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Chit Chat Corner / How far do u agree with these statements?
« on: April 16, 2018, 06:54:57 pm »
1.) No good deed goes unpunished.
2.) You either die a transitional stage or live long enuff to see yourself becoming the villain

Chit Chat Corner / What got you into marriage?
« on: January 21, 2018, 01:49:39 am »
What are the pros and cons?  :-\
What gave you the impetus to go into it..

And any regrets?  ???

Those who got married, was single life comparably much more fulfilling?

Do you feel your standard of living(if it is gd already) (In terms of happiness) improve or drop?

Chit Chat Corner / What do you think of China hip hop?
« on: January 13, 2018, 12:19:57 pm »

 :-* :-* :-*

我背景像晓一样硬硬硬硬硬!!!  8)

nature as he does not want to be recognised outside?
Otherwise why would he want to wear shades always.

It shows dishonesty am I right?  :o

Chit Chat Corner / How do u differentiate sincerity or the lack of?
« on: December 17, 2017, 03:29:20 am »
Like how do u tell whether someone is genuine or feigning it for certain agenda.

And how do u tell if people are genuinely angry for being doubted or pretending to be angry at being doubted so that you fall for it.

Genuine or pretense how to tell?
Any sure way of testing?

All About Love / Is it possible to have 2 leaders or 2 followers in a r/s
« on: November 18, 2017, 11:08:20 pm »
Is it necessary to define the role earlier in the r/s like who is the leader / follower?

Chit Chat Corner / Edison Chen grills interviewer :[
« on: October 26, 2017, 03:53:37 pm »

 :-[ :-[ :-[

I wonder how does one make <3 the hip hop way lol

Tsk tsk tsk.

Nowadays not so safe like last time to share sob stories on forum. For all you know predators are lurking. If not, some might even take joy reading your misery ::)

Hope the women there don't accept "comforting" pm frm stranger guys ready to exploit the situation  :(


Note: video by sheeple slayer.

It’s not often that I call people out for their wrongdoings on this social media.. but these feelings have been simmering for some time and I need to release them. (PLEASE MAKE THIS VIRAL) Recently my close friend caught her husband cheating on her!

It hurts my heart to hear her husband speak about women who his own colleague her name is VANESSA who saw his wedding band and proceeded to solicit him still, or tell him she would like to be “a little more than colleague Seriously? She even a good pretender! She even call his wife to convince nothing happen. Its just a colleague not more than that! She's a liar! There's proof that they are dating and went out together and get expensive gifts for her b'day recently.

This women lose all my respect, and for her, I have a few choice words. They are below. Maby she just being so desperate being a single mother of one and her son stay in philippines, so she need our singapore man to support her needs.. to flirt with or pursue another woman’s husband, and especially to those who’ve acted on such flirtations in a way that would unanimously be considered cheating by said man’s wife and family.

get it, you want a man of your own, and you crave love in your life. That’s fine. What isn’t fine, however, is that you seek this love in a man that’s already found it with someone else. If I can respect that you need love and have the right to pursue it with single men, why won’t you respect that she found what you’re after and it means the world to her and small daughter? They were happy family until u came into his life and changed him..

It’s no secret that marriage is work. This means the woman who is devoted to the man wearing the wedding band whom you’re so eagerly enticing has been working very hard on the job and your actions could result in her losing all that she’s worked to obtain. What’s that? It takes two? Of course it does; and I say shame on the men who fall into your trap too. I believe he is not the first men you seduce...A man who loves and cherishes his wife for all the right reasons should see that no good will come from engaging in an indiscretion with you.

Vanesssa you say you’re in search of “real love” and a “good man”, but what on earth makes you think that a man who would step out on his own family to play pretend with you is actually worth your time? And exactly how do you expect to sleep at night once he’s “yours”? Self love is the key that opens the door to so many wonderful things in life. Working over time to open a door that’s not for you to walk through will almost ensure that there’s no prize behind it, but rather unimaginable heartache and pain.

You say there’s a shortage of good men in this world. Is that so? Well, if that’s true, how is the solution to that possibly forever tainting one of the few who still remain? Seems like desperate and reckless behavior to me. VANESSA are those the kinds of values you want to build a relationship on? You shouldn’t.

