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Do you have this prob too?
« on: April 27, 2018, 04:56:20 am »
Like u can't tell whether someone is for real or faking it and feel like testing it out, but it makes u in a vulnerable position.

I used to have this scenario where I unintentionally hindered someone while safeguarding myself. I was sorry after dat. But the person became closer to me, genuinely learnt stuffs tgt with me, advised me, and helped me. But after that when the person know I was leaving the person chided me, brought up old stuffs, threw thing at me. But the following day the person was apologetic and wished me the best n looked v sincere, and asked to keep in contact thru social media. My interpretation was that it was fake all along. Although there could be another interpretation that he was angry I left n he's last to know.

Now I wondering if I accidentally stepped on someone's toe, and the person start to be v friendly with me after dat, even for a long period of time, should I run road? It's fake right? But y ppl fake so long for.. got money to earn?
« Last Edit: April 27, 2018, 05:12:16 am by happyshar »
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Re: Do you have this prob too?
« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2018, 07:55:02 am »
the "person" is a guy, gal or shim? ???
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Re: Do you have this prob too?
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2018, 10:57:03 am »
Like u can't tell whether someone is for real or faking it and feel like testing it out, but it makes u in a vulnerable position.

I used to have this scenario where I unintentionally hindered someone while safeguarding myself. I was sorry after dat. But the person became closer to me, genuinely learnt stuffs tgt with me, advised me, and helped me. But after that when the person know I was leaving the person chided me, brought up old stuffs, threw thing at me. But the following day the person was apologetic and wished me the best n looked v sincere, and asked to keep in contact thru social media. My interpretation was that it was fake all along. Although there could be another interpretation that he was angry I left n he's last to know.

Now I wondering if I accidentally stepped on someone's toe, and the person start to be v friendly with me after dat, even for a long period of time, should I run road? It's fake right? But y ppl fake so long for.. got money to earn?


sounds like bipolar hahah

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« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2018, 12:12:34 pm »
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."


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Re: Do you have this prob too?
« Reply #4 on: April 27, 2018, 03:43:28 pm »

sounds like bipolar hahah

Hmm u mean I sound bipolar or the person sound bipolar
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« Reply #5 on: April 27, 2018, 03:44:56 pm »
the "person" is a guy, gal or shim? ???
Is a guy.
V empathetic when nice.
Menacing when bad.
I didn't which side is the real one.
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« Reply #6 on: April 27, 2018, 10:59:21 pm »
I used to have this scenario where I unintentionally hindered someone while safeguarding myself. I was sorry after dat. But the person became closer to me, genuinely learnt stuffs tgt with me, advised me, and helped me. But after that when the person know I was leaving the person chided me, brought up old stuffs, threw thing at me. But the following day the person was apologetic and wished me the best n looked v sincere, and asked to keep in contact thru social media. My interpretation was that it was fake all along. Although there could be another interpretation that he was angry I left n he's last to know.
To me, it feels like he wants to take revenge since you are leaving the person, maybe in a joking manner.

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« Reply #8 on: April 28, 2018, 03:54:05 am »
To me, it feels like he wants to take revenge since you are leaving the person, maybe in a joking manner.

No he wasn't joking
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