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happyshar

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #15 on: July 11, 2018, 06:11:11 pm »
..... and then i have to sleep in dog-house  :'(

How come..
That dog house inside got chio bu slping?
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2018, 09:36:19 am »
50/50 is common. Save up enough money for a glorious wedding(and remember to account for your living expenses too)

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #17 on: August 10, 2018, 03:33:02 pm »
50/50 is common. Save up enough money for a glorious wedding(and remember to account for your living expenses too)

hard to 50/50 especially when one side has more cash also.
worse is when the wife has the more cash part  :-[

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beaverjuice

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #18 on: August 10, 2018, 03:37:38 pm »
hard to 50/50 especially when one side has more cash also.
worse is when the wife has the more cash part  :-[

The key is acceptance and NOT compromise ....

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happyshar

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #19 on: August 11, 2018, 12:40:00 am »
Luckily me n my so wants a low profile one.
Save all the hassle and money lol  :P
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #20 on: August 11, 2018, 01:49:49 am »
Luckily me n my so wants a low profile one.
Save all the hassle and money lol  :P

Yupz... isn't it wonderful how acceptance can make your life? ???  NEVER compromise !
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2018, 12:00:38 am »
Yupz... isn't it wonderful how acceptance can make your life? ???  NEVER compromise !

Yeah spend on housing / Reno / more jewelries better  :-*
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