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Gossip behind people's back
« on: October 07, 2018, 04:50:20 pm »
Say like how do you react if you caught your dearest people beside your side i.e parent, sibling saying behind your back at times in soft voice so that you won't be able to hear, but you will still hear it anyway because it is obvious like they were chatting loudly and suddenly they speak very soft, and you found out that they were speaking about you?

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2018, 05:17:28 pm »
You mean hearing voices? ???
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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #2 on: October 07, 2018, 05:19:43 pm »
You mean hearing voices? ???
nah, it is like gossiping and hearing your dears speaking behind your back but in soft voices. and also, is it wrong to get angry after hearing what they whispered about you?

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #3 on: October 07, 2018, 05:32:24 pm »
nah, it is like gossiping and hearing your dears speaking behind your back but in soft voices. and also, is it wrong to get angry after hearing what they whispered about you?

When did you find out that they were talking behind your back? ???
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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2018, 08:41:13 pm »
When did you find out that they were talking behind your back? ???
This afternoon, I was so upset like if your dearest people talk behind your back and you found out about it, is it wrong to get angry? I mean like if you are not angry, then you are weird aren't it? The most wrong thing that I did was to flare back at my elders, I felt very guilty about this :( but I always get angry when people gossip behind my back :(

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #5 on: October 08, 2018, 12:17:40 am »
This afternoon, I was so upset like if your dearest people talk behind your back and you found out about it, is it wrong to get angry? I mean like if you are not angry, then you are weird aren't it? The most wrong thing that I did was to flare back at my elders, I felt very guilty about this :( but I always get angry when people gossip behind my back :(

It is best to clarify with them why they did so? ??? Maybe they didn't want to hurt your fweelings?
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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #6 on: October 09, 2018, 01:01:51 pm »
It is best to clarify with them why they did so? ??? Maybe they didn't want to hurt your fweelings?
otherwise they could have talk loudly about me right if they want to hurt my feeling? but whispering is already like throwing some small knives onto me, but don't you get angry if they gossip softly like that behind your back?

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #7 on: October 09, 2018, 09:22:54 pm »
otherwise they could have talk loudly about me right if they want to hurt my feeling? but whispering is already like throwing some small knives onto me, but don't you get angry if they gossip softly like that behind your back?
i'm hard of hearing .... :-[
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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #8 on: October 10, 2018, 01:05:39 am »
Hmmm, with your neighbour constant noise and this gossip, no offence but I think u should go see a psych for the good of your health.

Wad if u accidentally hurt yourself or others cz of these sounds.
« Last Edit: October 10, 2018, 01:13:15 am by happyshar »
没有心,就不会痛 😉

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #9 on: October 10, 2018, 10:02:23 am »
Hmmm, with your neighbour constant noise and this gossip, no offence but I think u should go see a psych for the good of your health.

Wad if u accidentally hurt yourself or others cz of these sounds.
wow looks like I am sort of mental sick man to you huh? ;D

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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #10 on: October 10, 2018, 10:58:31 am »
wow looks like I am sort of mental sick man to you huh? ;D

Not mental sick man, if got illness best for early intervention so it does not become permanent. If don't have is the best. Good to check.
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Re: Gossip behind people's back
« Reply #11 on: October 10, 2018, 11:54:15 am »
Not mental sick man, if got illness best for early intervention so it does not become permanent. If don't have is the best. Good to check.
alright then, so I will just dial some number to mr. toilet bowl aka ma tong ge:

His clinic has discount half price of it brotha and I will be sure to wear my "Hulkamania" T-Shirt red and yellow there too  :P thats my best favorite t-shirt that I ever have  :P