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is my gf too young for me?
« on: October 15, 2015, 02:15:28 pm »
I got this group of guy friends especially this one particular guy who is engaged to an older woman, who keeps telling me that my gf is too young for me.

Im currently 28 and my gf is 22. 6 years age gap is young meh? I thought thats a nice age gap to have. My gf has been living alone since she was 16 years old in another city and she is more independent than most singaporean girls i have met. She has been supporting herself financially since 19.

I thought its always the maturity that matters. She is always able to provide logical and down to earth career advice for me when i have difficulty choosing the correct career path.

Im neither handsome nor rich. Im only drawing a 3k salary. But my gf has remained faithful to me for the past few years till this day. She is pretty and always attracts onlookers both girls and guys. She treats me very well and supports me in everything i do. Why would i want to give up on her just because my friends thinks she is too young for me?

What are your thoughts? Too young?

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #1 on: October 15, 2015, 02:18:01 pm »
I got this group of guy friends especially this one particular guy who is engaged to an older woman, who keeps telling me that my gf is too young for me.

Im currently 28 and my gf is 22. 6 years age gap is young meh? I thought thats a nice age gap to have. My gf has been living alone since she was 16 years old in another city and she is more independent than most singaporean girls i have met. She has been supporting herself financially since 19.

I thought its always the maturity that matters. She is always able to provide logical and down to earth career advice for me when i have difficulty choosing the correct career path.

Im neither handsome nor rich. Im only drawing a 3k salary. But my gf has remained faithful to me for the past few years till this day. She is pretty and always attracts onlookers both girls and guys. She treats me very well and supports me in everything i do. Why would i want to give up on her just because my friends thinks she is too young for me?

What are your thoughts? Too young?

I think it's a hao lian thread  ::)

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #2 on: October 15, 2015, 02:21:33 pm »
my gf is 9yrs younger than me. so its not an issue.

i dun like older gal as i feel that their expectation is too much for me to handle.

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #3 on: October 15, 2015, 03:00:35 pm »
my gf is 9yrs younger than me. so its not an issue.

i dun like older gal as i feel that their expectation is too much for me to handle.

Thanks man. Atleast i know im not alone in this. I shall feedback to my friend.


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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #4 on: October 15, 2015, 03:02:54 pm »
I think it's a hao lian thread  ::)

If you like to see it that way. Lol!

I saw it as proof that men dont need to be handsome or rich to date pretty girls. Just be yourself. Thats the most important.

A pretty girl with good character will still be attracted to you. Not those bullshit girls with salary and a whole bunch of other requirements. Those types of girls are losers
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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #5 on: October 15, 2015, 03:10:09 pm »
for me, finding a gf is ez but whether can it last is another story.

i got a few gf b4 but all dun last cos they are draining me financially. but luckily manage to find one who dun mind eating at hawker and helping to pay some of the dating expenses.

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #6 on: October 15, 2015, 03:21:50 pm »
for me, finding a gf is ez but whether can it last is another story.

i got a few gf b4 but all dun last cos they are draining me financially. but luckily manage to find one who dun mind eating at hawker and helping to pay some of the dating expenses.

Go out less often lor. Or buy food home and cook together. Modern guys should learn how to cook as well. This is not ancient china era already.

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #7 on: October 15, 2015, 03:24:22 pm »
You marry her why bother what your friends say

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #8 on: October 15, 2015, 03:30:49 pm »
In the first place, why need to bother about what the friends said?

Each has their own preference.

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #9 on: October 15, 2015, 03:47:50 pm »
agree with lemon. as long as both of you are happy, that is the most important.
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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #10 on: October 15, 2015, 04:00:50 pm »
If you like to see it that way. Lol!

I saw it as proof that men dont need to be handsome or rich to date pretty girls. Just be yourself. Thats the most important.

A pretty girl with good character will still be attracted to you. Not those bullshit girls with salary and a whole bunch of other requirements. Those types of girls are losers

so it's not a hao lian thread? You are genuinely asking for advise? Haha.. ok, my bad.. because I thought your gf is young, pretty, independent, caring and faithful. So what's there to worry about?

Why worry about other people say? It's not as if she is 20 years younger than you. Life is short. Don't bother or do what others expect from you. You will be the one who spend the rest of your life with your future wife, not your friends!

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2015, 08:09:49 pm »
maybe your friend want to tackle her. just becareful loh

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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #12 on: October 16, 2015, 07:51:37 am »
I think it's a hao lian thread  ::)

I also think so  ;D
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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #13 on: October 16, 2015, 11:08:59 am »
age is just a figure.

if both of you believe that things will work out thn why not? :)
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Re: is my gf too young for me?
« Reply #14 on: October 16, 2015, 12:10:15 pm »
You sound really sweet! Wish you all the best and dont worry 6 years isnt too big an age gap!