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what should my next move be?
« on: July 13, 2015, 11:31:30 pm »
so there is this guy i'm seeing now and he seems like a really good catch. nice guy and in a decent profession.

thing is, we are going out and all but there doesn't seem to be much initiative on his part. so far, everything seems to be coming from my end. i want to know him more but i'm afraid that i might be overdoing things at this rate. any advice on how to move forward without being too... i dunno, pushy?

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #1 on: July 13, 2015, 11:57:23 pm »
It depends on how much you like the guy.
if u really like, just be more assertive.
whatsapp him more and ask him whether he is free next weekend or so...

asking someone out should be quite okay.

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #2 on: July 14, 2015, 09:38:54 am »
nowadays it is common for girls to make the first move and let him know how you feel. if you feel uncomfortable doing that, drop obvious hints. see how he responds.
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2015, 09:07:47 pm »
Maybe u can hint him ...


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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2015, 09:21:35 am »
Maybe u can hint him ...
yeah there is public holiday soon this friday.

just ask him what he is doing. if he sayings nothing, ask him if he like to go for a movie or coffee...
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2015, 04:04:57 pm »
yes, I agree, be pro-active... good luck! :)
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2015, 05:57:59 pm »
 :-[ :-[ :-[

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #7 on: July 17, 2015, 09:49:11 am »
:-[ :-[ :-[

eh off topic a bit, nice shoes in ur profile pic! hahaha where can buy?

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #8 on: July 17, 2015, 09:49:49 pm »
eh off topic a bit, nice shoes in ur profile pic! hahaha where can buy?

haha i don't own them... would love to though.

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #9 on: October 28, 2015, 02:02:08 pm »
relationship is a power struggle,  whoever has more power is winner .....

girls are meant to be chased,  men are born to hunt.
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2015, 02:26:04 pm »
so there is this guy i'm seeing now and he seems like a really good catch. nice guy and in a decent profession.

thing is, we are going out and all but there doesn't seem to be much initiative on his part. so far, everything seems to be coming from my end. i want to know him more but i'm afraid that i might be overdoing things at this rate. any advice on how to move forward without being too... i dunno, pushy?

How much his salary?

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #11 on: October 28, 2015, 03:06:31 pm »
so there is this guy i'm seeing now and he seems like a really good catch. nice guy and in a decent profession.

thing is, we are going out and all but there doesn't seem to be much initiative on his part. so far, everything seems to be coming from my end. i want to know him more but i'm afraid that i might be overdoing things at this rate. any advice on how to move forward without being too... i dunno, pushy?

What do u mean by good catch? Elaborate more?

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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #12 on: October 28, 2015, 04:15:50 pm »
so there is this guy i'm seeing now and he seems like a really good catch. nice guy and in a decent profession.

u]thing is, we are going out and all but there doesn't seem to be much initiative on his part[/b. so far, everything seems to be coming from my end. i want to know him more but i'm afraid that i might be overdoing things at this rate. any advice on how to move forward without being too... i dunno, pushy?

I think "amount of" initiative is subjective and vary from one person to another.

Let's say he is a super duper boring person, but he is already trying very hard to be only a boring person when hanging out with you. Sometimes guys don't want to appear too clingy or boring as well... like everything msg you "how's ur day", "have you eaten" etc...

I think you should find out first if he is interested in you, or he is scouting for other gals at the same time.
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #13 on: October 28, 2015, 05:31:18 pm »
hmm have u guys gone a date 1 to 1 before already?

i think u can drop hints to show that you are interested.
and if he dont response there might be 2 reasons 1)he have no interest in you :( 2)he didnt get the hint haha
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Re: what should my next move be?
« Reply #14 on: October 28, 2015, 06:32:03 pm »
As the others said u got to make the 1st move, show him some signs use your words n body language to to show him how much interesting u are to him. if u dont make the move n he doesnt then its a stale mate dull and boring.