I know a lot of you tell yourselves that if he chooses to be with you then he must have made “the better choice”, but I just don’t see it that way. I see a man who chose the easy route and a woman with values as poor as his own; a man who will most likely one day leave you too. (You’re fooling yourself if you think he won’t.) That’s no man I’d want to choose; so why do you?

Oh wait, is it because you “can love him better”? Or because you “do all the things she just won’t”, right? It may be time to ask yourself if all the “things” you do that he likes so much are those becoming of a real woman or lady?

VANESSA please dont make us look down on foreigner like you! The government are bringing too many of them to Singapore and these women are taking away our job and husbands.
Those who are married would know the challenges to keep a family together, have a decent saving, educate our children and also take care of our spouses so that they will not run away with foreigners. Everytime i see a filipino I get very angry. Because there are too many of them creating a mess out of our lives.

To Vanessa who stole someone husband and some other guys too. please use your brain and touch your heart. Don’t take away other people’s property or belonging. He is someone husband someone father. Please go back to your rotten country dont disturb us singaporean... If you have worked with them you will know what I mean this pinoy very good in acting.she even call her scandal wife and convince her not to worry she dont have any feeling not more than a colleague. But there's proof that they been dating together and get expensive gifts from him on her b'day recently. YOU BETTER WATCH OUT VANESSA! she working in evonik Jurong island.. please becareful with her.. she is a big liar.. pinoy bitch!

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Chit Chat Corner / which type of guy? the HANDSOME, the RICH, and the SMART
« on: December 29, 2016, 10:22:15 pm »
Three types of guy for long term r/s
My choice is C. What's yours?

Excellent in the looks department. Average income (but spends quite a bit on grooming and his car). Not extremely financially saavy nor smart but contented and narcissistic. PROS: You'll probably be the envy of many girls when seen dating him. CONS: Can be quite a himbo and topics when interacting with him are mostly superficial and material. Great if you're of the same league.

Born with a golden spoon. But not a looker. Not extremely smart but is in an advantageous position because of family wealth. Has plans to take over his family's business. PROS: Lavishes expensive gifts on you all the time. CONS: Always busy and frequently overseas. Needs a submissive wife who stays at home to guide and impart good values to his offsprings. And be obedient when he's out entertaining.

Open-minded with a broad perspective, able to make wise and savvy decision and listen to alternative view. Always have witty ways in handling situation. Not rich but not poor either. Not a looker. Not extremely ambitious but dedicated and committed in work and relationship, upgrades and improves himself constantly.


A Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF) senior human resource executive originally charged with killing her husband was sentenced to one year's jail on Monday (Oct 10) for causing grievous hurt on grave and sudden provocation.

Vivien Teoh Yi Wen's sentence was backdated to her remand on Sept 1 last year, which means the 27-year-old mother of one could be released.

She admitted to the amended charge of fatally stabbing her husband, Mr Gordon Yeo Han Tong, 33, in the chest with a knife at their flat in Senja Road in August last year.
Court documents say he had physically assaulted her and threatened to kill her and their daughter, as their marriage had broken down .

When it was all over, Mr Yeo's parents appeared upset. His 60-year-old mother wept, calling the one-year sentence "unfair'' and accusing Teoh's family members, who were speaking to her briefly through the door of the holding area, of being "inhumane''.

Deputy Public Prosecutors Eugene Lee and Krystle Chiang said on Aug 30 last year, Teoh had locked herself in the master bedroom with her 14-month-old daughter, and refused to let her husband in. The couple were sleeping in different rooms and she was making preparations for divorce.

When she emerged later to get milk for the baby, her husband confronted her in the kitchen and asked why she had locked the door. He tried to block her path but she managed to get free and return to the room.

Following her, he pushed his way into the room. They agreed to talk outside so as not to disturb the child.

Suspecting his wife of cheating on him, Mr Yeo, snatched her phone to read the messages. She screamed and he pinned her down and choked her while she swung her arms to get him to stop.

