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JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« on: November 26, 2018, 08:31:15 am »
https://www.reddit.com/r/singapore/comments/a082q0/got_my_friend_pregnant_need_advice/



We're both 18 and casual partners. She's a month late and has been showing the symptoms for a week. We're taking A Levels now so I don't know if it's the stress. She did a kit 3 weeks ago which was negative but on Thursday it was positive. What are my options here? We have not discussed what to do if she's pregnant yet because we want to finish our exams first. I end on Friday and she ends a week later because she's taking a H3 so any action will have to be taken afterwards. I have a few thousand in savings; is this enough if we choose to go for an abortion? Do we need our parents' permission? Thank you in advance



Edit: Thank you for the abortion information. I have 1 more question. If we go through with it, how should I treat her throughout?



Edit2: Thanks for your support everyone. I'll definitely reply to your comments after my paper







I don't have advice for xdd but got advice for xmm can? ???

"Ah-girl !  Study until A-level still don't know how to kiap your legs tight tight together?  :o .... priest ni loh .... when a guy says he has fweelings for you .... priest ask him if it is coming from between his thighs laaarrr"

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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #1 on: November 26, 2018, 10:34:32 am »
I don't have advice for xdd but got advice for xmm can? ???

"Ah-girl !  Study until A-level still don't know how to kiap your legs tight tight together?  :o .... priest ni loh .... when a guy says he has fweelings for you .... priest ask him if it is coming from between his thighs laaarrr"

This is a woman forum. Not for you to add in unnecessary, and harmful advice. In the first place, the deed is done, if you can provide good advice or suggestion pertaining to his/her situation, good for you. If not, just keep quiet and don't judge. You are not helpful and adding insult to injury.

Why is this a problem for the girl, how is she keeping her legs open an issue for you? Why are you not asking abt the guy instead?

The deed is done, you still must copy and paste just to spread the hatred and pain all over to another forum.
I am not here to argue with you. Hope you can understand that end of the day, you are a man in a woman forum, please do not come and judge people, it is extremely rude of you.

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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #2 on: November 26, 2018, 11:53:19 am »
This is a woman forum. Not for you to add in unnecessary, and harmful advice. In the first place, the deed is done, if you can provide good advice or suggestion pertaining to his/her situation, good for you. If not, just keep quiet and don't judge. You are not helpful and adding insult to injury.

Why is this a problem for the girl, how is she keeping her legs open an issue for you? Why are you not asking abt the guy instead?



Wow ... triggered ...  :o

In the first place,  don't hei-sho hei-sho without considering the consequences mah.... and please for heaven's sake use the pill , condom , IUD .... this is not some 6:30pm kids but A-levels fellas lei ....

So you are saying i should wish him and her "Happy Father's Day and Happy Mother's Day"?  Cannot be righhhhht?

Or advise him where to bring her for abortion? ???

I think best place for her and him is family counselling ... don't take the life of an unborn kid .... two wrongs don't make a right

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The deed is done, you still must copy and paste just to spread the hatred and pain all over to another forum.
I am not here to argue with you. Hope you can understand that end of the day, you are a man in a woman forum, please do not come and judge people, it is extremely rude of you.

That is extremely presumptuous of you to think that i post on EDMW.  Don't assume please. 


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« Reply #3 on: November 26, 2018, 12:13:55 pm »
Wow ... triggered ...  :o

In the first place,  don't hei-sho hei-sho without considering the consequences mah.... and please for heaven's sake use the pill , condom , IUD .... this is not some 6:30pm kids but A-levels fellas lei ....
So you are saying i should wish him and her "Happy Father's Day and Happy Mother's Day"?  Cannot be righhhhht?
Or advise him where to bring her for abortion? ???
I think best place for her and him is family counselling ... don't take the life of an unborn kid .... two wrongs don't make a right
That is extremely presumptuous of you to think that i post on EDMW.  Don't assume please.

Then what for the remarks on why she cannot keep her legs closed?
Why are you not asking the same on the guy?

the deed is done, does your remark help in any way, beside hurting both the girl and the guy? You have a wife, girlfriend, mother or sister? Does it help if someone said the girl you love cannot keep her legs closed?

Sorry, I don't remember mentioning "EDMW" at all, i don't get it, what has that to do with anything?


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« Reply #4 on: November 26, 2018, 12:25:17 pm »
Then what for the remarks on why she cannot keep her legs closed?
Why are you not asking the same on the guy?
Ermmm .... if she had said "No" to sex?  She wouldn't have ended up in this predicament right?

Yes, i would also ask the guy why he didn't keep his pecker in his pants ... that makes you happier?  ::)

PS:  this IS a woman's forum so that's why i didn't ask the guy mah .... walauehhhh .... SMH

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the deed is done, does your remark help in any way, beside hurting both the girl and the guy? You have a wife, girlfriend, mother or sister? Does it help if someone said the girl you love cannot keep her legs closed?
Nope it wouldn't help her but it sure as hell will help others avoid the same pitfall ...  ::)

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Sorry, I don't remember mentioning "EDMW" at all, i don't get it, what has that to do with anything?
I copied this from EDMW....  ::)
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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #5 on: November 26, 2018, 03:17:35 pm »
Ok got update from the originator of the post >

hammercock987 wrote:

"Thanks. I use protection 99% of the time so I think it was the 1%."

"Finished in a condom, got a short bj, accidentally forgot to put on a new condom before putting it back in for like 10 seconds for round 2. Only instance I can recall."








.... doesn't sound like A-level brains .... probably a troll who got all our knickers in a twist ....  ::)

Either that or a cheap charlie who reused his condom
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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #6 on: February 13, 2019, 04:59:55 am »
18 years old should be worry about exam papers lost in A-levels marking

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« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2019, 04:10:35 pm »
18 years old should be worry about exam papers lost in A-levels marking

I think gone case since his biology knowledge so poor .
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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2019, 05:41:55 pm »
Should hv taken a morning after, maybe abit too exp for her age (ard $40++). The partner shud pay for it.
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Re: JC xdd need urgent advice after knocking up xmm
« Reply #9 on: February 13, 2019, 05:47:04 pm »
Then what for the remarks on why she cannot keep her legs closed?
Why are you not asking the same on the guy?

the deed is done, does your remark help in any way, beside hurting both the girl and the guy? You have a wife, girlfriend, mother or sister? Does it help if someone said the girl you love cannot keep her legs closed?

Sorry, I don't remember mentioning "EDMW" at all, i don't get it, what has that to do with anything?

Chill, assuming the girl is gullible party, she need to know that not all guys take responsibility and need to learn to protect herself next time so that she will not get hurt again.

Just like we cannot lower crime rate but we can choose to be vigilant so as not to be the target.

If she's taking h3, she would be quite smart.
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« Reply #10 on: February 13, 2019, 06:16:16 pm »
Chill, assuming the girl is gullible party, she need to know that not all guys take responsibility and need to learn to protect herself next time so that she will not get hurt again.

Just like we cannot lower crime rate but we can choose to be vigilant so as not to be the target.

If she's taking h3, she would be quite smart.

I still say better to kiap  :-X
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