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types of men you should avoid
« on: October 16, 2015, 06:35:07 pm »
before i start i would like to say that there are lots of good men out there (especially the SOs of the ladies here!). having dated quite a number of men... here are some of the ones that are simply not worth your time.

1. the frog in the well. i went on a date with a teacher. the entire time during dinner, all he talked about was his school and the students. when i asked if he had any plans to broaden his experience overseas, he simply said he thinks singapore is enough for him. the conversation was extremely boring to say the least.

2. the narcissist. the guy who goes on and on about his salary, his achievement, his whatever. doesn't even bother to check if you are even interested in what he is saying. seems common among bankers.

3. the depressed one. very low self-esteem. always exudes negativity and isn't confident to make any decisions including where to go for a date. not sure if its common among engineers but two guys i dated who were like that were both engineers.

4. the irresponsible one. blames everything and everyone apart from himself. typically blames women, the government, society for his faillings. full of excuses but never takes responsibility for his own problems. doesn't hold on to jobs cos seldom gets along well with bosses and colleagues.

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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2015, 07:06:29 pm »
Types of men u should be attracted to:

1) White Knights
2) White Knights on Horses
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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2015, 07:21:30 pm »
Types of men u should be attracted to:

1) White Knights
2) White Knights on Horses

I think you fall into one of the categories I listed

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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2015, 07:34:14 pm »
I think you fall into one of the categories I listed
oo which one?
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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2015, 07:37:20 pm »
1, 3 and 4 are very common among local men

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« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2015, 07:40:14 pm »
oo which one?

Two

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« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2015, 08:05:56 pm »
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« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2015, 10:14:03 pm »
no one is perfect, there are always flaws(big/small) in character and most probably thats how love is present to amend those flaws(big/small)
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« Reply #8 on: October 16, 2015, 11:57:49 pm »
1, 3 and 4 are very common among local men

Nope, i think all categories pretty much summarises local guys here. Thats why caucasians are so much better!!

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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2015, 12:03:12 am »
Nope, i think all categories pretty much summarises local guys here. Thats why caucasians are so much better!!

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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #10 on: October 17, 2015, 12:18:38 am »
you do know there is a reflection to all points listed... it happens in female as well.

Learn to embrace the flaws to enhance the virtues.  ;)
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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #11 on: October 17, 2015, 12:40:33 am »
Types of men u should be attracted to:

1) White Knights
2) White Knights on Horses

i laugh out loud at this one

there are imperfections in everyone, threadstarter should show some empthay instead of nitpicking on men who are socially awkward. Men who have the ideal profile e.g confident, humble with strong social skills will not go for women like you  :)

based on my observation high achievers around me tend to go for ladies with these attributes i.e.understanding, girl-next-door, filial, generally the non-alpha females
« Last Edit: October 17, 2015, 12:44:39 am by Poor_Broke »

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« Reply #12 on: October 17, 2015, 01:03:35 am »
LOL so much troll in this place
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Re: types of men you should avoid
« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2015, 01:09:13 am »
1. the frog in the well. i went on a date with a teacher. the entire time during dinner, all he talked about was his school and the students. when i asked if he had any plans to broaden his experience overseas, he simply said he thinks singapore is enough for him. the conversation was extremely boring to say the least.
An umabitious man who does not seek to expand his horizons probably can't give his family much financial security. Agree with you on this one.

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2. the narcissist. the guy who goes on and on about his salary, his achievement, his whatever. doesn't even bother to check if you are even interested in what he is saying. seems common among bankers.
I wanna have a  2-way conversation with a normal human being, not listen to a monologue from a self-glorifying peacock. Agree with you on this too.

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3. the depressed one. very low self-esteem. always exudes negativity and isn't confident to make any decisions including where to go for a date. not sure if its common among engineers but two guys i dated who were like that were both engineers.
This kind of guys drain your energy. They need a counselor, not a date.

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4. the irresponsible one. blames everything and everyone apart from himself. typically blames women, the government, society for his faillings. full of excuses but never takes responsibility for his own problems. doesn't hold on to jobs cos seldom gets along well with bosses and colleagues.
I hate this kind of guys as well. Everyone encounters difficult situations but people like them only complain and lack the initiative to make changes.

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« Reply #14 on: October 17, 2015, 01:19:09 am »
I don't know if you girls believe in love, and yes, living in Singapore where living costs are high and sometimes it pays to be pragmatic BUT I personally think if you marry someone because he is financially stable but you can't say for sure that yiu actually love this person - chances are your marriage will crumble in a few years UNLESS you two make an effort to actually grow the love for each other.

Otherwise, because of the lack of love, one fine day, he will just visit Geylang, and you'll just have a fling with your colleague.

And then it will be the end.