When he released her but refused to return the phone, Teoh kicked at him while he wrapped his arm around her neck in a chokehold. They fought over the phone, ending up in the kitchen toilet, where they continued to scrap, and he pushed her head against the mirror.

He badgered her for her passcode, which she eventually gave to him and he started to read through her messages.

Teoh went to get her child, who was crying. Carrying the baby into the kitchen, she went into the service yard, closed the folding doors and shouted: "Help, my husband is trying to kill me!"

Mr Yeo kicked the door open, causing the baby to fall and hit her head. He had a knife and ordered his wife to return to the room.

In the master bedroom, Mr Yeo started browsing through her phone and told her she had one last chance to confess to him.

Teoh admitted that she had been having an affair. Angered, he said he would kill her, their daughter and himself.

Subsequently, Teoh went to the kitchen to get ice for the child. She grabbed a knife and brandished it at her husband who told her to drop it. She refused and retreated to the master bedroom.

Mr Yeo also got a knife and went to the room. Husband and wife circled each other and when he kept on advancing, she lost her self-control and swung her knife wildly at him, inflicting wounds including one that penetrated his heart. Teoh then called her mother before leaving the flat with her daughter. She accidentally cut herself on the left upper inner thigh.

Mr Goh who had 11 stab wounds on the front torso and interscapular region, was pronounced dead at 1.19am by paramedics.

Teoh's lawyer Yusfiyanto Yatiman said his client was labouring under an acute stress reaction and adjustment disorder at the time.

He said she had been under emotional abuse from her husband for an extended period of time and that his sexual behaviour was perverse.

Calling it a sad and tragic case, District Judge Low Wee Ping said he hoped Teoh could find some solace and closure, to look after and bring up her daughter. Teoh, who was calm, responded several times with: "Thank you, Your Honour ."

Judge Low told her: "You will find that in time, this will come to pass, although, of course, it will be difficult, but I would wish you to look forward..''

Teoh could have been jailed for up to six years and/or fined up to $10,000 for the offence.


The suicide of a young woman who worked for advertising giant Dentsu Inc. was ruled as death by overwork, or "karoshi," after it was found she logged around 105 hours of monthly overtime.

Bereaved family members of Matsuri Takahashi, 24, and lawyers working on behalf of the family disclosed the finding by the Mita Labor Standard Inspection Office in Tokyo at a news conference on Oct. 7.

The labor office issued its ruling on Sept. 30.

It was not the first time a Dentsu employee has resorted to suicide as a result of being forced to clock up grueling overtime.

Takahashi worked for the agency's Digital Account division, which was in charge of online advertising and was recently discovered to have been engaged in systematic overbilling and deliberate cheating of customers.

Word of Takahashi's death coincided with the release of a labor ministry white paper to prevent deaths from overwork. Released on Oct. 7, it said labor standards inspection offices around the country recognized in fiscal 2015 that 93 suicides or attempted suicides resulted from overwork.

A young male employee of Tokyo-based Dentsu committed suicide in 1991 because of his long work hours. In a lawsuit filed by his bereaved family, the Supreme Court acknowledged in 2000 that the company is responsible for his death.

The acknowledgement paved the way for other courts to make the same judgment in other similar cases.

Takahashi joined Dentsu in April 2015 after graduating from the Faculty of Letters of the University of Tokyo. She was assigned to the Digital Account division.

According to the family's lawyers, her workload increased drastically from October. Her overtime from Oct. 9 to Nov. 7 alone amounted to 105 hours.

Takahashi took her life in a dormitory for Dentsu’s female employees on Dec. 25, 2015.

In the lead-up to her death, she contacted colleagues and friends through social networking services with distressing messages, such as “I want to die.”

The Mita inspection office recognized that the volume of Takahashi's workload increased sharply and her overtime work shot up drastically.

It concluded she suffered a mental breakdown due to the psychological burden of so much overtime work and committed suicide.

Last month, Dentsu admitted that the company had been engaged in fraudulent business practices, including overbilling of its clients, in divisions in charge of online advertisements for at least nearly four years from November 2012.

Dentsu blamed the scandal partly on a serious lack of manpower in the divisions concerned.

