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What is she thinking?
« on: July 18, 2016, 07:16:53 pm »
A girl rejected me when i confessed to her and i took it well and moved on. But after a few months had passed, now she is pissed with me for moving on.. Even her friends were pissed with me?! What wrong have i done?

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #1 on: July 18, 2016, 07:24:30 pm »
Move on as fall in love with another girl?  Hong long u take to move on?

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #2 on: July 18, 2016, 07:26:46 pm »
A girl rejected me when i confessed to her and i took it well and moved on. But after a few months had passed, now she is pissed with me for moving on.. Even her friends were pissed with me?! What wrong have i done?

Unless there is a missing part to your storey. It could be a case of what she might have shared with her friends which cause them to be pissed with you.

But if you have moved on, dont see why you need to be bothered by them. Life goes on if you have a proper closure with the lady.
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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #3 on: July 18, 2016, 07:30:45 pm »
Unless there is a missing part to your storey. It could be a case of what she might have shared with her friends which cause them to be pissed with you.

But if you have moved on, dont see why you need to be bothered by them. Life goes on if you have a proper closure with the lady.

I did nothing for the past few mths. Not even a single text or call to her. Even deleted her number. Treat her like a common friend without much interaction after the rejection. Sometimes don't even bother to ack her existance when i walked past her. Liddat considered offending??  So i have left out a part. She "rejected" me by ignoring my confession text. Never send her more texts after that confession text.


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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #4 on: July 18, 2016, 07:31:20 pm »
Move on as fall in love with another girl?  Hong long u take to move on?

Yes. Chase other girls. Around 5 mths to move on.

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #5 on: July 18, 2016, 07:50:58 pm »
Maybe to them u move on too fast.. And it quite rude to ignore ppl. Existence tat might be wad they are angry at ba?  School mate?

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #6 on: July 18, 2016, 08:08:28 pm »
Maybe to them u move on too fast.. And it quite rude to ignore ppl. Existence tat might be wad they are angry at ba?  School mate?

Move on too fast? Seriously? Did she expects me to linger around her for some time like a dog just to fuel her own ego? Yes school mate.

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #7 on: July 18, 2016, 08:14:35 pm »
A girl rejected me when i confessed to her and i took it well and moved on. But after a few months had passed, now she is pissed with me for moving on.. Even her friends were pissed with me?! What wrong have i done?

sorry on behalf of the ladies... there are some ladies out there who may have preferred that u doubled your effort and continued chasing (but not to the extend of stalking)
its not your fault... i think its a emotion thing.

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #8 on: July 18, 2016, 08:42:59 pm »
sorry on behalf of the ladies... there are some ladies out there who may have preferred that u doubled your effort and continued chasing (but not to the extend of stalking)
its not your fault... i think its a emotion thing.

Got it. I will just ignore her as usual. Not gonna give a hoot about someone who rejected people rudely by ignoring text then dish shits behind his back for moving on. There are too many trees to focus on than one particular tree.

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #9 on: July 18, 2016, 09:10:42 pm »
I did nothing for the past few mths. Not even a single text or call to her. Even deleted her number. Treat her like a common friend without much interaction after the rejection. Sometimes don't even bother to ack her existance when i walked past her. Liddat considered offending??  So i have left out a part. She "rejected" me by ignoring my confession text. Never send her more texts after that confession text.
Considering that she didn't even acknowledge your text in the 1st place, I think you did nothing wrong at all.  But if you want to be 100% sure, confessions should be done in person lah..
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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #10 on: July 18, 2016, 09:41:01 pm »
No.1 rule. Never confess ....  8)

PS: why i have this feeling of deja vu !  :o
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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #11 on: July 18, 2016, 09:59:19 pm »
Move on too fast? Seriously? Did she expects me to linger around her for some time like a dog just to fuel her own ego? Yes school mate.

If the other girl know she will. Rejected u too.

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #12 on: July 18, 2016, 10:03:58 pm »
If the other girl know she will. Rejected u too.

Then please give me some suggestions as to deal with this situation. I don't want my rep to be tarnished by some crazies for some offences that i did not commit. Now i finally realises the difference between GIRLS and WOMEN. Lmao

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #13 on: July 18, 2016, 10:07:18 pm »
I feel first the girls feel he not sincere by confessing through a msg.  Second being rude by ignoring and treating the girl. As transparent when they are school mate.  It make him seem petty very petty.  Go after another girl. When he cannot even let go aft 5 month.  Mean you are not really interested in her .


Even if he manage to woo the nxt girl once she find out abt him like another girl before her.  He get rejected than chase after her.. It will left a bad taste in her.

Girl brain work in a way,  guy dun understand as we ourselves also dun know how our brain work

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Re: What is she thinking?
« Reply #14 on: July 18, 2016, 10:10:16 pm »
Then please give me some suggestions as to deal with this situation. I don't want my rep to be tarnished by some crazies for some offences that i did not commit. Now i finally realises the difference between GIRLS and WOMEN. Lmao

It alrdy tarnish boy.. Now to them you u arr a despo and petty pig.

I think you should just let go and dun treat ppl like transparent.. Just act as if nothing had happen.. Hopefully they  will forget abt it soon.