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Mr Unavail
« on: July 20, 2016, 03:38:42 pm »
Has anyone have any exp dating with Mr unavailable?
Anyone manage to change them ?

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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #1 on: July 20, 2016, 04:02:06 pm »
Has anyone have any exp dating with Mr unavailable?
Anyone manage to change them ?

you mean the guy is married or is engaged? ???
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #2 on: July 20, 2016, 04:29:06 pm »
unavailable liao how to date?
or is it as uncle said, unavailable as in married?

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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #3 on: July 20, 2016, 05:26:17 pm »
Has anyone have any exp dating with Mr unavailable?
Anyone manage to change them ?

would one chg sth they don't think is wrong?
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #4 on: July 20, 2016, 09:12:53 pm »
I am unavailable but single, not married, not divorce...want to come change me??

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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #5 on: July 26, 2016, 05:39:06 pm »
Has anyone have any exp dating with Mr unavailable?
Anyone manage to change them ?

i want to warn you that you cannot change a guy/girl who has told you they are unavailable.
even if they don't say it, but you feel they seem to be emotionally disconnected i.e. they don't start sentences with 'i feel' or talk about future stuff, you probably should start leaving.
was dating a guy, he said we should start slow to know each other - i agree with that.
but when the physical stuff started, i got more emotionally attached and whenever i seem to want us to be official or for him to be committed to me he'll say he's still recovering from previous relationship or says he just needs time. when i try to exit, he'll try to persuade me to keep seeing him by asking me to give him time.
conclusion is he'll never be available because i'm not the one he really wants.
if a guy wants you in his life, they won't be unavailable/not ready at all.
don't waste your time on men or women you're not 100% happy with.
there are truly always the next one.


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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #6 on: August 02, 2016, 05:50:44 pm »
If a guy tells you upfront that he is unavailable, believe him. Believe him that he is not willing/able to change for you.

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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #7 on: August 03, 2016, 02:04:26 am »
If a guy tells you upfront that he is unavailable, believe him. Believe him that he is not willing/able to change for you.

I don't think they r capable of htht haha.
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #8 on: August 03, 2016, 07:45:11 pm »
I don't think they r capable of htht haha.

But most women always think that if they try hard enough, the guys will change. That is a recipe for disaster.

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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #9 on: August 03, 2016, 08:25:13 pm »
I don't think they r capable of htht haha.
Who say cannot de?  Just refer to uncle @beaverjuice avatar.  8)
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #10 on: August 03, 2016, 11:05:35 pm »
"I don't want to hurt you because i care you too much" .....   :-X
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #11 on: August 04, 2016, 01:03:55 am »
Who say cannot de?  Just refer to uncle @beaverjuice avatar.  8)

I forgot to add on.
they r not capable of htht be it with their friend or with their lover, UNLESS that htht would increase his chance of having more sex / money.
as their world revolves around such benefits it will not be sane to use your "mind field" to affect his "mind field" because they don't overlap, unless you r unavailable too and wish to transact.

or if u can increase your wealth, assets, gd looks, popularity. you can control and "change" his behaviour.
« Last Edit: August 04, 2016, 01:12:51 am by happyshar »
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #12 on: August 04, 2016, 01:13:26 am »
"I don't want to hurt you because i care you too much" .....   :-X

I wonder has anyone successfully swindle a swindler by pretending to be swindled
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #13 on: August 04, 2016, 07:47:10 am »
I wonder has anyone successfully swindle a swindler by pretending to be swindled

do movies count? ???
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Re: Mr Unavail
« Reply #14 on: August 04, 2016, 09:29:50 am »
I forgot to add on.
they r not capable of htht be it with their friend or with their lover, UNLESS that htht would increase his chance of having more sex / money.
as their world revolves around such benefits it will not be sane to use your "mind field" to affect his "mind field" because they don't overlap, unless you r unavailable too and wish to transact.

or if u can increase your wealth, assets, gd looks, popularity. you can control and "change" his behaviour.
happyshar's conclusion: men only have htht to get more $$$ex.  :-X
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