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http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/this-urban-jungle/well-off-woman-in-china-dumps-bf-after-being-served-humble-cny-dinner-at-his-house

sometimes in life better to find the right match ...... if value systems are incompatible better to break earlier ..... 长痛不如短痛 .... at least she was honest about it ...
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/this-urban-jungle/well-off-woman-in-china-dumps-bf-after-being-served-humble-cny-dinner-at-his-house

sometimes in life better to find the right match ...... if value systems are incompatible better to break earlier ..... 长痛不如短痛 .... at least she was honest about it ...

I saw this in EDMW earlier on.
I went to the orginal thread and read. The PRCs discriminate their own people, especially those from the countryside.

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I saw this in EDMW earlier on.
I went to the orginal thread and read. The PRCs discriminate their own people, especially those from the countryside.

maybe she's shanghai-nese and he is jian-xi-nese?

but at least she spared him a lot of hurt by breaking off early bah?
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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maybe she's shanghai-nese and he is jian-xi-nese?

but at least she spared him a lot of hurt by breaking off early bah?

Her parents told her not to go but she din listen and went. Initially, she said she din mind his background coz he is "handsome" to her and blah blah blah. But after going there, she backed out liao.
Haiz.
This is life.
Maybe we won't know their way of thinking coz SG doesn't have those kind of rural areas...


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the food look ok lei. maybe there are more thing to just the humble food??

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the food look ok lei. maybe there are more thing to just the humble food??

They were disgusted by the food, the cutlery, the transportation to the village, the walls of the guy's home, the bedsheets etc.

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The netizens said those guys wanted to leech on the gal's family coz she is a Shanghainese and supposedly shld be richer.
They even called this kind of guys as 凤凰男.

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They were disgusted by the food, the cutlery, the transportation to the village, the walls of the guy's home, the bedsheets etc.

but country side lei. guy is poor too. of cos everything will look bad.

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Her parents told her not to go but she din listen and went. Initially, she said she din mind his background coz he is "handsome" to her and blah blah blah. But after going there, she backed out liao.
Haiz.
This is life.
Maybe we won't know their way of thinking coz SG doesn't have those kind of rural areas...

I think she just wants her 15mins of fame bah? ???
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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I think she just wants her 15mins of fame bah? ???

She definitely had her 15mins of fame. It is a hot topic in weibo now.
It is clear that those city ppl looks down on countryside ppl.
In weibo, lotsa ppl scolding the gal and those forumners. In the original thread (another website/forum), lotsa ppl telling the gal to break up with the guy.

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well, it the girl choice la, maybe there are other thing we did not know.

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if u come frm a well-to-do family...den marrying into a less will be like migrating from sth gd to sth less.

comparing wad she was given by her family to wad she was given by her fiance .. she would hv felt less respected ba? even though that might hv been the best meal served in his family.

but it's kinda heartless to post it online given that she loved the guy before. no empathy for a guy's pride
« Last Edit: February 12, 2016, 01:37:49 am by happyshar »
没有心,就不会痛 😉

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if u come frm a well-to-do family...den marrying into a less will be like migrating from sth gd to sth less.

comparing wad she was given by her family to wad she was given by her fiance .. she would hv felt less respected ba? even though that might hv been the best meal served in his family.

but it's kinda heartless to post it online given that she loved the guy before. no empathy for a guy's pride

Think she just wants people to justify/validate her actions niah.

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i think she just wan some support.

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the only consolation is that she didn't string him along.

on the bright side of things, it is good to trash things out before marriage.

imagine if every year she has to go for reunion dinner in those conditions :(  .... it will take a toll on their marriage .....
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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