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Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« on: December 01, 2015, 11:05:45 pm »
Anyone feels that as we grow older, it just gets harder and harder to make new friends?  :-\
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #1 on: December 02, 2015, 12:13:49 am »
Anyone feels that as we grow older, it just gets harder and harder to make new friends?  :-\

I no friends~~~  :( :(
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #2 on: December 02, 2015, 02:12:09 am »
It is better not to be too familiar,  in my honest opinion .....
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #3 on: December 02, 2015, 07:12:00 am »
It is better not to be too familiar,  in my honest opinion .....

so deeppp  :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #4 on: December 02, 2015, 08:25:33 am »
Its better to have colleagues stay as colleagues...

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #5 on: December 02, 2015, 09:02:35 am »
I have not many friends as well...my colleagues are my friends also

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #6 on: December 02, 2015, 09:07:36 am »
agree. colleagues will always remain as colleagues. we all acknowledge each other as work companions liao... my closest friends come from my sec/jc sch days ;D :D ;D
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #7 on: December 02, 2015, 09:12:11 am »
Don't be sad .. So many nice people here U can talk to :)

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #8 on: December 02, 2015, 10:48:30 am »
Don't be sad .. So many nice people here U can talk to :)

Lol I'm stating a general topic for discussion sake wor. :o True that there are nice people here though  :-*
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #9 on: December 02, 2015, 10:57:07 am »
Lol I'm stating a general topic for discussion sake wor. :o True that there are nice people here though  :-*

oops i missed the point..yes i agree with you
i also feel as of this age.i also dont have many close friends. very close friends i can count using one hand -=( i think i ren yuan cha  :'( @focus

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #10 on: December 02, 2015, 11:35:02 am »
so deeppp  :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[

@littlesotong - familiarity breeds contempt as the old grandmother saying goes.  arms length social intercourse enables you to flit from one to another easily and extract oneself without hurting anyone's feelings deeply.
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #11 on: December 02, 2015, 12:08:40 pm »
oops i missed the point..yes i agree with you
i also feel as of this age.i also dont have many close friends. very close friends i can count using one hand -=( i think i ren yuan cha  :'( @focus

They say you don't need many close friends wor.
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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #12 on: December 02, 2015, 12:12:55 pm »
They say you don't need many close friends wor.

 i think true friends 1-2 is sufficient =D
but no harm knowing more people =D

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #13 on: December 02, 2015, 01:35:46 pm »
At the end of the day, nobody will be there for you forever lah...

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Re: Ease of Forming New Friendships at Different Levels
« Reply #14 on: December 02, 2015, 01:36:17 pm »
My closest frens are from my poly days.  :-*