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Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« on: March 11, 2016, 11:01:20 pm »
Everyone needs to talk about something right! Just when I start to rant abit, guys just totally switched off..

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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #1 on: March 11, 2016, 11:04:09 pm »
nt only guys bah.
girls rant oso I switch off...
esp those drama queen hu everyday hv thg to rant.

focus on positive?
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2016, 08:41:07 am »
Everyone needs to talk about something right! Just when I start to rant abit, guys just totally switched off..
It's a natural defense system to prevent us from going mad.  How do you think we survived mom's nagging?

#here's-not-here
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2016, 08:54:51 am »
Everyone needs to talk about something right! Just when I start to rant abit, guys just totally switched off..

tauhuay ah tauhuay - when women rant,  men think that they want a solution so they attempt to solve the problem. but when women don't want to solve the problem, men start to switch off lorrrrrrr .......  men want to fix things but women just want to download and don't need a solution.

the key is to develop the ability to appear to listen but not listening .....

a higher level kung fu master skill is to practice reflective listening but to curb the desire to solve problem.   this skill taught uncle bj to survive for 30 years liao ......

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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2016, 09:00:04 am »
If I know how to solve, I will not rant already right?!

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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2016, 09:09:34 am »
If I know how to solve, I will not rant already right?!

usually there's nth to solve.
cz if can solve u will solve.
if can't solve n it's a nagging prob. den focus ur mind on other area lo.
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #6 on: March 12, 2016, 12:24:23 pm »
If I know how to solve, I will not rant already right?!

 :o you are really tauhuay and not taojeou (豆酱) !  :o
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #7 on: March 12, 2016, 12:46:38 pm »
usually there's nth to solve.
cz if can solve u will solve.
if can't solve n it's a nagging prob. den focus ur mind on other area lo.

I still think tauhuay is not tauhuay but 豆酱 lai de ....  :-X
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2016, 01:31:15 pm »
Ranting about the guy himself or something/someone else? lol

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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #9 on: March 12, 2016, 04:25:22 pm »
I still think tauhuay is not tauhuay but 豆酱 lai de ....  :-X
:o you are really tauhuay and not taojeou (豆酱) !  :o
Were you eating teochew porridge while replying?
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #10 on: March 12, 2016, 05:49:22 pm »
Were you eating teochew porridge while replying?
I was eating soft silky tauhuay .... why? ???

Jin ho jiak ... so yums  :-*
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #11 on: March 12, 2016, 07:27:30 pm »
I was eating soft silky tauhuay .... why? ???

Jin ho jiak ... so yums  :-*
The essence of teochew porridge lies in the taojeou mah..

Why you eat tauhuay, bo jio?!
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #12 on: March 12, 2016, 07:41:00 pm »
The essence of teochew porridge lies in the taojeou mah..

Why you eat tauhuay, bo jio?!

I like to eat tauhuay by myself .... can enjoy slowly slowly .... :-*
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #13 on: March 12, 2016, 08:12:03 pm »
I like to eat tauhuay by myself .... can enjoy slowly slowly .... :-*
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Re: Why guys just switched off when u start to rant?
« Reply #14 on: March 12, 2016, 08:38:05 pm »
I still think tauhuay is not tauhuay but 豆酱 lai de ....  :-X

so tau jeong likes to rant but his fellow tau jeong "fren" does nt like to listen...  :-X
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