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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #120 on: February 19, 2016, 05:12:10 pm »
Haha didn't expect this thread to be revived.

Well....i kinda stopped chatting to this girl after sometime even after i got her on LINE.

I'm now pursuing another girl. Took some of your good advises and was more assertive to get her number and managed to give her a call. Things seem to be going well but i am not taking it for granted. Hopefully this will end up well.

Just curious, after initiating the first call will it be appropriate to call her everyday? or maybe in between a few days?

For me, i will not like a guy to call me everyday. He will come across as desperate or possessive or clingy. Once a week is fine. I prefer texting though coz it will be awkward if there is silence on the phone.

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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #121 on: February 19, 2016, 05:59:34 pm »
Just curious, after initiating the first call will it be appropriate to call her everyday? or maybe in between a few days?
I think it is better to read her tone on the phone.  If she sounds happy/excited to answer your calls, can be more frequent. 

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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #122 on: February 19, 2016, 06:04:21 pm »
Haha didn't expect this thread to be revived.

Well....i kinda stopped chatting to this girl after sometime even after i got her on LINE.

I'm now pursuing another girl. Took some of your good advises and was more assertive to get her number and managed to give her a call. Things seem to be going well but i am not taking it for granted. Hopefully this will end up well.

Just curious, after initiating the first call will it be appropriate to call her everyday? or maybe in between a few days?
once a fortnight!
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #123 on: February 19, 2016, 06:06:27 pm »
I think it is better to read her tone on the phone.  If she sounds happy/excited to answer your calls, can be more frequent. 

Even if you cook from a recipe book hor, not everything is die die follow one.  Some things must agar agar, learn from experience.

just curious. if a girl rejects call . wad does it mean to the other party
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #124 on: February 19, 2016, 06:10:25 pm »
just curious. if a girl rejects call . wad does it mean to the other party
wait for her to call back
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #125 on: February 19, 2016, 06:25:03 pm »
just curious. if a girl rejects call . wad does it mean to the other party

It depends on whether the guy is from EDMW bah?  :-X

if the guy is keen and feels like a winner he will persist ....  8)

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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #126 on: February 19, 2016, 06:27:44 pm »
wait for her to call back

if she doesn't?
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #127 on: February 20, 2016, 02:01:52 am »
if she doesn't?
Then delete her during next round of contacts cleanup... unless she's my mother.  ;D
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #128 on: February 20, 2016, 02:21:44 am »
Then delete her during next round of contacts cleanup... unless she's my mother.  ;D

hahaha dafug.
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #129 on: February 20, 2016, 01:16:21 pm »
hahaha dafug.
It's a karmic cycle:
teenage son ignores mum
so when he grows up, mum ignores old unmarried son 
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #130 on: February 20, 2016, 02:06:53 pm »
It's a karmic cycle:
teenage son ignores mum
so when he grows up, mum ignores old unmarried son

happen to you? hehe  8)
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Re: Seeking opinion - Sudden disappearance after texting for 3 weeks
« Reply #131 on: February 21, 2016, 08:55:39 am »
happen to you? hehe  8)
ya lor.. haiz.. wanna adopt me, mummy?  ;)
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