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Need some help
« on: October 18, 2015, 10:33:36 pm »
I have been going out with this girl who i like. But she need some time before deciding whether to go into relationship. There are things which I wanted to do but hesitated. Is it ok for me to cuddle her arm when she is afraid while watching horror movie or when she was about to cry?

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Re: Need some help
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2015, 10:55:23 pm »
congrats your first post. i am new too.

share a real incidence that woke me up (literally). one time my phone rang in the middle of night. one my girlfriends asked if i could accompany her back..from the police station.

she said that guy was ..touchy in the car.



i remember reading this quote somewhere cant remb.

Think. Think again.

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Re: Need some help
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2015, 11:00:14 pm »
I have been going out with this girl who i like. But she need some time before deciding whether to go into relationship. There are things which I wanted to do but hesitated. Is it ok for me to cuddle her arm when she is afraid while watching horror movie or when she was about to cry?

Wait until it's official la.
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Re: Need some help
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2015, 11:12:22 pm »
I have been going out with this girl who i like. But she need some time before deciding whether to go into relationship. There are things which I wanted to do but hesitated. Is it ok for me to cuddle her arm when she is afraid while watching horror movie or when she was about to cry?

Pls don't.. she will if she wants to.


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Re: Need some help
« Reply #4 on: October 18, 2015, 11:26:44 pm »
I have been going out with this girl who i like. But she need some time before deciding whether to go into relationship. There are things which I wanted to do but hesitated. Is it ok for me to cuddle her arm when she is afraid while watching horror movie or when she was about to cry?

Like what the rest have advised, to play safe, better don't.

If she is into you, she will hold on to your arm if she is scared watching horror movie.

If she is not into you, it might backfired. Some girls prefer to have a personal space and not comfortable with others being too close.

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Re: Need some help
« Reply #5 on: October 18, 2015, 11:58:56 pm »
yes you should. she will really like it.

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Re: Need some help
« Reply #6 on: October 19, 2015, 12:13:09 am »
yes you should. she will really like it.

Yupp, she would really like it...like to poh mata  ;D
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Re: Need some help
« Reply #7 on: October 19, 2015, 11:06:15 am »
hmm better not to.. if she need some time to decide thn just give her the space.
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Re: Need some help
« Reply #8 on: October 19, 2015, 11:25:23 am »
Yupp, she would really like it...like to poh mata  ;D

hahaha ah di you very cute.

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« Reply #9 on: October 19, 2015, 11:40:43 am »
hahaha ah di you very cute.

Haha thanks thanks. Online persona cute nia. Real life not cute one hahaha
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Re: Need some help
« Reply #10 on: October 19, 2015, 01:42:23 pm »
I have been going out with this girl who i like. But she need some time before deciding whether to go into relationship. There are things which I wanted to do but hesitated. Is it ok for me to cuddle her arm when she is afraid while watching horror movie or when she was about to cry?

There is 2 types of touch, the touch of giving, and the touching of taking.
By cuddling her, would you ask your this question, are you protecting her, or taking advantage for your own pleasure?

When you like someone, every action you will add value in improving /making her feel safe/ assuring her
But when you lust for someone, your thoughts reflecting to actions might just put the girl off.

My advice is to really know the girl inside, what are her fears, her aspirations? what makes her tick? Day by day make an effort to create that special connection which only both of you share.

“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Airman's Odyssey
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Re: Need some help
« Reply #11 on: October 20, 2015, 01:38:05 pm »
Since she says she needs some time, then please dont do that.

However, you cant be the totally totally decent type also otherwise you'll definitely be categorized in the friendzone after a while. You can still show your care to her in other ways besides touching her.