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Should I date a clubbing guy?
« on: May 15, 2016, 11:26:23 pm »
Recently i get to know this guy.
Quite young and handsome, make me laugh alot so we like connect very well.
But then i realised he goes clubbing, smokes and drink alot...
I'm those stay at home type one, i rather go musuem than go clubs.

Then he say he go club also do nothing, just drink with friends... should i trust this kind of guys?

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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #1 on: May 16, 2016, 08:08:22 am »
Recently i get to know this guy.
Quite young and handsome, make me laugh alot so we like connect very well.
But then i realised he goes clubbing, smokes and drink alot...
I'm those stay at home type one, i rather go musuem than go clubs.

Then he say he go club also do nothing, just drink with friends... should i trust this kind of guys?

trust but verify.  and validate this empirically w/o his knowledge.

lots of sh!t happens on the other side of midnight in clubs.

YOLO ....

PS:  you should pop by secretly on those nights and observe from behind the pillar when he goes clubbing and does "nothing".  And may the truth set your mind free .....
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #2 on: May 16, 2016, 10:39:29 am »
I managed to add him with my other account. Saw him clubbing photos with so many different girls around his arms.
Kns, still tell me he don't like club...

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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2016, 01:52:10 pm »
I managed to add him with my other account. Saw him clubbing photos with so many different girls around his arms.
Kns, still tell me he don't like club...
;D  ..... aren't you glad you found this out sooner?  ;D

why guys club?
why gals club?

uncle BJ looks forward to an honest answer ....... winner gets a prize .... :-*
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2016, 06:05:03 pm »
;D  ..... aren't you glad you found this out sooner?  ;D

why guys club?
why gals club?

uncle BJ looks forward to an honest answer ....... winner gets a prize .... :-*

Some ppl club coz their frens are there...
Some go there to seek attention...
Some go there coz they like the music/ambience...
Some go there to find free sex...
Etc...

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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #5 on: May 16, 2016, 06:34:40 pm »
Some ppl club coz their frens are there...
Some go there to seek attention...
Some go there coz they like the music/ambience...
Some go there to find free sex...
Etc...

So true!

Uncle BJ also likes clubbing too! Uncle BJ likes that his nice and frenly frens who are real frenly to each other are there to enjoy the music and the great ambience that the boom-boom-boom music that a nice frenly club provides,  nice frenly frens can talk nonsense in such a free atmosphere and use coarse words without care and enjoy each other's company. We can cuss "f-ck this" and "f-ck-that" and drink all kinds of drinks and shots until buay-lin-chu .....  :P

Uncle BJ sold same story to wifey ......

Now Uncle BJ's house have state-of-the-art sound system with vast music selection and pioneer music mixer and a very well stocked bar with wide liquor selection with professional DJ cum bartender (aka wifey) who is well-versed in mixing trance music and all manner of cocktails;  she more often than not can also throw in all kinds of coarse language like @$&*^#!€% for good measure to replicate the clubbing atmosphere ....  :-[   :'( :'( :'(
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #6 on: May 16, 2016, 07:36:10 pm »
So true!

Uncle BJ also likes clubbing too! Uncle BJ likes that his nice and frenly frens who are real frenly to each other are there to enjoy the music and the great ambience that the boom-boom-boom music that a nice frenly club provides,  nice frenly frens can talk nonsense in such a free atmosphere and use coarse words without care and enjoy each other's company. We can cuss "f-ck this" and "f-ck-that" and drink all kinds of drinks and shots until buay-lin-chu .....  :P

Uncle BJ sold same story to wifey ......

Now Uncle BJ's house have state-of-the-art sound system with vast music selection and pioneer music mixer and a very well stocked bar with wide liquor selection with professional DJ cum bartender (aka wifey) who is well-versed in mixing trance music and all manner of cocktails;  she more often than not can also throw in all kinds of coarse language like @$&*^#!€% for good measure to replicate the clubbing atmosphere ....  :-[   :'( :'( :'(

Wah! You so fortunate leh!
All the things that i said, came true for you!!!
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #7 on: May 16, 2016, 07:48:57 pm »
Wah! You so fortunate leh!
All the things that i said, came true for you!!!
 ;D

Except that i have no frens now .....  :'( :'( :'(
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2016, 12:08:57 am »
I think if he do not have the same interest as you, in the long run, the relationship will not last

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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #9 on: May 17, 2016, 11:06:33 am »
actually museum also have a lot of chiobus ...... especially top level of National Gallery .... Smoke and Mirrors ..... can ogle those yummilicious OLs discreetly .... $3.20 per entry after 6pm but must leave before 1am ......

nice view of the padang and marina bay .... can promise gals the moon and the stars ....

I like museums and art galleries ..... i'm the cerebral sort ....  8)
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #10 on: May 17, 2016, 01:36:05 pm »


Is this your type of clubbing guy? 8)
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #11 on: May 17, 2016, 02:08:41 pm »


Is this your type of clubbing guy? 8)

LOL .....  :P .... do they look like Fred Flintstone .... I long time never club liao .... :-X
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #12 on: May 17, 2016, 03:11:11 pm »
actually museum also have a lot of chiobus ...... especially top level of National Gallery .... Smoke and Mirrors ..... can ogle those yummilicious OLs discreetly .... $3.20 per entry after 6pm but must leave before 1am ......

nice view of the padang and marina bay .... can promise gals the moon and the stars ....

I like museums and art galleries ..... i'm the cerebral sort ....  8)

I thought it's free for Singaporean

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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #13 on: May 17, 2016, 03:26:06 pm »
I thought it's free for Singaporean
parking is not free ..... :(
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Re: Should I date a clubbing guy?
« Reply #14 on: May 17, 2016, 10:35:22 pm »
"Some go there coz they like the music/ambience...“

Actually I find this reason to be one of the most lame one...with the music blasting so loud and lights keep flashing, how can any sane person like this kind of environment? Somemore the music is like "chi bom chi bom chi BOMBOMBOMB POW POW POW!!!" kind, this is not music. I feel that this is just an excuse lah, guys go there to fish and get lucky only. If one truly like the music, they can blast it at home wearing headphone and buy a disco ball light :)