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When was your first love?
« on: November 13, 2015, 05:22:49 pm »
After watching a few movies with first love (初恋) as the theme, it suddenly encouraged me to open that box which contains the memories of my first love. I had this since I broke up with my first love and didn't open it for many many years. Everyone of us has our first love somehow, let's share when was it and how did it happened and end (if it ends).



The introduction

My first love happened during my school days when I was still very green in boy-girl thingy. Prior to this relationship, I was a super shy boy (I am still a shy boy now) that even talking to a girl on general topic makes my face goes red and heart pumping.

There were a few girls in my class and the more pretty one has already been "conquered" wayyy before the first semester starts, just right after the orientation ends. My first love, J (not real name), belongs to the Guai Girl Group (GGG) where everyone attends lesson and study hard. She wasn't that attractive and had a chili padi character. I don't know how, but somehow we managed to talk to each other and know more about each other as time goes by. We started off chatting online more than face to face.

The Date

I would occasionally find chance to talk to her when she is not with her girl group and when I am not with my guy group. I would make it less obvious to people around us but I guess her girl group knew about us already. Our first date happened when I finally mustered courage to ask her out......on MSN (no judging, my fingers were shaking on every letter I typed).

Our date went on quite smoothly...except for a few hiccups where shops are either closed or moved out. So we went to a nearby shopping mall for a walk before she asked her friend to come and meet her. Her friend came about 4pm and so ends our first date. I swear my body was on the verge of collapsing after she left.

The Question


After many days of chatting online and sometimes on the phone, I can sense that the affection between us grew stronger. But I still don't want to be hasty and blow the chance away, I want to make sure everything is solid and right before popping the golden question.

On one night, she suddenly told me that there was this guy chasing her and what he did to woo her. I was panicking at that moment. I don't want my hard work to go to waste just because I take things too carefully. I couldn't sit still, I couldn't stand straight, I was walking up and down in my room.

I just need to call her! So I quickly called her without thinking what am I suppose to say or plan to say. As soon as she answered my call, the first thing I said was "Do you want to be my girlfriend?". I am more stunned than her right after saying this, my body was not mine anymore at that moment. She asked me to give her time to think about it and would give me an answer the next day at school.

The Answer

The next day, we promised to come earlier and meet at the open roof. I was looking like a panda because I couldn't sleep the whole night. That day, xxth of April, 9am, she said "ok". I was so happy and relief, I grabbed her hand and the first word I said was "Thank you very much". Just then, a classmate walked pass and saw us. So spread the news.

We went for our first bf-gf date, we rode bicycle at ECP, we meet each other everyday, we quarrel, we walk every malls in Singapore, we celebrated each others birthday and first year anniversary..ect. We were together for 2 years.

The End

This part could be very long, so I will get straight to the point -

We broke off. She ran away with another man, many things happened. I tried many ways in desperation to get her back but eventually I came to understand that 'what is meant to be yours will be yours'.



So that was my story, sorry for being too long. PB admin should implement a spoiler tag so we can keep it short. Well, hope to read everyone's first love story too and reminisce that bitter sweet feeling.  :-[

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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #1 on: November 13, 2015, 06:24:35 pm »
I had my first BJ by a gal older than i by 1 year in the PS underpass ...

Okay, this isn't a love story but still it taught me a lot about the myriad interpretations of love between man and woman. I still reminisce about the awakening and the journey - at least for a young man like me (i was young once) that guys frequently mistake sex for love and dig themselves into all kinds of shithole. The opposite for a woman is something i would distill in time.

Short but bittersweet .... my first "love".
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #2 on: November 13, 2015, 09:28:22 pm »
I had my first BJ by a gal older than i by 1 year in the PS underpass ...

Okay, this isn't a love story but still it taught me a lot about the myriad interpretations of love between man and woman. I still reminisce about the awakening and the journey - at least for a young man like me (i was young once) that guys frequently mistake sex for love and dig themselves into all kinds of shithole. The opposite for a woman is something i would distill in time.

Short but bittersweet .... my first "love".
huh?????
wad?????
did your acct get hacked.
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #3 on: November 13, 2015, 09:29:39 pm »
if definition  of first love is being tgt den I still currently in.. cannot share my story 😶😶😶
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #4 on: November 13, 2015, 09:36:25 pm »
huh?????
wad?????
did your acct get hacked.
Yah ... no secure password log-in on this forum .... caveat emptor :(
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #5 on: November 13, 2015, 10:03:25 pm »
Is first love = first bf?  ???

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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #6 on: November 13, 2015, 10:06:49 pm »
Is first love = first bf?  ???

think so?
u can't rmb ah.
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #7 on: November 13, 2015, 10:19:00 pm »
Is first love = first bf?  ???
@nomnom - the one that you gave your heart to lorrrr ...  :-[
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #8 on: November 13, 2015, 10:27:10 pm »
My story...

Girl meets boy online.
Girl likes boy and boy likes girl.
But boy relocates to another country to work.
Still remains as friends until now.

The End.

 8)

But this is only pertaining to a boy that i liked very much. Hmm... dunnoe considered 1st love or not?!
And the complexity is, i had a bf before i met this boy. Hmm...
« Last Edit: November 13, 2015, 10:32:43 pm by nomnom »

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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2015, 10:36:06 pm »
My story...

Girl meets boy online.
Girl likes boy and boy likes girl.
But boy relocates to another country to work.
Still remains as friends until now.

The End.

 8)

But this is only pertaining to a boy that i liked very much. Hmm... dunnoe considered 1st love or not?!
And the complexity is, i had a bf before i met this boy. Hmm...

wah if I the bf I dam sad. nt even your first love haha.
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #10 on: November 13, 2015, 10:42:01 pm »
wah if I the bf I dam sad. nt even your first love haha.

I also liked the 1st bf, thats why i chased after him. However, also not for long coz 1st bf went overseas to study. But comparing like that, i think i like the 2nd guy more than the 1st.
Then, to think of it, maybe i love my current bf the most loh. Coz we are together for more than 2 years liao. Hmm...

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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #11 on: November 13, 2015, 10:44:14 pm »
I also liked the 1st bf, thats why i chased after him. However, also not for long coz 1st bf went overseas to study. But comparing like that, i think i like the 2nd guy more than the 1st.
Then, to think of it, maybe i love my current bf the most loh. Coz we are together for more than 2 years liao. Hmm...

Waoo u chase the guy.
me cannot tell the degree of like or love.
it's probably the effect of chemicals on the brain.

only know after my first pain I made a sound and logical decision.

have him to thank. 😁
« Last Edit: November 13, 2015, 10:46:30 pm by happyshar »
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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #12 on: November 13, 2015, 10:48:47 pm »
Waoo u chase the guy.
me cannot tell the degree of like or love.
it's probably effect of chemicals on the brain.

only know after my first pain I made a sound and logical decision.

have him to thank. 😁

Yup. I chased after guys if i like them. All my bfs are chased by me. I made the first move. I asked them if they want to be my bf. ✌ Wahahaha...

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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #13 on: November 13, 2015, 10:49:10 pm »
sound and logical decision.


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Re: When was your first love?
« Reply #14 on: November 13, 2015, 10:50:19 pm »
Yup. I chased after guys if i like them. All my bfs are chased by me. I made the first move. I asked them if they want to be my bf. ✌ Wahahaha...

wah steady.
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