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Interest Groups / Re: Crocheting / Knitting
« on: July 13, 2018, 03:04:27 pm »
~'小蝴蝶'~   .... is her handle in HWZ

Got fan club de ...

 ??? ???

Fan club of semo?

I don’t go EDMW de wor.. lol

Interest Groups / Re: Crocheting / Knitting
« on: July 13, 2018, 12:27:24 pm »
I help you find and connect mah .... :P

Ooo so who’s this lady ah? Jinjja famous one?
Don’t tell me is from tw de? Got cute and sexy voice one? 🤐

Interest Groups / Re: Crocheting / Knitting
« on: July 13, 2018, 12:08:49 pm »
On EDMW forum got one 蝴蝶姐姐 is a fan ...

Haha Uncle here not EDMW leh .. lol .
Need to find peeps here also mah :) shld have I Guess.

Interest Groups / Crocheting / Knitting
« on: July 13, 2018, 02:22:19 am »
Anyone here is a die hard fan ? or have this as a hobby?

How did u all get started ?

Please share your latest work in progress , or finished pieces .

Food Glorious Food / Re: Durian Mcflurry in SG Mac. Win or meh?
« on: July 11, 2018, 11:36:00 pm »
just tried this ystd.

Did taste as good as i imagined.

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 02:54:40 pm »
Good unavailable guys previously invested but lost the investment badly so rather go for no strings attached. Either being cheated on or something else
For e.g. knew of a person whose gf passed away and after that become like dat.

That's y I say life is short, cherish the time.
Not everyone live to the country average lifespan.
It's a wildcard  :-X

Oh I get it now. Thanks :)

Yes , life is short , and we don’t know when is our expiry date on earth.
Cherish the present , now. Whatever is the past, let it be. You cannot change anything... my turn to remember this phrase.
And stop looking at what had went by.
Focus on myself and my own wellbeing. Nothing else matter more than my own health and soul.

Thanks @happyshar  and Uncle @beaverjuice for all the advices here :) very much appreciated!

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 01:30:29 pm »
yup .... that is very sound advice ....

jiayous !  gambatte !

Thanks Uncle BJ:)

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 11:10:32 am »
you're still holding out a candle for him and hanging on to hope ..... which obviously is not helping matters.

put this person behind you and look forward .... he's not worth it ... you must remember this.

Yes , you are right. When I still harp on all the why and what if . All these are all false hopes that I have been thinking abt.

I know I shld accept the situation as it is , and stop trying to fix broken pieces, and move on?

I hated myself too when I’m still hoping against all hope.
 Somehow I don’t know how to pull myself out of this vicious cycle.

Another told me not to harp over why and finding answers anymore. They no longer matter now. All these answers I’m looking for isn’t helping me to letting go.

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 11:01:55 am »
serina wee and regina kam are EDMWers goddess lai de ..... they are obsessed with both of them ..... I can understand serina wee but regina is really SMH .... ::)

don't get into trouble with married men's wives .... really not worth .....

These two sounds juicy .. who are they ah? 😂

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 10:58:19 am »
He is unavailable guy la.
Bad unavailable guy enjoys this type of lifestyle because it is minimal cost n maximal benefits.
Good unavailable guy dont invest in r/s anymore due to reasons.
Anyway both r unavailable. Haha.
U r hving the perception that he will be emotionally hurt.
I think there's higher Risk that he might be physically hurt.

Hmm let me Guess , unavailable is in terms of emotionally unavailable?

Good unavailable guys?? ???  There’s such a guy too? Sry can u pls shed some light?

That’s true. Physical hurt is more likely to happen than emotional hurt since he already knew what he was in for right from the start.

Yup but weird thing is why do I still care so much when the person has clearly let go and enjoying his new r/s?
Ultimately I still cannot let go, which I have to.
I only waste my own time and energy .

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 12:11:27 am »
Hmm I think he didn't pick her. She sort of hinted / made herself available for hookup and perhaps most guys wouldn't have rejected the chance to get laid given the girl looks decent and will not ask for commitment thereafter.

that's true. Is foc and is offered to you.
No wonder they got together so soon.
i just hope he know what he's in for in case the hubby found out.
All i can do now is wish him all the best and letting this person go, which clearly im not there yet.

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 09, 2018, 11:18:00 pm »
I think they handle it logically like sending resume to companies. But they should not mislead the company that they r only applying to one. After the company want to accept them den they sign with another lol.

I prefer the baiting with a hook but without bait. The person not rushing for relationship not trying to impress but naturally shines and somehow affinity pulls them tgt.

haha but i always ask why do u want to dig your own graves by sending resumes to companies that clearly isn't your league ?
you know a part of me didn't let go fully is bcoz i still cared for that person.
Why on earth u pick a married woman ?
there is plenty of trees out in the forrest, why torture yourself?

I feel the same way as you , baiting with a hook without a bait. And things will unfold themselves when the time is right.

There's always a saying , fate might bring someone to you, but that someone is not your destiny.
But when you realised it , it's too late because you sunk too deep already.

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 09, 2018, 11:09:38 pm »
I think so long as they are being upfront that they are active on the dating scene and making it clear that they are dating several potential long term partners it should be okay bah? ???

tbh i did sense way few mths back that he was interested in this current gf.
i asked him frankly before, if she wasn't married, is she your cup of tea ?
His answer was clear cut no.

And this lady has been filrting with him in their pvt chat. She was the one who mostly initated. He played along of cuz.

Well , maybe im too naive to believe that what he said.

Maybe things didn't look that simple in the first place. But i wasn't aware back then. Or i shld say i didn't suspect since i still trust that man.

To answer your question , yes if a guy make known to other potenial gfs or dating partners that he's keeping his options open then its okay. Not dropping them bombs that there's a future maybe this maybe that. As in ,the guy did not lead them on.

But in my case, i'm afraid this is not the case.

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 09, 2018, 08:15:40 pm »
No la, I think some guys like to cast net de, like they chase a few den decide which one more suitable and receptive?
I don't like fishermen who cast net, I prefer those type who fish without a bait and still get the fish like 姜子牙 ;D :D

I don't like guys who cast net(s) also ..

To me , it seem like you don't know what you want in your life. So ficker-minded.

Well to them, no harm dating a few at the same time, then if one or two doesn't respond or click so well, he can cut loss and still got others. I guess they call this , don't put all your eggs in one basket? Or risk management ?

All About Love / Re: What should I do now ?
« on: July 09, 2018, 08:11:17 pm »
Life is short.
Love and support those who love and support and provide value to your life.
Those who do not provide any value and / or are toxic or non-constructive , either can break contact or if cannot break contact can treat them like transparent.
Tell them if got next life I free den entertain u  :-X

ya that's what I am doing now.
Zero Contact now and i am prepared not to be friends anymore.
Well, we have quite alot of common friends , so gathering wise might not be avoidable.

Guess i can either don't attend their gatherings for now until dunno when bcoz i don't even want to see that person. See already all the fond memories will rush back again.

But certain gathering i'll have to be there for my other friends. i hope by then i will have let this person go totally.

And like you said,if i meet them on the streets, treat them transparent and dont initate convo with them .

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