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What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« on: February 25, 2016, 05:36:46 pm »
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2016, 06:38:34 pm »
Hmm... no idea.

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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2016, 06:40:07 pm »
Hmm... no idea.

I oso hv no idea that's y I post here.
seems like I can think of advantages but not disadvantages.
better to get some perspective.
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2016, 06:40:54 pm »
I oso hv no idea that's y I post here.
seems like I can think of advantages but not disadvantages.
better to get some perspective.

Why? You don't want to get married?


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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2016, 06:44:05 pm »
If you meet the right guy, he will be able to support you by being by your side, take care of you etc. I think the most important thing is that when you grow old, there is somebody by your side to keep you company.

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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #5 on: February 25, 2016, 06:50:09 pm »
If you meet the right guy, he will be able to support you by being by your side, take care of you etc. I think the most important thing is that when you grow old, there is somebody by your side to keep you company.

wad if u met a right guy with a "right" mother.
it becomes a package.

idk but now I can tk care of myself and be independent. something additional is a bonus.
but if the bonus comes with additional cost. den I can tk care of myself
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #6 on: February 25, 2016, 06:52:21 pm »
having legalized sex is the advantage of marriage ..... anything outside of marriage is illegal .... :(

that's the main disadvantage in my mind ..... :-\
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #7 on: February 25, 2016, 06:59:58 pm »
having legalized sex is the advantage of marriage ..... anything outside of marriage is illegal .... :(

that's the main disadvantage in my mind ..... :-\

so for u .. the disadvantage of staying unmarried would be not having legalized sex. isn't that hardly a disadvantage  ???
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #8 on: February 25, 2016, 07:18:08 pm »
Just a few days ago, I was watching a tv program about kodokushi (孤独死) in Japan.  It refers to people dying alone and remaining undiscovered for a long period of time.  Usually the neighbours are the ones reporting due to the stench of the decaying bodies.

One of the elderly being interviewed had a cat for 21 years before it passed away and it was the only companion that he talked to daily.  jin sad leh...

So I was thinking this could happen to me one day too.
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #9 on: February 25, 2016, 07:25:33 pm »
Just a few days ago, I was watching a tv program about kodokushi (孤独死) in Japan.  It refers to people dying alone and remaining undiscovered for a long period of time.  Usually the neighbours are the ones reporting due to the stench of the decaying bodies.

One of the elderly being interviewed had a cat for 21 years before it passed away and it was the only companion that he talked to daily.  jin sad leh...

So I was thinking this could happen to me one day too.
1st disadvantage collected: not being able to have legalized sex.
2nd disadvantage collected: dying alone in old age.

that being Said. if one has a husband yet dies alone at home. the only advantage would be discovering the corpse earlier. which Is hardly an advantage since already dead


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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #10 on: February 25, 2016, 07:52:49 pm »
1st disadvantage collected: not being able to have legalized sex.
2nd disadvantage collected: dying alone in old age.

that being Said. if one has a husband yet dies alone at home. the only advantage would be discovering the corpse earlier. which Is hardly an advantage since already dead
I didn't know it is illegal for a man and woman who are above 21 and unmarried to have consensual sex.  I'm not even sure if adultery is illegal in Singapore.

We don't just drop dead by a certain age leh.. if lucky maybe.  Most likely got ailments and all kinds of physical/mental suffering before the end.  Having a partner means either party will be there to take care in case of such events.  No guarantees lah, depends if found a good partner or not.
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2016, 08:16:57 pm »
so for u .. the disadvantage of staying unmarried would be not having legalized sex. isn't that hardly a disadvantage  ???

anything illegal is bad ..... very baaaaadddd ...... :(
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #12 on: February 25, 2016, 09:43:55 pm »
@happyshar If you are already thinking so much, then he is not the one for you.  :o

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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #13 on: February 25, 2016, 10:04:46 pm »
anything illegal is bad ..... very baaaaadddd ...... :(

ya it's a sin 😁😁😁
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Re: What are some disadvantages of staying unmarried?
« Reply #14 on: February 25, 2016, 10:05:58 pm »
@happyshar If you are already thinking so much, then he is not the one for you.  :o

I didn't think so much b4 the housing issue.
now I think more.
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