“We should have come to grips with the situation by increasing the number of staff in those divisions,” an executive of Dentsu said in a news conference in Tokyo on Sept. 23.

After the Supreme Court ruling in 2000, Dentsu said it would strictly monitor the working hours of employees.

According to lawyers, Dentsu instructed its employees to submit reports on their working conditions so that overtime work did not exceed the upper limits it had reported to the labor standard inspection office.

“We view our employee’s suicide very seriously," said a Dentsu representative who refrained from making further comment "as we have yet to grasp the contents (of the inspection office's judgment).”

When a suicide is recognized as a work-related death, the victim's bereaved family is allowed to claim benefits from the government-sponsored worker’s accident compensation insurance program.

(This article was written by Takuro Chiba and Tatsuro Kawai.)


SINGAPORE - A secondary school teacher who preyed on a girl four times his junior and got her to send him more than 50 nude photos and videos over a nine-month period was jailed for 22 months on Friday (Oct 7).

A district court heard that Kuang Liang Yong, 47, had embarked on a sustained campaign of deception and emotional manipulation. He crafted a fake identity of a man who suffered from erectile dysfunction to gain the 13-year-old's sympathy and got her to send the nude photographs and videos to him in 2012 and 2013.

His WhatsApp messages to her ran into more than 400 pages over two years.

The offences took place on 13 occasions over a nine-month period, involving a total of 57 pictures and videos.

Kuang had also stalked a 12-year-old girl by pretending to be a Primary 6 boy in August and September 2015. He persistently sent her lengthy reams of text messages throughout the day, expressing his love for her and pestering her to respond.

Apart from the jail sentence, Kuang was also fined $500 for behaving in a disorderly manner, one of the five charges proceeded. Ten others were taken into consideration in sentencing.

Deputy Public Prosecutor Amanda Chong Wei-Zhen had told the court that in early 2012, Kuang was with his family at a games arcade at Sun Plaza in Sembawang when he overheard the first victim, then 12, telling a counter staff that she had lost her mobile phone.

He let her use his phone to try and locate her mobile, and saved her number without her knowledge as he found her "adorable'' and took a liking to her, said DPP Chong.

He subsequently contacted her over WhatsApp messenger, and identified himself as "Sean Romeo''. He did so over WhatsApp for almost two years - commencing before February 2012 and ceasing only in December 2013.

Sometime in August 2012, he misrepresented to the victim, then 13, that "Sean Romeo'' had been in a motor accident and was unable to have sex.

He feigned depression and said he wanted to give up on life because of his erectile dysfunction.

As a result, the victim complied with his request and sent him three nude photographs of herself as she was very sympathetic and wanted to help him.

Kuang responded, saying he loved her for she "really sacrifice for me''.

Less than a month later -on Oct 8 - he told her to remove her clothes for him. He pestered her to send him more nude pictures and videos of her doing a sexual act. She sent him six photos and three videos of the indecent act.

The victim was 14 when she sent him one nude photo and a video on June 21, 2013. This was a day after he had messaged her, claiming that he was going to kill himself when she threatened to stop contacting him as she was frustrated that he had not told her more about himself.

The offences came to light when the second victim's father lodged a police report on Sept 6, 2015 that his 12-year-old daughter had been having a WhatsApp conversation with an unknown person saved in her contacts as "Guardian Angel''.

Kuang had engaged in a course of conduct which involved acts associated with stalking, by persistently sending the Primary 6 pupil messages in which he made unwanted advances to her and keeping her under surveillance. He had posed as a 12-year-old Primary 6 boy from a poor background to gain sympathy for himself.

In his oral grounds of decision, District Judge Terence Tay ticked off Kuang for masquerading as "Sean Romeo'' on a reprehensive agenda by sexually exploiting a naive young girl.

He said he generally agreed with the aggravating factors cited by the prosecution such as Kuang's predatory conduct, pre-meditation and the degree of exploitation.

He said he was particularly disturbed by the fact that Kuang had tried to broaden his sphere of influence by asking the victim to ask for the phone numbers of three other girls.

Kuang, who is married with two children, has resigned from the education service. He was represented by Mr Paul.

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