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#1 quarrel topic among married couples
« on: January 03, 2017, 09:14:53 pm »
what do you think?
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #1 on: January 07, 2017, 09:33:34 am »
what do you think?

money or the lack thereof, how to raise kids,  MIL  ? ..... in no particular order  :P
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2017, 02:54:18 am »
money or the lack thereof, how to raise kids,  MIL  ? ..... in no particular order  :P

yup. money issue is a big quarrelsome problems between couples.
number 1 actually =)
must learn how to talk and discuss about money as a marriage is meant for life
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2017, 08:21:21 am »
yup. money issue is a big quarrelsome problems between couples.
number 1 actually =)
must learn how to talk and discuss about money as a marriage is meant for life

I think the talking and discussing should be done before marriage  :P ..... and not after .....

the marriage vow could be an "escape" clause used by either of the couple to foil any attempts at finding a resolution ....  :(
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2017, 03:37:32 pm »
I think the talking and discussing should be done before marriage  :P ..... and not after .....

the marriage vow could be an "escape" clause used by either of the couple to foil any attempts at finding a resolution ....  :(

think nd sign contract before that if not later say no say b4.. 😂
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2017, 04:24:32 pm »
think nd sign contract before that if not later say no say b4.. 😂

yes, never trust a man's word unless it is written in his blood .....  :-X
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #6 on: January 09, 2017, 08:56:41 pm »
yes, never trust a man's word unless it is written in his blood .....  :-X

so the contract must sign in blood 😓
no sign no talk .
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #7 on: January 09, 2017, 10:46:25 pm »
so the contract must sign in blood 😓
no sign no talk .

lol not so serious ba. i agree must talk before marriage, though it sound super unromantic.
must discuss properly on what are the planning for the key milestones (birth of child, when to buy a house, when to retire) and not leave everything to chances.

and how to get there.
learn to make decisions together and give in to one another.

my hubby decided to get a cheaper car. so i give up buying handbags and shoes.
must both do together =D
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #8 on: January 10, 2017, 03:13:08 am »
lol not so serious ba. i agree must talk before marriage, though it sound super unromantic.
must discuss properly on what are the planning for the key milestones (birth of child, when to buy a house, when to retire) and not leave everything to chances.

and how to get there.
learn to make decisions together and give in to one another.

my hubby decided to get a cheaper car. so i give up buying handbags and shoes.
must both do together =D

hmm maybe for me. it is not essential to be married. but it is essential to be in the right direction or situation be it single or married. if different directions den rather single le.
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #9 on: January 10, 2017, 06:41:23 pm »
hmm maybe for me. it is not essential to be married. but it is essential to be in the right direction or situation be it single or married. if different directions den rather single le.

YOLO !  :-*
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #10 on: February 02, 2017, 03:00:57 pm »
i'm not married, but i think the #1 quarrel topic should be living habits? i'm rating based on occurrence and not seriousness of the quarrel la...

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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #11 on: February 02, 2017, 03:46:48 pm »
about the parent. about kids, living habit etc.

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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #12 on: February 02, 2017, 06:58:58 pm »
i'm not married, but i think the #1 quarrel topic should be living habits? i'm rating based on occurrence and not seriousness of the quarrel la...

Which is why must co-habit first or go for frequent staycations to discover and familiarize with partner's habits first  8) 8) 8)
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #13 on: February 02, 2017, 07:16:26 pm »
Which is why must co-habit first or go for frequent staycations to discover and familiarize with partner's habits first  8) 8) 8)
Actually, people behave very differently in a hotel room and their own room too..
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Re: #1 quarrel topic among married couples
« Reply #14 on: February 02, 2017, 10:16:09 pm »
think nd sign contract before that if not later say no say b4.. 😂

Sign prenup huh