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Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« on: October 26, 2015, 09:49:10 pm »
I saw this news article someone actually gonna marry this girl out of responsibility. I think he did not marry for love thou...

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2015, 10:11:51 pm »
I saw this news article someone actually gonna marry this girl out of responsibility. I think he did not marry for love thou...

i think it really depends on how long we have been dating. if its from a ONS... then really hard to say. but i don't have motherly instincts now so i don't know.

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2015, 10:29:32 pm »
Marrying out of responsibility is a major mistake ....  unless you accept that he is the ONE for you
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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2015, 12:42:31 am »
I saw this news article someone actually gonna marry this girl out of responsibility. I think he did not marry for love thou...

Shaun Chen ah is it? ;D
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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #4 on: October 27, 2015, 08:08:26 am »
for me, even is planned pregnancy, i also wun get married just because i'm pregnant...

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #5 on: December 20, 2015, 07:05:28 pm »
who tps sia.... so fast ah

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #6 on: December 24, 2015, 08:40:15 am »
I am still quite conservative. I don't think I will anyhow f*ck around.

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #7 on: December 24, 2015, 08:43:50 am »
for me, even is planned pregnancy, i also wun get married just because i'm pregnant...

@little hippo so I guess you would go for abortion? It's an individual's choice afterall.
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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #8 on: December 24, 2015, 09:04:58 am »
@little hippo so I guess you would go for abortion? It's an individual's choice afterall.
I thought already married and pregnant now?  :o

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #9 on: December 24, 2015, 09:57:16 am »
@little hippo so I guess you would go for abortion? It's an individual's choice afterall.

can give birth and yang on her own ar. why must abort? cannot yang can give up for adaptation

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #10 on: December 24, 2015, 10:36:49 am »
Marrying out of responsibility is a major mistake ....  unless you accept that he is the ONE for you
my classmate  got pregnant in her early twenties. She didn't love her then bf and still loves her ex . But she got married to that guy for the sake of the child .
Because she got pregnant before marriage her dad and bro stopped talking to her . Her husband is good for nothing and restricts her freedom and don't even let her meet her friends and doesn't work and only sell playing cards . But that was a few years ago . Now im not sure how she is doing as we seldom contact ..
So really need to consider if you really love the person before signing

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #11 on: December 24, 2015, 10:40:20 am »
can give birth and yang on her own ar. why must abort? cannot yang can give up for adaptation
Single moms still face many obstacles . No maternity leaves and benefits and no baby bonuses and it's difficult to bring up a kid on her own. She has to work and feed the kid and she has to take care of the kid herself. And also the pyschological challenges the kid will face growing up I guess since the society still isn't very understanding towards them . It's just my POV.

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #12 on: December 24, 2015, 10:47:42 am »
Single moms still face many obstacles . No maternity leaves and benefits and no baby bonuses and it's difficult to bring up a kid on her own. She has to work and feed the kid and she has to take care of the kid herself. And also the pyschological challenges the kid will face growing up I guess since the society still isn't very understanding towards them . It's just my POV.

single mum is entitle to ML, Child care leave etc, only no baby bonus. when you decided to give birth had to be prepared for it lor. if cannot yang give up for adaptation. Single mum need a lot of family support. abortion is the easiest way out when you had unplanned preggy

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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #13 on: December 24, 2015, 10:49:03 am »
Marrying out of responsibility is a major mistake ....  unless you accept that he is the ONE for you
Yeah, I think can only accept. Both parties must accept that the one beside is the ONE, and don't think too much. Usually, things don't work out because ppl think too much and in the wrong way.
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Re: Would you marry if you accidentally got pregnant?
« Reply #14 on: December 24, 2015, 11:00:57 am »
Yeah, I think can only accept. Both parties must accept that the one beside is the ONE, and don't think too much. Usually, things don't work out because ppl think too much and in the wrong way.

of course I must qualify that acceptance means wholeheartedly accept.

not those "compromise" kind of accept, either grudgingly, no-choice, dowan lose-face or driven by circumstances etc.
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