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No particular targets but I just wondering if it is possible to get to know a lady working in a shop if you patronise the shop frequent enough in local context?
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Re: Is it possible to get to know a lady who work in a shop that you patronise?
« Reply #1 on: September 18, 2019, 09:01:53 pm »
Know as in getting to know as friends?  Or "know" as in the Biblical sense of "know"? ???

The word is nuanced but the consequences are dire, if you catch my drift ....
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No particular targets but I just wondering if it is possible to get to know a lady working in a shop if you patronise the shop frequent enough in local context?

I got a friend father who know the mother when she was working as salesgirl for men product , y not anything is possible if you desire.
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I got a friend father who know the mother when she was working as salesgirl for men product , y not anything is possible if you desire.

How many men's products he bought? ???
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How many men's products he bought? ???

I didn't ask wor, how many belts you buy usually?
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I didn't ask wor, how many belts you buy usually?

I never wear belt 'cos my belly too big  :-[
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I never wear belt 'cos my belly too big  :-[

Good can save money.
Actually what's a belt for.
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Good can save money.
Actually what's a belt for.

It is a accessory for men.  Just like a bracelet or brassiere for women
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I got a friend father who know the mother when she was working as salesgirl for men product , y not anything is possible if you desire.

Actually now thinking about it, if one is doing it tactfully and not showing the intention of trying to get to know her first it might not be impossible isn't it?

Like for example patronise the shop frequent enough and try to leave a positive and deep impression on her and proceed from there?

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Actually now thinking about it, if one is doing it tactfully and not showing the intention of trying to get to know her first it might not be impossible isn't it?

Like for example patronise the shop frequent enough and try to leave a positive and deep impression on her and proceed from there?

If you kenna frenzone by her, will you still continue to patronize the shop?
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Re: Is it possible to get to know a lady who work in a shop that you patronise?
« Reply #10 on: November 14, 2019, 10:30:48 pm »
Actually now thinking about it, if one is doing it tactfully and not showing the intention of trying to get to know her first it might not be impossible isn't it?

Like for example patronise the shop frequent enough and try to leave a positive and deep impression on her and proceed from there?

I don't know how they do it leh , but if I were a guy I will show her I'm interested and find an excuse to get her number?
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Re: Is it possible to get to know a lady who work in a shop that you patronise?
« Reply #11 on: November 27, 2019, 12:15:37 pm »
If you kenna frenzone by her, will you still continue to patronize the shop?

That can be quite embarassing when you patronise the shop again.

I remembered many years ago during my poly days I had a crush on a lux shampoo promotor working in a Popular Bookshop (don't ask me why Popular bookshop got sell shampoo) and in the end I picked up my courage and ask her whether I can befriend her and of course... she rejected me.... :( And I had not seen her again after that.....
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Re: Is it possible to get to know a lady who work in a shop that you patronise?
« Reply #12 on: November 27, 2019, 12:18:03 pm »
I don't know how they do it leh , but if I were a guy I will show her I'm interested and find an excuse to get her number?

But then in local context I suppose it is very hard to ask directly as we tend to be more cautious on strangers.

I think the better way is to patronise the shop often when she was working and let her have a deep impression on you while trying to initiate some small chat with her.... And from there proceed accordingly....

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Re: Is it possible to get to know a lady who work in a shop that you patronise?
« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2019, 05:37:20 pm »
But then in local context I suppose it is very hard to ask directly as we tend to be more cautious on strangers.

I think the better way is to patronise the shop often when she was working and let her have a deep impression on you while trying to initiate some small chat with her.... And from there proceed accordingly....

Sometimes we over analyse things .... maybe in her head she is wishing you would work up your guts to ask her out ....

Nothing unsettles a married woman more than to tell her you wish she wasn't
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But then in local context I suppose it is very hard to ask directly as we tend to be more cautious on strangers.

I think the better way is to patronise the shop often when she was working and let her have a deep impression on you while trying to initiate some small chat with her.... And from there proceed accordingly....

Being confident and being dominant is very very attractive to a lady as it shows you can handle her while not putting her on a pedestal. Confidence is an aphrodisiac, which is why confident guys can date women way above their league. Be confident in your approaches but not stalkerish. Rejection doesn't matter, if you get rejected move on to the next. If I'm guy that's what I would do. Don't take any sort of rejection personally. Move direct and swift, be upfront and gutsy.
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