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« Reply #30 on: November 08, 2015, 03:51:13 pm »
If your husband sides you and put you above the in laws, basically you have less problem because they also will know that pissing you off means incurring wrath from the son. If he is the type that tries to please everyone then abit tricky cuz I know of some mils who fabricate stories to win the sympathy of their sons.
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« Reply #31 on: November 08, 2015, 06:38:34 pm »
If your husband sides you and put you above the in laws, basically you have less problem because they also will know that pissing you off means incurring wrath from the son. If he is the type that tries to please everyone then abit tricky cuz I know of some mils who fabricate stories to win the sympathy of their sons.

hahaha got stories to share?  ;D ;D

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« Reply #32 on: November 08, 2015, 06:42:20 pm »
The more typical ones are like being very mean to dil when son is at work, ask her do this and that but when son comes back, 360 degree change like very sweet and caring. Say never ask dil do anything hor! Or say dil was very rude to her etc. Didn't happen to me lah haha, heng!  ;D
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« Reply #33 on: November 09, 2015, 04:19:13 pm »
The more typical ones are like being very mean to dil when son is at work, ask her do this and that but when son comes back, 360 degree change like very sweet and caring. Say never ask dil do anything hor! Or say dil was very rude to her etc. Didn't happen to me lah haha, heng!  ;D

this is so k-drama style!  >:(


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« Reply #34 on: November 11, 2015, 11:29:59 am »
i have been staying with inlaws for 9yrs+, and it is still ongoing till......
it is definitely not a bed of roses but i just have to close eyes & ears at times. ::)

the woes of having the only child for my husband, haha.

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« Reply #35 on: November 12, 2015, 01:30:34 pm »
i have been staying with inlaws for 9yrs+, and it is still ongoing till......
it is definitely not a bed of roses but i just have to close eyes & ears at times. ::)

the woes of having the only child for my husband, haha.

wa..u really very wei da...
if i were you, i definitely refuse to marry in....

my own parents i already BTH.. how to live with other people parents?!?!

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« Reply #36 on: November 12, 2015, 05:05:03 pm »
I'm also staying with my mil and we do have differences like any other human being. But she's still easier than my own parents!! Hahaha!~!!
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« Reply #37 on: November 12, 2015, 10:36:21 pm »
I'm also staying with my mil and we do have differences like any other human being. But she's still easier than my own parents!! Hahaha!~!!

Lucky you!

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« Reply #38 on: November 15, 2015, 03:29:00 am »
I honestly believe anyone's parents would be easier than mine. :'(
Mine is the highest level of horror. Good luck to anyone who marries me or my siblings, really Hahahaha!!

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« Reply #39 on: December 25, 2015, 08:55:35 pm »
couples nowadays love to stay with their own parents, because they need them for housework and looking after kids. or married without financial capability to get your own home.

there will always be problems.

too bad, a price to pay, for not being to handle household affairs yourselves.

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« Reply #40 on: July 07, 2016, 05:16:05 pm »
Is it just me or are MILs in Singapore very ke bo? They want to own their sons and their grandchildren. treat us like baby making machines. Don't know how respect our rights.

I feel the same way too.

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« Reply #41 on: July 08, 2016, 04:11:00 pm »
I feel the same way too.

hahaha, hear hear! i think its the chinese culture right?
want to control everything their daughters in law do.....

i wanna vomit bloody sometimes. u shld read some of the stories in this forum......  and the worst thing is our MILs are women too, don't they understand?

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« Reply #42 on: July 08, 2016, 10:28:04 pm »
All Chinese MIL are the same.  China one more scary.  I watch one variety show.  Thw MIL dun like the DIL go set up DIL.  Frame her tat she got affairs and get the couple divorce.  there are evil MIL there are also Evil DIL. The son/hub should be the tat handle the 2 most impt woman. In their live..
 

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« Reply #43 on: July 10, 2016, 02:13:03 pm »
that's y I will nt want to live with a mil.  :-\
rather be single.
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« Reply #44 on: July 10, 2016, 02:14:13 pm »
hahaha, hear hear! i think its the chinese culture right?
want to control everything their daughters in law do.....

i wanna vomit bloody sometimes. u shld read some of the stories in this forum......  and the worst thing is our MILs are women too, don't they understand?
precisely last time they ganna. now their turn to play ma.. some will think like that.
没有心,就不会痛 😉

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