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« Reply #30 on: October 20, 2017, 01:06:32 pm »
I think it not taken for granted. it more like he dun even care about her. he can do without her

Like dat means deprivation doesn't work liao  :-[

Ts maybe can try this experiment of deprivation to check whether still have a place in his heart.

Do some checklist before deciding what to do
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« Reply #31 on: October 20, 2017, 01:15:56 pm »
agree somewhat with @happyshar - the balance of power in the relationship is unevenly keeled .... as vanillaicecream aka VIC used to say on FP - "never make someone a priority when you are not his priority" .... saves a lot of heartache on your part.
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« Reply #32 on: October 20, 2017, 03:02:07 pm »
actually if a guy got so easily influence by the bad friend, his will is not strong enough. So easily influence by friend, high chance will stray when get seduce by vixen. so weak minded guy, can married meh?

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« Reply #33 on: October 20, 2017, 04:24:31 pm »
actually if a guy got so easily influence by the bad friend, his will is not strong enough. So easily influence by friend, high chance will stray when get seduce by vixen. so weak minded guy, can married meh?

Guy are not naturally monogamous creature. Their hormones are wired for them to be polygamous. They can be attached to a woman but still have impure thoughts of other women. The difference is whether they do the action or not... probably the r/s they are in is quite long. He is feeling the thrill of the chase again. Ts should provide some challenge/competition.
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« Reply #34 on: October 20, 2017, 04:30:09 pm »
Guy are not naturally monogamous creature. Their hormones are wired for them to be polygamous. They can be attached to a woman but still have impure thoughts of other women. The difference is whether they do the action or not... probably the r/s they are in is quite long. He is feeling the thrill of the chase again. Ts should provide some challenge/competition.

we are human not animal lei. we maybe cannot control the thought but can control the action. control action part is will power.

this guy is not a keeper la, I dun wan later like in FP few month down the road, stray aft that forgive, few month again stray. ha...

he can be friend with that guy but agreeing to his "thinking" is a scary thing. So easy his principle and moral shift??

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« Reply #35 on: October 20, 2017, 04:38:36 pm »
we are human not animal lei. we maybe cannot control the thought but can control the action. control action part is will power.

this guy is not a keeper la, I dun wan later like in FP few month down the road, stray aft that forgive, few month again stray. ha...

he can be friend with that guy but agreeing to his "thinking" is a scary thing. So easy his principle and moral shift??

He isn't influenced by his dat friend but by his own hormones and primal urge. If the friend has done something maybe is to let him know dat he can have the cake AND eat it too (without guilt). Which is why he likes him.
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« Reply #36 on: October 20, 2017, 05:01:51 pm »
piggy does as piggy frens do.... we are the company that we keep .... birds of a feather flock together .....
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« Reply #37 on: October 20, 2017, 05:15:42 pm »
But I Srsly do wonder what's the probability of meeting another guy and have him NOT exhibit the same behaviour in less than or equal to 5 years.  ???
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« Reply #38 on: October 20, 2017, 11:22:54 pm »
But I Srsly do wonder what's the probability of meeting another guy and have him NOT exhibit the same behaviour in less than or equal to 5 years.  ???

You mean meeting a gay guy with abolutely no interest in pussy izziiiit?  ... ermmm quite high chance these days ... so don't worry your puuuurty wittle head nah ...  :-*
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« Reply #39 on: October 21, 2017, 01:55:05 am »
You mean meeting a gay guy with abolutely no interest in pussy izziiiit?  ... ermmm quite high chance these days ... so don't worry your puuuurty wittle head nah ...  :-*

Lolzzz.
Den rather spend time taming the beast than to quit and find another beast which might potentially have such problems 1,2,3,4 or even 5 years down the road. Lol.
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I think 5 years is already very above par considering today's societal standards.
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« Reply #40 on: October 21, 2017, 10:38:03 am »
Lolzzz.
Den rather spend time taming the beast than to quit and find another beast which might potentially have such problems 1,2,3,4 or even 5 years down the road. Lol.
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I think 5 years is already very above par considering today's societal standards.

taming the beast?  ??? .... google is your best friend .... best part is that these devices are reusable and could be incorporated into your routine .... and if ever you tire of it,  you can put them on carousell

https://www.google.com.sg/search?q=chastity+belt+for+men&safe=active&dcr=0&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjI5-XA0oDXAhUCN48KHd27AH0Q_AUICigB&biw=1440&bih=844

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« Reply #41 on: October 21, 2017, 02:29:52 pm »
taming the beast?  ??? .... google is your best friend .... best part is that these devices are reusable and could be incorporated into your routine .... and if ever you tire of it,  you can put them on carousell

https://www.google.com.sg/search?q=chastity+belt+for+men&safe=active&dcr=0&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjI5-XA0oDXAhUCN48KHd27AH0Q_AUICigB&biw=1440&bih=844

Look Like antique wor :o
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« Reply #42 on: October 25, 2017, 05:20:54 pm »
TS not even around to read our "advise". well her life she had to be responsible for it herself. we cannot help or advise when the person himself/herself want to be doormat.


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