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Posted by: little hippo
« on: November 12, 2015, 01:36:56 pm »

i think should be ok... last time my grandma took care 5 children by herself... when her children grow up, all their children all pass to her and my grandpa to take care.. which also around 3 to 5 kids at any one time....

now i pregnant with twins, i also not planning to hire maid because i got OCD - cannot tolerate stranger at my house... let's see i will go crazy or not...
Posted by: Piglet
« on: November 06, 2015, 01:56:30 pm »

Can always cook simple meal or one pot dish for kids. I also cook for kids.

as long as nutrient value is there should be ok. Take care of kid is tiring.
Posted by: idyllic
« on: November 06, 2015, 11:47:23 am »

My boys is mess boys.. ned to cook.. cause my 2yrs old.. dont eat outside food.. cause i notice.. whenever buy food or eat outside.. he eat abit.. but when i cook.. he eat alot..
Can always cook simple meal or one pot dish for kids. I also cook for kids.
Posted by: Piglet
« on: November 06, 2015, 11:43:15 am »

show him the korea show Return of the superman. these daddy can do it. so can he
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 06, 2015, 11:06:57 am »

Been there, done that. my husband even travel for work when my youngest was born.
Just do the best u can. No need to sweep and mop floor everyday, maybe alt days or once every 3days. laundry also twice a week?

If no time to cook, can always takeaway or order tingkat . Don't be too hard on yourself.

My boys is mess boys.. ned to cook.. cause my 2yrs old.. dont eat outside food.. cause i notice.. whenever buy food or eat outside.. he eat abit.. but when i cook.. he eat alot..
Posted by: idyllic
« on: November 05, 2015, 07:27:37 pm »

Try that b4.. even just few hrs.. im still at home.. he cant do it.. i even told him.. just less in 1hr u already shouting at the boys.. (they hype boys 2yrs n 1yrs old) how do u think im looking after them from 8am(once they are awake) till night once u reach home.. nt just look after them.. but ned to cook.. clean the hse.. wash clothes.. dont u think it not a hard work..
Been there, done that. my husband even travel for work when my youngest was born.
Just do the best u can. No need to sweep and mop floor everyday, maybe alt days or once every 3days. laundry also twice a week?

If no time to cook, can always takeaway or order tingkat . Don't be too hard on yourself.
Posted by: nomnom
« on: November 05, 2015, 06:32:41 pm »

Try that b4.. even just few hrs.. im still at home.. he cant do it.. i even told him.. just less in 1hr u already shouting at the boys.. (they hype boys 2yrs n 1yrs old) how do u think im looking after them from 8am(once they are awake) till night once u reach home.. nt just look after them.. but ned to cook.. clean the hse.. wash clothes.. dont u think it not a hard work..
But sometimes, you need to be "heartless" in order to get your sanity back. If you don't do that, nobody can help you. Only you, can do yourself this favour.
Sooner or later, you will suffer from burnt-outs.
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 05, 2015, 03:46:10 pm »

Ask your hubby to look after them for a couple of hours where you can go for a good massage? At least help to relax your body a bit.
Maybe, can go to IKEA at Alexandra. And while your hubby is looking after them while they are playing in the IKEA's playhouse, you can pop over to the Healing Touch Spa at Alexis Condo. Massage there is good and cheap! It costs less than $60 for an hour's massage.
http://www.healingtouchspa.com/promotions/ For promotion, it costs around $49.20 for 1 hour Asian Fusion massage.

Try that b4.. even just few hrs.. im still at home.. he cant do it.. i even told him.. just less in 1hr u already shouting at the boys.. (they hype boys 2yrs n 1yrs old) how do u think im looking after them from 8am(once they are awake) till night once u reach home.. nt just look after them.. but ned to cook.. clean the hse.. wash clothes.. dont u think it not a hard work..
Posted by: nomnom
« on: November 05, 2015, 12:39:48 pm »

Of course ned to tahan.. they are my heart n soul.. but the tiredness really killing my body..

Ask your hubby to look after them for a couple of hours where you can go for a good massage? At least help to relax your body a bit.
Maybe, can go to IKEA at Alexandra. And while your hubby is looking after them while they are playing in the IKEA's playhouse, you can pop over to the Healing Touch Spa at Alexis Condo. Massage there is good and cheap! It costs less than $60 for an hour's massage.
http://www.healingtouchspa.com/promotions/ For promotion, it costs around $49.20 for 1 hour Asian Fusion massage.
Posted by: idyllic
« on: November 05, 2015, 12:12:18 pm »

How many kids u have?
3. They are 6,4 &3 :)
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 05, 2015, 10:05:33 am »

I'm also sahm  ;)

How many kids u have?
Posted by: idyllic
« on: November 05, 2015, 01:09:30 am »

Thats why im a stay home mom.. i want to see them grow infront of my eyes.. be4 they start preschool..
I'm also sahm  ;)
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 05, 2015, 12:12:29 am »

i have 2 and i already cannot take it... and friends tell me the transition from 2 to 3 is the worst! really sympathise with you.

i think if i ever have a third one, will be when the first one can take care of herself.

Dont rush if u got no help from family.. i always asking myself why in the past.. mother can look after more then 3kids.. why cant us the modern mom look after atleast 1 or 2kids.. some more they got no helper like nowadays..
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 05, 2015, 12:08:38 am »

Look on the bright side. At least their age gap close, first few years is tiring, before u know it, all grown up

Thats why im a stay home mom.. i want to see them grow infront of my eyes.. be4 they start preschool..
Posted by: MrsPiggy
« on: November 04, 2015, 11:58:32 pm »

You just gotta tahan. If another 3 yrs time, they will be playing with one another liao...

Of course ned to tahan.. they are my heart n soul.. but the tiredness really killing my body..