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Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« on: July 26, 2015, 02:35:31 pm »
hi girls, i dont understand why i am still single...

most of my friends say i am pretty and dresses quite well. i look good in heels and dresses.
and i have a pretty decent job. i work in an office with a salary of roughly $3k sgd.
i do know how to put makeup, those that can walk around and attract wolf whistles.
i'm quite sexy if i dress up.

but i want a nice guy to settle down. not someone just for fun.

i have visited a few matchmaking sessions but cant find a decent guys. there are many guys who will email or whatsapp me after the sessions but i ignore them coz they are really losers.
i got very discouraged after  while and quit these sessions.
seriously these losers should really improve themselves before they come such matchmaking and not waste people's time

where can i meet guys that are single and available?
i hope to find a guy that is

- serious about settling down! v impt.
- must be tall 1.75m at least.
- salary must be doubled of me, if not, we can't marry. $7000 and above pls.
- hopefully can live condo next time, i dont like HDB. many weirdos in the hdb where i live
- must hire a maid. do not expect me to cook. cook will spoil my skin and hands.
- must be sporty and fit. ideally we can do yoga weekly. fat pple no no!
- must know how to give in to me when we quarrel.
- be sweet!

hard to find these chinese guys now liao... maybe Caucasians would be good too.

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2015, 12:36:19 am »
Hi,

Are you sure you weren't trolling with the specs you're looking for?

And may I know how do you define losers?

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guest

Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2015, 08:33:29 am »
Probably a guy trying to stir up trouble

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2015, 06:10:55 pm »
$7k sounds abit high..if you lower this expectation, maybe you can find him sooner


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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #4 on: August 01, 2015, 11:18:30 am »
$7k sounds abit high..if you lower this expectation, maybe you can find him sooner

I don't think its the amount that matters... its the fact that there is an amount.

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2015, 01:23:20 pm »
I don't think its the amount that matters... its the fact that there is an amount.

Im not trolling. i feel these are important.
I am not young anymore and I like an nice guy to settle down and marry and have a nice family.

it does not have to be an exact number, but at least something decent for us to have a family? this is Singapore. $7000 a month is just okay okay only for a family and 1 kid.

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #6 on: August 03, 2015, 11:08:58 pm »
Hello I'm new here. Can we be friends?

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #7 on: August 04, 2015, 09:25:27 pm »
Hello I'm new here. Can we be friends?

pervert alert!  ::)
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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #8 on: August 18, 2015, 10:53:58 pm »
Hello I'm new here. Can we be friends?

so weird....  >:(
Loving life here!

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #9 on: August 20, 2015, 02:36:05 pm »
Hello I'm new here. Can we be friends?

can u let me know your career now and where do u stay pls?

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #10 on: September 13, 2015, 09:36:00 am »
maybe u should lower your expectations?
This is singapore after all, and the costs of living has been increasing and making it tougher for singaporeans, both guys and girls....

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #11 on: September 15, 2015, 02:28:25 pm »
hi girls, i dont understand why i am still single...

most of my friends say i am pretty and dresses quite well. i look good in heels and dresses.
and i have a pretty decent job. i work in an office with a salary of roughly $3k sgd.
i do know how to put makeup, those that can walk around and attract wolf whistles.
i'm quite sexy if i dress up.

but i want a nice guy to settle down. not someone just for fun.

i have visited a few matchmaking sessions but cant find a decent guys. there are many guys who will email or whatsapp me after the sessions but i ignore them coz they are really losers.
i got very discouraged after  while and quit these sessions.
seriously these losers should really improve themselves before they come such matchmaking and not waste people's time

where can i meet guys that are single and available?
i hope to find a guy that is

- serious about settling down! v impt.
- must be tall 1.75m at least.
- salary must be doubled of me, if not, we can't marry. $7000 and above pls.
- hopefully can live condo next time, i dont like HDB. many weirdos in the hdb where i live
- must hire a maid. do not expect me to cook. cook will spoil my skin and hands.
- must be sporty and fit. ideally we can do yoga weekly. fat pple no no!
- must know how to give in to me when we quarrel.
- be sweet!

hard to find these chinese guys now liao... maybe Caucasians would be good too.

actually i kinda agree with her.

we only have 1 life. why must we settle for anything lesser? we are girls, we want the best in life, nothing wrong with it actually.
but of course, to be fair, we ourselves must ensure we are of a good quality too. must do our best in life, do our best at work too

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #12 on: September 26, 2015, 09:21:19 am »
Look for someone who will love and take care of you. What's the point of living in condo and having a handsome husband if you don't have sparks between the two of you?

When you find the right person, none of these matter.

By the way, may I know your age?

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #13 on: October 04, 2015, 07:09:32 pm »
Look for someone who will love and take care of you. What's the point of living in condo and having a handsome husband if you don't have sparks between the two of you?

When you find the right person, none of these matter.

By the way, may I know your age?

a lady's age is secret leh.

true enough, but say i love my husband, but every struggle with daily finances, what to eat, and where to save money, daily stress will turn a good relationship into a bad ship.
the ship will sink!

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Re: Looking for a bf- why am I still single?
« Reply #14 on: October 05, 2015, 09:06:47 am »
a lady's age is secret leh.

true enough, but say i love my husband, but every struggle with daily finances, what to eat, and where to save money, daily stress will turn a good relationship into a bad ship.
the ship will sink!

Well, in that case your stress level tolerance and self-control is not that good. You must communicate and work things out, don't live beyond both capacities, splurge on useless items that you don't actually need but desire only. Even a good ship will become a sinking ship carrying useless items and people on board that does not contribute to the ship's sail on course. Just my 2 cents.  :) :)
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