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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #15 on: December 26, 2017, 02:18:45 am »
Seems like guys always more vulnerable in r/s.

If no sexual advances yet should be easy to move on.  ??? Now there's like no costs involved to move on
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I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #16 on: December 26, 2017, 09:42:45 am »
Seems like guys always more vulnerable in r/s.

If no sexual advances yet should be easy to move on.  ??? Now there's like no costs involved to move on

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #17 on: December 26, 2017, 07:44:01 pm »
Hmmm .... that she "cares" is an oxymoron if she doesn't give a rats arse on your concern that she is not communicative enough in the r/s right?

And even as she acknowledge that there is a problem, she attempts to do zilch to salvage? That is not caring,  that's indifference ...

As i have said to many gals on flowerpod - buying breakfast, lunch, dinner and supper everyday doesn't make a guy special or worth marrying.  A good fren can do the same.

I just told her my ex contacted me. She just “lol” without even asking me anything.

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #18 on: December 26, 2017, 07:45:05 pm »
You are in a lesbian relationship????

I’m a guy. I felt this forum is good to get what girl is thinking as there is more genuine ladies as compare to other forums.


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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #19 on: December 26, 2017, 08:06:38 pm »
I just told her my ex contacted me. She just “lol” without even asking me anything.

Are you usually quite "sticky" type. Like need to contact throughout the day everyday and night. But yet when it comes to dating activities you are clueless on where to bring her and require her input always.

Think maybe she is getting really bored and low investment.

Show some alpha traits lehhh.

Her love language probably not fulfilled and she has probably communicated to you before.
« Last Edit: December 26, 2017, 08:10:27 pm by happyshar »
I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #20 on: December 26, 2017, 08:17:43 pm »
Are you usually quite "sticky" type. Like need to contact throughout the day everyday and night. But yet when it comes to dating activities you are clueless on where to bring her and require her input always.

Think maybe she is getting really bored and low investment.

Show some alpha traits lehhh.

Her love language probably not fulfilled and she has probably communicated to you before.

I’m definitely not those sticky type of guy. Having said I’m quite run out of dating ideas. Maybe old liao just wanna be practical.

What do you mean love language?

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #21 on: December 27, 2017, 12:08:36 am »
I’m definitely not those sticky type of guy. Having said I’m quite run out of dating ideas. Maybe old liao just wanna be practical.

What do you mean love language?

If you want to be practical,  it is better to fly solo and be single ....
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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #22 on: December 28, 2017, 12:57:25 pm »
If you want to be practical,  it is better to fly solo and be single ....

We was arranging for some CNY eve reunion dinner.. and we have to visit each other family to have dinner and build rapport. Of course time may crash so I suggested her ideas to work around.. but she asked why must go and not like married yet.. fyi she did attend last year. She is e one not willing to accommodate each other schedule and work together.. I’m just very dissappointed she think this way.

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #23 on: December 28, 2017, 03:36:29 pm »
We was arranging for some CNY eve reunion dinner.. and we have to visit each other family to have dinner and build rapport. Of course time may crash so I suggested her ideas to work around.. but she asked why must go and not like married yet.. fyi she did attend last year. She is e one not willing to accommodate each other schedule and work together.. I’m just very dissappointed she think this way.

From the way she says it seems like she's waiting for you to initiate breakup Cz she's not interested anymore.
I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #24 on: January 03, 2018, 12:17:03 am »
From the way she says it seems like she's waiting for you to initiate breakup Cz she's not interested anymore.

I share the same sentiments... perhaps she really isn't interested in a relationship anymore...

by the way, if you interested in a bit of astrology, Libras tend to be indecisive when it comes to choices haha... random sidenote

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #25 on: January 03, 2018, 03:15:41 pm »
It's either waiting u to initiate breakup or frustrated with a long overdue proposal.  :-[

She is Libra?  ???
I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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Re: What should I do?
« Reply #26 on: February 03, 2018, 04:09:45 pm »
We was arranging for some CNY eve reunion dinner.. and we have to visit each other family to have dinner and build rapport. Of course time may crash so I suggested her ideas to work around.. but she asked why must go and not like married yet.. fyi she did attend last year. She is e one not willing to accommodate each other schedule and work together.. I’m just very dissappointed she think this way.


If she think that way then probably it’s time to let go, no point of holding on to something so tightly and hurting yourself... probably when u leave she will know what is she missing. Good luck!