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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #15 on: July 11, 2018, 06:11:11 pm »
..... and then i have to sleep in dog-house  :'(

How come..
That dog house inside got chio bu slping?
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2018, 09:36:19 am »
50/50 is common. Save up enough money for a glorious wedding(and remember to account for your living expenses too)

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #17 on: August 10, 2018, 03:33:02 pm »
50/50 is common. Save up enough money for a glorious wedding(and remember to account for your living expenses too)

hard to 50/50 especially when one side has more cash also.
worse is when the wife has the more cash part  :-[

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #18 on: August 10, 2018, 03:37:38 pm »
hard to 50/50 especially when one side has more cash also.
worse is when the wife has the more cash part  :-[

The key is acceptance and NOT compromise ....

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #19 on: August 11, 2018, 12:40:00 am »
Luckily me n my so wants a low profile one.
Save all the hassle and money lol  :P
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #20 on: August 11, 2018, 01:49:49 am »
Luckily me n my so wants a low profile one.
Save all the hassle and money lol  :P

Yupz... isn't it wonderful how acceptance can make your life? ???  NEVER compromise !
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2018, 12:00:38 am »
Yupz... isn't it wonderful how acceptance can make your life? ???  NEVER compromise !

Yeah spend on housing / Reno / more jewelries better  :-*
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #22 on: August 30, 2018, 10:31:22 am »
50% each from each side will be good.

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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #23 on: August 31, 2018, 11:20:03 pm »
50% each from each side will be good.

Even if your SO earns significantly more?

Say he earns $10,000 per month while you earn $3,000 per month? ???
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #24 on: September 02, 2018, 02:57:43 am »
Need to count until so clean, doing business ah?
Got count whether will earn uh? Kekeke  :-*

Sometimes I really SMH on Asian values which values alot alot alot on face value and impressing people they barely know or like. And another would be following traditions blindly without considering what are the real benefits and value they bring about.

I would not continue about the sheeple mentality where anyone gives birth because everyone else is doing so and when their kids are borne just leave them to fend for themselves and throw pocket money.

I mean when one gets married, think abt marriage instead of erm wedding day only?
And one gives birth, think about what kind of value can one actually bring to the child's life and what type of nuturance and parenting to provide to make sure they are at their full potential instead of only thinking about ticking one more box in the sheeple KPI list?

Ppl really think on very superficial terms.
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Re: If a men unwilling to pay for wedding, should I still say yes?
« Reply #25 on: September 02, 2018, 10:45:14 pm »
Best is cohabitate. Marriage is just a societal construct .... YOLO FTW ....  8)
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