Recently she meet up with a guy he met in Taiwan during her solo trip.. After she came back this is where the she mention break up.. I don’t know could this also be possible her heart stray.. All I could say during her trip I was supportive of her and even pay for her accommodation.
I felt like my trust issue with a relationship has been tarnished and afraid of trusting in future.. which all the while during this relationship we do not have any trust issue and I trust her totally..
(1) look at it this way, if she had not gone on the Taiwan trip she wouldn't have cleared her head and made up her mind right?
(2) lesson learnt for you - money ie. paying for her accommodation doesn't solve the problem with relationships
(3) don't let a black sheep tar the whole lot. each relationship is unique. you shouldn't carry the baggage from one relationship to another. it is difficult but you must stop yourself from doing so and learn to trust again
it is okay to outgrow a relationship. sometimes it takes a while to get there to realize that you weren't made for each other anymore. I would like to think of it as a door closing and other doors opening elsewhere. don't lose sight of the forest because of one tree.
make use of the time to better yourself, take a course, work harder at your career etc
