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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #30 on: October 16, 2015, 09:45:21 am »
Turn off.......
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #31 on: October 16, 2015, 09:55:18 am »
I had went out with a guy a few time in my younger days. The chap is a very earnest chap and i pretty like him. Two years my senior, working as a bank executive.

Then it was my birthday. He asked me out to go for movie. I was okay since it was a weekend and i only have appointment at dinner time. So after the movie, we had decided to have lunch at Macdonald, He said want to treat me as it was my birthday. I was like okay.

Then he give me a strange cd case and said that it was my birthday gift. I couldn't tell what CD was that. And after way through the lunch, he said that he liked me and wanted me to be his SO.

I don't know how do you all feel about it. Personally i had received a few confession before and this was the worst one and i feel a sense of insincerity as the place plus the mood wasn't right. I felt that he was trying to push his luck. There was an awkward silence for awhile and he pressed the answer. I told him that i need to think about it

When i was home, i opened up the cd and it was those recordable CD. Inside were the songs he burnt from his mp3. I felt insulted. The gift was lack of sincerity too. I don't mind he don't give anything. But i felt that the gift was really a lack of effort on his part.

The birthday and the confession probably cost him no more than $30. It just spoil my mood for the rest of the day. T T

Subsequently I rejected him over sms and avoid any form of contacts. His sms blasted me saying that he had better choice than me and that i should feel honored that he asked me instead. It was a few weeks of hell after that which i threatened to make a police report.

I heard that he got several rejection after that.....

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #32 on: October 16, 2015, 10:49:20 am »
sometimes is not the CD, but the contents inside. it could be a carefully curated set of songs that maybe show his feelings for you, or spells some other message.
but i do agree the macs and the sms asking you to be honored is not right.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #33 on: October 16, 2015, 10:52:37 am »
Stingy men with big ego is alright as long he's white men and earns >10k every month. I'll gladly make sandwiches for him in the kitchen every day.


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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #34 on: October 16, 2015, 03:23:13 pm »
Turn off.......

actually stingy man is okay...
i dont like guys with big ego.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #35 on: October 16, 2015, 03:23:30 pm »
Tell me about your wedding proposal if you will be having one in your life time. It will make a another good story to tell my friends when I'm bored.

i second that!

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #36 on: October 29, 2015, 02:57:05 pm »
If a man is really stingy, during their dates, always make you pay, do not buy you any gifts, if buy also those cheap cheap useless kind, and have a big ego, always think he is right, everyone else is wrong. What do you think of such person? Have you encounter anyone similar like this before?  :(

ermmm ..... there won't be second dates for sure .....  :P

anyways,  got one friend always bring gals on dates to his Island Country Club movie nites because it is free ..... he doesn't get second dates .....  :-\  ..... and he parks his car outside CBD when bringing his date for shopping/dinner, poor gal has to walk some distance in her 5-inch stilletos .... #truestory
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #37 on: October 29, 2015, 03:02:00 pm »
ermmm ..... there won't be second dates for sure .....  :P

anyways,  got one friend always bring gals on dates to his Island Country Club movie nites because it is free ..... he doesn't get second dates .....  :-\  ..... and he parks his car outside CBD when bringing his date for shopping/dinner, poor gal has to walk some distance in her 5-inch stilletos .... #truestory

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #38 on: October 29, 2015, 03:16:25 pm »
Don't underestimate ladies. They can from Orchard MRT (Ion) shop until Dhobby MRT (Plaza Sing) one ;D

only insofar as shopping is concerned right? ??? ..... there will be wind beneath their wings when the "Sale" sign acts as a beacon of hope ..... 

last week my boss employed a very chio temp admin ...... phuiyoooohhhhhhh ...... now everyday I don't have to drag myself to work and I walk with a renewed spring in my steps and vigour in my demeanor ... boing..... boing .... boing ....
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #39 on: October 29, 2015, 06:42:33 pm »
If a man is really stingy, during their dates, always make you pay, do not buy you any gifts, if buy also those cheap cheap useless kind, and have a big ego, always think he is right, everyone else is wrong. What do you think of such person? Have you encounter anyone similar like this before?  :(

i wont even be going out or associating myself with such a person in the first place.  :-\
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