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« on: December 29, 2015, 10:47:39 pm »
Got anger management issues...

N if he is a dependable person?

I really hate guys who flair up over nothing n treat me as his target board...

N I am very scared of this n that n if anything happen I will feel hopeless...really needs someone who can do things...action action not say say only person lo

So if I go dating how do I find out if he fulfils my two criteria when u first date him?

 I dun need him handsome or what...just as long as is the above can Liao...n dun anyhow spend money...

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« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2015, 10:56:51 pm »
Got anger management issues...

N if he is a dependable person?

I really hate guys who flair up over nothing n treat me as his target board...

N I am very scared of this n that n if anything happen I will feel hopeless...really needs someone who can do things...action action not say say only person lo

So if I go dating how do I find out if he fulfils my two criteria when u first date him?

 I dun need him handsome or what...just as long as is the above can Liao...n dun anyhow spend money...

Both of your criteria need observation over time . Those live around him understands him the best.

You seem to be looking at the lack of flaws in a person rather than the outstanding parts of a person though ...  :o Or might be suffering a rebound from an abusive relationship. Seek therapy or some sort of listening ear
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« Reply #2 on: December 29, 2015, 10:57:45 pm »
Honestly you can't tell from the first date whether the fella is going to treat you like a floormat.
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« Reply #3 on: December 29, 2015, 11:06:09 pm »
You won't be able to tell deh.
Most likely, he will be hiding it very well from you during the initial dating stage. After you guys become a couple, then the signs will start showing liao...


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« Reply #4 on: December 29, 2015, 11:09:03 pm »
maybe can test him by "forgetting" your wallet and being late by 1 hour .....  :-X
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« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2015, 12:16:20 am »
You won't be able to tell deh.
Most likely, he will be hiding it very well from you during the initial dating stage. After you guys become a couple, then the signs will start showing liao...

U never see those news the bf is abusive and will scold n slap and kill the gf

Some in India or Taiwan will pour acid

Got SG guys go stab the girl or the new bf also

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« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2015, 12:17:48 am »
Honestly you can't tell from the first date whether the fella is going to treat you like a floormat.

Dun have time to spend on a guy n move on n spend n move on Leh...best is first date can tell then move forward...

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« Reply #7 on: December 30, 2015, 12:19:13 am »
Both of your criteria need observation over time . Those live around him understands him the best.

You seem to be looking at the lack of flaws in a person rather than the outstanding parts of a person though ...  :o Or might be suffering a rebound from an abusive relationship. Seek therapy or some sort of listening ear

Of cos must know the flaws...

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« Reply #8 on: December 30, 2015, 12:53:30 am »
U will need time to know a guy thoroughly. U can only shorten the time if the guy is someone u have known for a long time, or is someone recommended by ur friends whom they have known for a period of time.
All in all, it is impossible to see thru a person on the first date, they will put in their best actor performance.  ;D ;D
Dont because of urgency and haphazardly judge a person and worst, make a wrong decision that will come back to haunt u.
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« Reply #9 on: December 30, 2015, 02:51:52 am »
Dun have time to spend on a guy n move on n spend n move on Leh...best is first date can tell then move forward...

er how abt stay single?
den save the trouble. no meet to first date can move on.
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« Reply #10 on: December 30, 2015, 08:41:50 am »
er how abt stay single?
den save the trouble. no meet to first date can move on.

I suppose to some people, choosing a boyfren is like shopping like that de .... how can?  :(
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« Reply #11 on: December 30, 2015, 09:23:43 am »
these kind only time will tell la. unless you want him on first date. spend few hr on these EQ, Personality Test etc... ...


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« Reply #12 on: December 30, 2015, 09:44:22 am »
Honestly you can't tell from the first date whether the fella is going to treat you like a floormat.

You will only be a doormat if you let him treat you like one...

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« Reply #13 on: December 30, 2015, 09:45:12 am »
You will only be a doormat if you let him treat you like one...

this one I agree.

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« Reply #14 on: December 30, 2015, 12:00:17 pm »
I dun wan marry siaolang

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