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What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« on: March 26, 2016, 04:53:10 pm »
1. Interest test
2. Loyalty test
3. Boundary "limit" test
4. Jealousy test

What more?

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #1 on: March 26, 2016, 05:09:59 pm »
not only on guys bah.

I always do this test of... if I'm dumb, happy, easily exploited, vulnerable, easily "bluffed". what kinds of stunts would ppl perform on me.

so far.. no one has passed this test yet.
they'll leech and suck u dry.
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #2 on: March 26, 2016, 06:05:47 pm »
I think top 3 must be "financial acumen" test.  see how a guy spends his salary. too tight-fisted is no good, too spendthrift also no good.

Make sure he doesn't drag you down the blackhole.....
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #3 on: March 26, 2016, 06:17:05 pm »
The ones I know always test my patience.
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #4 on: March 26, 2016, 09:07:10 pm »
not only on guys bah.

I always do this test of... if I'm dumb, happy, easily exploited, vulnerable, easily "bluffed". what kinds of stunts would ppl perform on me.

so far.. no one has passed this test yet.
they'll leech and suck u dry.

My past experience is that some girls "play games" to the extent that it feels like I have to "ask for permission" from her. I feel that she duno her own league, she is not even pretty. I gave her chance becos she disclose things about herself which I find her honest and willing to be vulnerable. She think her silly humour "tactics" is affecting me as I pretended to be laugh or attracted to it.

These silly tactics is just short-term cliche, when it comes to relationship it's about willingness to commit and motivation to meet a person. I think she's less experienced than me probably.

But as time goes by (about 3 weeks), I drop her because she does not prioritize me but play the "limited availability or busy" tactic. I was testing water and not really invested much feelings. She seem to be the type that text to-and-fro and I had to please her through text type.

I find it funny why girls behave this way... thinking they are all powerful and efficacious.
« Last Edit: March 26, 2016, 09:09:52 pm by Tao Jiak »

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #5 on: March 26, 2016, 10:10:41 pm »
Not all girls test guys lah, at least not me.
When i first knew my bf from okc, i was pretty much open with him. After going out with him for a few times, i asked him if he is dating any girls at the same time.
For all the tests that was mentioned in the 1st post, we had an open discussion on those stuff liao...
Well... maybe coz my bf n i are older, not like those in 20s, thats why we can be more open and dun play games?

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #6 on: March 27, 2016, 12:29:54 am »
My past experience is that some girls "play games" to the extent that it feels like I have to "ask for permission" from her. I feel that she duno her own league, she is not even pretty. I gave her chance becos she disclose things about herself which I find her honest and willing to be vulnerable. She think her silly humour "tactics" is affecting me as I pretended to be laugh or attracted to it.

These silly tactics is just short-term cliche, when it comes to relationship it's about willingness to commit and motivation to meet a person. I think she's less experienced than me probably.

But as time goes by (about 3 weeks), I drop her because she does not prioritize me but play the "limited availability or busy" tactic. I was testing water and not really invested much feelings. She seem to be the type that text to-and-fro and I had to please her through text type.

I find it funny why girls behave this way... thinking they are all powerful and efficacious.

probably they dun feel urgent to get into r/s lah.
they r already happy wen single.
so why would they nd to behave like they are lower down than you just to please you.

if you drop her. she probably just cut off as well without feeling much.
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #7 on: March 27, 2016, 12:35:47 am »
probably they dun feel urgent to get into r/s lah.
they r already happy wen single.
so why would they nd to behave like they are lower down than you just to please you.

if you drop her. she probably just cut off as well without feeling much.

Chances don't come everyday esp if a girl is not pretty and if the guy/suitor is attractive.

Both gender get together is a want not really a need. It's important to know that, nobody needs nobody in reality.

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #8 on: March 27, 2016, 12:49:41 am »
Chances don't come everyday esp if a girl is not pretty and if the guy/suitor is attractive.

Both gender get together is a want not really a need. It's important to know that, nobody needs nobody in reality.

Yeah but nowadays. attractiveness is hardly a criteria esp for ppl looking to settle down. at least for women. it doesn't mean u r attractive. ppl must bow down to u or please u to boost your ego.

And truth be told. this type of mentality is very common among ppl who are v attractive (or think they are). As long as ppl don't praise them or give them less attention than they think they should warrant. They feel not good and their ego is hurt. The world does not revolve around anyone's handsome face n no one would really bow down to kiss a hunk's foot.
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #9 on: March 27, 2016, 11:46:58 am »
no need to test guys lah... I feel. As if the guys don't know they are being tested. Might turn a guy off though.  ;)

Just be open about everything. Non-player will appreciate that.
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« Reply #10 on: March 27, 2016, 01:37:00 pm »
Yeah but nowadays. attractiveness is hardly a criteria esp for ppl looking to settle down. at least for women. it doesn't mean u r attractive. ppl must bow down to u or please u to boost your ego.

And truth be told. this type of mentality is very common among ppl who are v attractive (or think they are). As long as ppl don't praise them or give them less attention than they think they should warrant. They feel not good and their ego is hurt. The world does not revolve around anyone's handsome face n no one would really bow down to kiss a hunk's foot.

I already mentioned I gave her chance due to appreciating her character qualities like honesty and willingness to be vulnerable. I didn't say someone "should" fall for shallow stuff like looks and manners. (although looks and mannerism do matter). Why so agitated sia?

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« Reply #11 on: March 27, 2016, 01:49:25 pm »
I already mentioned I gave her chance due to appreciating her character qualities like honesty and willingness to be vulnerable. I didn't say someone "should" fall for shallow stuff like looks and manners. (although looks and mannerism do matter). Why so agitated sia?

I oso have hunky friend who have such delusion.
get offended wen declined.
den disappeared after that.

u handsome ppl must agree or date w u meh?  ::)
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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #12 on: March 27, 2016, 01:59:10 pm »
TS, i think you approach her with the intention of developing into a relationship whereas i think she approaches you with just friendship in mind.

I think there is a difference in girls and guys mentality.
When knowing a new guy, most girls wld want to develop friendship first before thinking of developing a bgr.
However, for guys, it seems to be that the guy is interesting in becoming the girl's bf before developing a friendship.
I guess its different expectations bah.

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #13 on: March 27, 2016, 02:10:45 pm »
TS, i think you approach her with the intention of developing into a relationship whereas i think she approaches you with just friendship in mind.

I think there is a difference in girls and guys mentality.
When knowing a new guy, most girls wld want to develop friendship first before thinking of developing a bgr.
However, for guys, it seems to be that the guy is interesting in becoming the girl's bf before developing a friendship.
I guess its different expectations bah.

Eat too full to start a friendship with girls? lol. We got our own male friends to be our friend. Why need another female friend? Besides, normal friends come and go. 1 week only 7 days, in other words, time is limited, not enough time and energy to have another "just friend" female.

When two people start off as friends, the infatuation and feelings of intimacy is not there. Too much comfort will permanently end up as "just friends". I suppose girls never pursue another girl before, that's why they can't see things from male's perspective. PS: there is a saying hit the iron when it's hot.

Start off as friend the iron is cool where got intense feeling. lol

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Re: What are some of the test girls use on guys?
« Reply #14 on: March 27, 2016, 04:34:51 pm »
Actually i don't mind female frens ....  :-* .... but must be chio and big boobs one ....  :-* :-* :-*
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