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Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« on: July 28, 2018, 06:18:10 pm »
My fi and I have decided to skip overseas photoshoot, so we currently have some excess budget for our wedding. I am also considering getting real wedding cake for my wedding banquet. My hotel has provided with the standard dummy cake for cake cutting, but don't feel like using it.

Just wanna know if anyone here has gotten a real wedding cake? And what should I look out for?

As guests, would you want a slice of wedding cake for dessert after a bowl of yam paste? One slice according to the baker is around 1" x 1" x 3", so that's like 2 mouth full.

Or would you rather dapao the cake home (like a box of the cake per family or whoever that wanna takes), or not have any cake at all (then I might get a smaller cake that don't serve all guests).

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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #1 on: July 28, 2018, 09:35:18 pm »
I dunno ... i never went for cakes ... too much sugar and calories ....

Use the hotel cake and save money for the house.

Or contribute to CDA with matching dollar for dollar contribution from gahment ....

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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2018, 12:58:59 am »
Definitely dapao so that can go home earlier lol.
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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2018, 01:17:00 pm »
Definitely dapao so that can go home earlier lol.

You can always reject attending a wedding you know. No one force you to.


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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #4 on: July 31, 2018, 01:20:07 pm »
I dunno ... i never went for cakes ... too much sugar and calories ....

Use the hotel cake and save money for the house.

Or contribute to CDA with matching dollar for dollar contribution from gahment ....

Not going to have kids though.

We already plan to have a wedding cake so, yeah. Not channeling the money to elsewhere, although i know not many will appreciate a real wedding cake.
« Last Edit: July 31, 2018, 02:28:08 pm by Beefballs »

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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #5 on: July 31, 2018, 03:06:38 pm »
Not going to have kids though.

We already plan to have a wedding cake so, yeah. Not channeling the money to elsewhere, although i know not many will appreciate a real wedding cake.

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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #6 on: August 01, 2018, 05:07:08 am »
You can always reject attending a wedding you know. No one force you to.

Hmm quite hard if senior colleague though and everyone else going haha :-X
Luckily my current job no colleague lol.
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Re: Real Wedding cake for banquet?
« Reply #7 on: August 02, 2018, 09:20:32 am »
Hmm quite hard if senior colleague though and everyone else going haha :-X
Luckily my current job no colleague lol.

I recently attended one of my cousin’s wedding, with only 2/10 cousins attended. The rest can’t be bothered to go. Pretty sure colleagues will be easier to reject