean confirmatory bias? ???

In your case,  only hear the bad stuff?  :-\

If I don't trust ppl,I only select situations where they are untrustworthy to judge...I can't see the white paper I'm wondering why is there a black spot. If there's a black spot it's not a white paper.
So far I only hv a few white papers in life, also white paper which has black spot which I hv chased away but refused to leave until it became white again.

without knowing specific details, i can't advise too much. hopefully this article can shed some light :)

I know it's a self fulfilling prophecy.
I already believe in something therefore I cherry pick all evidence to support it.
Not many can break into this shell.

Chit Chat Corner / Re: What do you do when you are heartbroken
« on: November 17, 2019, 10:17:35 pm »

Chit Chat Corner / Re: What do you do when you are heartbroken
« on: November 17, 2019, 10:17:06 pm »
Important thing is don't become a crazy cat lady....  :-*

Y cats, y not dogs  ???
Married so doesn't fit the stereotype either haha

Chit Chat Corner / Re: What do you do when you are heartbroken
« on: November 17, 2019, 02:17:35 pm »
so you don't have the issue anymore? that's good :)

Realised that losing someone who doesn't have my back , is a gain. Life becomes more peaceful.
Memories since childhood are redundant , new ppl I met are better than old friend who stay half - assedly. If I experience another , I won't hesitate to cut off , because I have my own back . I don't need someone who puts me down . Supportive ppl are welcome, non-supportive but neutral stay out the door, non-supportive + jealous stays outside the gate. It's a good sign that I outgrow people and get redirect to like-minded people who are positve and focus on growth not on gossips and complain daily.

How is it that the guy thought it was appropriate or thought he wouldn't get caught.  ??? Or he thought the woman wanted it.  ::)

Chit Chat Corner / Re: Guy interacts with everyone except me
« on: November 15, 2019, 08:39:46 pm »
Lack of respect when a person speaks to the group and lack of respect for another's personal space.

Sounds like otaku or hikikomori alert ...

Makes me wonder @gouki2017 do you do this?

This seems like a continuation thread from last time gouki thread of why girls always avoid him...

Because you treat them like a piece of rock  ;D ;D ;D

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