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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #45 on: July 10, 2018, 07:21:13 am »
Like serina wee?
Strangely married men gives off less manly vibes... less attractive

serina wee and regina kam are EDMWers goddess lai de ..... they are obsessed with both of them ..... I can understand serina wee but regina is really SMH .... ::)

don't get into trouble with married men's wives .... really not worth .....
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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #46 on: July 10, 2018, 10:58:19 am »
He is unavailable guy la.
Bad unavailable guy enjoys this type of lifestyle because it is minimal cost n maximal benefits.
Good unavailable guy dont invest in r/s anymore due to reasons.
Anyway both r unavailable. Haha.
U r hving the perception that he will be emotionally hurt.
I think there's higher Risk that he might be physically hurt.

Hmm let me Guess , unavailable is in terms of emotionally unavailable?

Good unavailable guys?? ???  There’s such a guy too? Sry can u pls shed some light?

That’s true. Physical hurt is more likely to happen than emotional hurt since he already knew what he was in for right from the start.

Yup but weird thing is why do I still care so much when the person has clearly let go and enjoying his new r/s?
Ultimately I still cannot let go, which I have to.
I only waste my own time and energy .
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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #47 on: July 10, 2018, 11:01:55 am »
serina wee and regina kam are EDMWers goddess lai de ..... they are obsessed with both of them ..... I can understand serina wee but regina is really SMH .... ::)

don't get into trouble with married men's wives .... really not worth .....

These two sounds juicy .. who are they ah? 😂

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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #48 on: July 10, 2018, 11:10:32 am »
you're still holding out a candle for him and hanging on to hope ..... which obviously is not helping matters.

put this person behind you and look forward .... he's not worth it ... you must remember this.

Yes , you are right. When I still harp on all the why and what if . All these are all false hopes that I have been thinking abt.

I know I shld accept the situation as it is , and stop trying to fix broken pieces, and move on?

I hated myself too when I’m still hoping against all hope.
 Somehow I don’t know how to pull myself out of this vicious cycle.

Another told me not to harp over why and finding answers anymore. They no longer matter now. All these answers I’m looking for isn’t helping me to letting go.
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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #49 on: July 10, 2018, 12:47:17 pm »
These two sounds juicy .. who are they ah? 😂

LOL .... ;D  .... I dare not show regina kum .... wait you need 10 years to unlearn and forget what you see ....
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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #50 on: July 10, 2018, 12:48:15 pm »
Yes , you are right. When I still harp on all the why and what if . All these are all false hopes that I have been thinking abt.

I know I shld accept the situation as it is , and stop trying to fix broken pieces, and move on?

I hated myself too when I’m still hoping against all hope.
 Somehow I don’t know how to pull myself out of this vicious cycle.

Another told me not to harp over why and finding answers anymore. They no longer matter now. All these answers I’m looking for isn’t helping me to letting go.


yup .... that is very sound advice ....

jiayous !  gambatte !
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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #51 on: July 10, 2018, 01:30:29 pm »
yup .... that is very sound advice ....

jiayous !  gambatte !

Thanks Uncle BJ:)

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Re: What should I do now ?
« Reply #52 on: July 10, 2018, 02:26:12 pm »
Hmm let me Guess , unavailable is in terms of emotionally unavailable?

Good unavailable guys?? ???  There’s such a guy too? Sry can u pls shed some light?

That’s true. Physical hurt is more likely to happen than emotional hurt since he already knew what he was in for right from the start.

Yup but weird thing is why do I still care so much when the person has clearly let go and enjoying his new r/s?
Ultimately I still cannot let go, which I have to.
I only waste my own time and energy .

Good unavailable guys previously invested but lost the investment badly so rather go for no strings attached. Either being cheated on or something else
For e.g. knew of a person whose gf passed away and after that become like dat.

That's y I say life is short, cherish the time.
Not everyone live to the country average lifespan.
It's a wildcard  :-X
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没有心,就不会痛 😉

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« Reply #53 on: July 10, 2018, 02:54:40 pm »
Good unavailable guys previously invested but lost the investment badly so rather go for no strings attached. Either being cheated on or something else
For e.g. knew of a person whose gf passed away and after that become like dat.

That's y I say life is short, cherish the time.
Not everyone live to the country average lifespan.
It's a wildcard  :-X

Oh I get it now. Thanks :)

Yes , life is short , and we don’t know when is our expiry date on earth.
Cherish the present , now. Whatever is the past, let it be. You cannot change anything... my turn to remember this phrase.
And stop looking at what had went by.
Focus on myself and my own wellbeing. Nothing else matter more than my own health and soul.

Thanks @happyshar  and Uncle @beaverjuice for all the advices here :) very much appreciated!



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