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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2015, 10:47:06 pm »
I had went out with a guy a few time in my younger days. The chap is a very earnest chap and i pretty like him. Two years my senior, working as a bank executive.

Then it was my birthday. He asked me out to go for movie. I was okay since it was a weekend and i only have appointment at dinner time. So after the movie, we had decided to have lunch at Macdonald, He said want to treat me as it was my birthday. I was like okay.

Then he give me a strange cd case and said that it was my birthday gift. I couldn't tell what CD was that. And after way through the lunch, he said that he liked me and wanted me to be his SO.

I don't know how do you all feel about it. Personally i had received a few confession before and this was the worst one and i feel a sense of insincerity as the place plus the mood wasn't right. I felt that he was trying to push his luck. There was an awkward silence for awhile and he pressed the answer. I told him that i need to think about it

When i was home, i opened up the cd and it was those recordable CD. Inside were the songs he burnt from his mp3. I felt insulted. The gift was lack of sincerity too. I don't mind he don't give anything. But i felt that the gift was really a lack of effort on his part.

The birthday and the confession probably cost him no more than $30. It just spoil my mood for the rest of the day. T T

Subsequently I rejected him over sms and avoid any form of contacts. His sms blasted me saying that he had better choice than me and that i should feel honored that he asked me instead. It was a few weeks of hell after that which i threatened to make a police report.

I heard that he got several rejection after that.....


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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2015, 10:52:30 pm »
When i was home, i opened up the cd and it was those recordable CD. Inside were the songs he burnt from his mp3. I felt insulted. The gift was lack of sincerity too. I don't mind he don't give anything. But i felt that the gift was really a lack of effort on his part.

He might have spent hours and hours burning that CD

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #17 on: October 15, 2015, 10:54:03 pm »
He might have spent hours and hours burning that CD

I rather he just give me a card with his own writing.

Burning a cd does not have an personal touch. Sure i gain a cd but it doesn't have any meaning at all.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #18 on: October 15, 2015, 10:56:14 pm »
Why are u even dating someone like that?

Tough times calls for tough measures  :(
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #19 on: October 16, 2015, 08:14:01 am »
I had went out with a guy a few time in my younger days. The chap is a very earnest chap and i pretty like him. Two years my senior, working as a bank executive.

Then it was my birthday. He asked me out to go for movie. I was okay since it was a weekend and i only have appointment at dinner time. So after the movie, we had decided to have lunch at Macdonald, He said want to treat me as it was my birthday. I was like okay.

Then he give me a strange cd case and said that it was my birthday gift. I couldn't tell what CD was that. And after way through the lunch, he said that he liked me and wanted me to be his SO.

I don't know how do you all feel about it. Personally i had received a few confession before and this was the worst one and i feel a sense of insincerity as the place plus the mood wasn't right. I felt that he was trying to push his luck. There was an awkward silence for awhile and he pressed the answer. I told him that i need to think about it

When i was home, i opened up the cd and it was those recordable CD. Inside were the songs he burnt from his mp3. I felt insulted. The gift was lack of sincerity too. I don't mind he don't give anything. But i felt that the gift was really a lack of effort on his part.

The birthday and the confession probably cost him no more than $30. It just spoil my mood for the rest of the day. T T

Subsequently I rejected him over sms and avoid any form of contacts. His sms blasted me saying that he had better choice than me and that i should feel honored that he asked me instead. It was a few weeks of hell after that which i threatened to make a police report.

I heard that he got several rejection after that.....

he must be an investor. hoping for high risk high returns.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #20 on: October 16, 2015, 08:34:33 am »
Huai chiu so materialistic?
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #21 on: October 16, 2015, 08:43:32 am »
He might have spent hours and hours burning that CD
Yeah, and maybe his internet back then was slow. 10 min to download 1 MP3 track. If 30 songs that means he spent 5 hours downloading, excluding search time.

And to add, then there isn't many unlimited internet data plan. I remember got those like 1GB/mth one. Exceed need to pay a lot.
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #22 on: October 16, 2015, 08:46:59 am »
Yeah, and maybe his internet back then was slow. 10 min to download 1 MP3 track. If 30 songs that means he spent 5 hours downloading, excluding search time.

And to add, then there isn't many unlimited internet data plan. I remember got those like 1GB/mth one. Exceed need to pay a lot.

Now a days, girls dont see the hard work we put in already.
All see money...........
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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #23 on: October 16, 2015, 09:04:57 am »
Now a days, girls dont see the hard work we put in already.
All see money...........
Some will and some don't lah. Those that don't see also don't think.

They don't understand why guys are so "fixated" about their height when gals say no 1.75m no go steady.

They also don't understand why guys have little time for them after official working hours when gals say no 6k or 7k no marry.
Freedom is the right of all sentient beings.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #24 on: October 16, 2015, 09:07:53 am »
Most of our local Singaporean men are stingy.
From buying a meal to buying a house or weddings expenses, very unwilling to fork out more.

That's why I prefer Korean guys

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #25 on: October 16, 2015, 09:31:00 am »
I had went out with a guy a few time in my younger days. The chap is a very earnest chap and i pretty like him. Two years my senior, working as a bank executive.

Then it was my birthday. He asked me out to go for movie. I was okay since it was a weekend and i only have appointment at dinner time. So after the movie, we had decided to have lunch at Macdonald, He said want to treat me as it was my birthday. I was like okay.

Then he give me a strange cd case and said that it was my birthday gift. I couldn't tell what CD was that. And after way through the lunch, he said that he liked me and wanted me to be his SO.

I don't know how do you all feel about it. Personally i had received a few confession before and this was the worst one and i feel a sense of insincerity as the place plus the mood wasn't right. I felt that he was trying to push his luck. There was an awkward silence for awhile and he pressed the answer. I told him that i need to think about it

When i was home, i opened up the cd and it was those recordable CD. Inside were the songs he burnt from his mp3. I felt insulted. The gift was lack of sincerity too. I don't mind he don't give anything. But i felt that the gift was really a lack of effort on his part.

The birthday and the confession probably cost him no more than $30. It just spoil my mood for the rest of the day. T T

Subsequently I rejected him over sms and avoid any form of contacts. His sms blasted me saying that he had better choice than me and that i should feel honored that he asked me instead. It was a few weeks of hell after that which i threatened to make a police report.

I heard that he got several rejection after that.....

can expose that loser? want to know how that loser looks like.

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #26 on: October 16, 2015, 09:33:38 am »
can expose that loser? want to know how that loser looks like.

We lost contact for many years

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #27 on: October 16, 2015, 09:36:45 am »
We lost contact for many years

Good morn Wu Mei Niang!  :)

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #28 on: October 16, 2015, 09:37:05 am »
Good morn Wu Mei Niang!  :)

Morning  :)

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Re: What do you all think about stingy man with big ego?
« Reply #29 on: October 16, 2015, 09:40:30 am »
I believe in give and take, it's ok to be aware of the money matters as we are living in Singapore. However, if one is always stuck with a miser and egoistic mentality and no one to inform or guide them, they will keep walking on this dark lonely path. What do you think? Will you tell them or just let them be? :-\
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