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What got you into marriage?
« on: January 21, 2018, 01:49:39 am »
What are the pros and cons?  :-\
What gave you the impetus to go into it..

And any regrets?  ???

Those who got married, was single life comparably much more fulfilling?

Do you feel your standard of living(if it is gd already) (In terms of happiness) improve or drop?
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #1 on: January 21, 2018, 04:31:51 pm »
Why such ponderance of thoughts on the other side of midnight my dear? ??? ... it's the witching hour ....

Did you have the clarity of a thousand suns? ???

Some guys settle down because they are tired of manufacturing lies to hook gals for ONS .... its the same tired faces making their rounds at the bars ... maybe the simple life works better
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2018, 11:38:12 pm »
Why such ponderance of thoughts on the other side of midnight my dear? ??? ... it's the witching hour ....

Did you have the clarity of a thousand suns? ???

Some guys settle down because they are tired of manufacturing lies to hook gals for ONS .... its the same tired faces making their rounds at the bars ... maybe the simple life works better

Er so it's like.. Do until nth to do le.. Den get married?  ??? ??? ???
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2018, 01:45:25 pm »
Er so it's like.. Do until nth to do le.. Den get married?  ??? ??? ???

Some people is rike "woah .... her face next to mine in a wedding photo ish sibeh kilat" ...... booomz ... married liao

I think ish also considered important criteria .... you wouldn't marry someone whose face you cannot stand to have next to yours in photos or waking up to right?
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2018, 10:48:56 pm »
Anyone abt to get married liao den suddenly hv afterthoughts a?

Like u feel now u r happy but an additional step might be a risk.
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #5 on: January 22, 2018, 11:52:26 pm »
Anyone abt to get married liao den suddenly hv afterthoughts a?

Like u feel now u r happy but an additional step might be a risk.

What do you mean by "after-thoughts" ? ???

You mean wonder if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? ???
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #6 on: January 23, 2018, 02:46:13 am »
What do you mean by "after-thoughts" ? ???

You mean wonder if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? ???

I mean one might be happier alone... hv more freedom etc. Be less discounted. (The grass is already green on one side, if go over will become less green onot? If equally green it's ok but what if less green?) One will be stuck right?

Just wonder what's the pulling factor.
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #7 on: January 23, 2018, 06:59:09 pm »
I mean one might be happier alone... hv more freedom etc. Be less discounted. (The grass is already green on one side, if go over will become less green onot? If equally green it's ok but what if less green?) One will be stuck right?

Just wonder what's the pulling factor.

U won't get stuck if you keep moving ...

Pull factor for guys? ....  usually is one teh-teh long hair chiobu colleague who keep pressing her boobs against you when asking about that excel spreadsheet formula you created at your computer ....

Pull factor for gals? .... hubby travelling and she goes club to destress from her live-in MIL ....

Ermmmm .... maybe i don't understand your question?  :P  :-\ :-\
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #8 on: January 23, 2018, 09:16:34 pm »
U won't get stuck if you keep moving ...

Pull factor for guys? ....  usually is one teh-teh long hair chiobu colleague who keep pressing her boobs against you when asking about that excel spreadsheet formula you created at your computer ....

Pull factor for gals? .... hubby travelling and she goes club to destress from her live-in MIL ....

Ermmmm .... maybe i don't understand your question?  :P  :-\ :-\

Pull factor into marriAge not out of...
U mean to swing ah  :o :o :o
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #9 on: January 23, 2018, 10:49:14 pm »
Pull factor into marriAge not out of...
U mean to swing ah  :o :o :o

Orrrhhh so many
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #10 on: January 23, 2018, 10:57:00 pm »
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #11 on: January 24, 2018, 11:58:02 am »


ermmm ..... why chiu laff at me de .... :-[
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #12 on: January 24, 2018, 12:54:45 pm »
ermmm ..... why chiu laff at me de .... :-[

I facepalm because if I don't nd all the points stated, does it mean there's no nd to marry liao  ???
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« Reply #13 on: January 24, 2018, 01:54:05 pm »
I facepalm because if I don't nd all the points stated, does it mean there's no nd to marry liao  ???

not unless you want kids ..... I guess it might be better to remain single and have unbridled relationships whenever .....
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Re: What got you into marriage?
« Reply #14 on: January 24, 2018, 02:25:54 pm »
 :-[ no one else ponder this question.

Feel so lonely.  :-[
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