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Which is more important? Character or can click?
« on: February 14, 2016, 11:04:36 am »
When choose bf/gf, which one is more important to you?

Good character but cannot really click that well?

Or

Can click very well but the character not as good as first one?



For me, I choose can click very well, but of coz the character must be ok not say very very bad type.

But my friend keep tell me to find someone who has very good character, click or not slowly can click one.

Whats your thought on this?

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2016, 03:15:56 pm »
For me, its both.  8)


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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2016, 05:06:28 pm »
I think it depends on the individual - some people can "grow" to like the other person aka "click" little by little, each by each.

But some need to have the boom-boom-boom fweel de ....i'm someone who goes by boom-boom-boom therefore need to have power of the ring to avoid getting into any mishaps .... :(

I also think hor .... character is something you discover much later in the relationship and if it goes against your value system then it might be a reason for breakup if one's judgement is not already clouded by time vested or BTO flat.
« Last Edit: February 14, 2016, 05:08:39 pm by beaverjuice »
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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #3 on: February 14, 2016, 11:01:28 pm »
For me, can click 55% over character 45%.

I feel there will still be something lacking if we cannot click that well even though the girl may be a very good character. To be on the same wavelength is one thing that is very difficult to achieve so i favour that more.
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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2016, 02:52:45 am »
I logical person. I choose character... it goes a long way.

click is eventually can click de la
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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2016, 09:28:26 am »
Any single girls want to click with me??? My charactder bery good deh~

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2016, 10:52:01 am »
I think it depends on the individual - some people can "grow" to like the other person aka "click" little by little, each by each.

But some need to have the boom-boom-boom fweel de ....i'm someone who goes by boom-boom-boom therefore need to have power of the ring to avoid getting into any mishaps .... :(

I also think hor .... character is something you discover much later in the relationship and if it goes against your value system then it might be a reason for breakup if one's judgement is not already clouded by time vested or BTO flat.

ya i also think character need time to observe one. coz everyone will only show the good side. but only time can really tell the real character of the person.

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #7 on: February 15, 2016, 10:53:46 am »
For me, can click 55% over character 45%.

I feel there will still be something lacking if we cannot click that well even though the girl may be a very good character. To be on the same wavelength is one thing that is very difficult to achieve so i favour that more.

ya i agree with you. other things can compromise or change. but wavelength cannot change one leh hahah

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #8 on: February 15, 2016, 10:54:19 am »
I logical person. I choose character... it goes a long way.

click is eventually can click de la

wah this one i must learn :(
i cannot click with many people. would be nice if can eventually click with them.

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #9 on: February 15, 2016, 10:54:34 am »
Any single girls want to click with me??? My charactder bery good deh~

click click click  ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #10 on: February 15, 2016, 11:07:06 am »
click click click  ;D ;D ;D

 :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[ don't click so fast, I'm a very slow to warm up person...

But what shar said is true. I have a friend who cannot click with her bf at first, but that guy has very good character. After few weeks of complaining about how they cannot click, she slowly started to accept him and find out the good in him. I guess it depends on what one is looking for. Slowly boil soup over a charcoal or a instant soup over a burner.

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #11 on: February 15, 2016, 11:41:16 am »
:-[ :-[ :-[ :-[ don't click so fast, I'm a very slow to warm up person...

But what shar said is true. I have a friend who cannot click with her bf at first, but that guy has very good character. After few weeks of complaining about how they cannot click, she slowly started to accept him and find out the good in him. I guess it depends on what one is looking for. Slowly boil soup over a charcoal or a instant soup over a burner.

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #12 on: February 15, 2016, 11:56:15 am »
祝你心想事成   :P

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #13 on: February 15, 2016, 12:14:09 pm »
both also impt lei. if cannot click is like chicken and duck talk both value not the same.

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Re: Which is more important? Character or can click?
« Reply #14 on: February 15, 2016, 01:49:53 pm »
wah this one i must learn :(
i cannot click with many people. would be nice if can eventually click with them.

if gd character..... eventually can click one.....

if bad character and charming... v fast can click... but v fast decide to turn the other way liao. lol
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