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is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« on: January 01, 2016, 01:25:39 pm »
Whenever I chat with a girl, sometimes she will just ignore some of the non-invasive questions asked.

Ok, non-invasive may be subjective but I'm not asking stuff like where she stays, where she works etc. I'm asking casual questions like, where will you be going for your trip and stuff.

The only reasons I can think of are:

1) she thinks that the answers can be found on Google

2) she missed them out cos of the long conversation we have

3) she can't be bothered / just don't feel like answering

Though she didn't answer my questions, she will continue to chat with me.

Well, the above is what I encountered using dating app. While I understand that girls get tons of messages using dating apps and she may be exhausted answering the same questions over and over and over again, if she doesn't respond to questions, then I don't think she should even bother to continue with the chat, no? I mean, by responding doesn't mean to answer it but at least not ignore it and treat that question was never asked before. If not, meaningful conversation is hard to establishe. Cos if kenna ignored so many times, why would I bother to continue talking and asking? :-\

Agree? Disagree? Any advice appreciated. :-*
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #1 on: January 01, 2016, 02:57:31 pm »
Because someone else is messaging her on Facebook / other dating site / youtube has something interesting , etc

Something else is getting her attention more than you .. it might be a cute cat video  ;D
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #2 on: January 01, 2016, 03:04:28 pm »
Whenever I chat with a girl, sometimes she will just ignore some of the non-invasive questions asked.

Ok, non-invasive may be subjective but I'm not asking stuff like where she stays, where she works etc. I'm asking casual questions like, where will you be going for your trip and stuff.

The only reasons I can think of are:

1) she thinks that the answers can be found on Google

2) she missed them out cos of the long conversation we have

3) she can't be bothered / just don't feel like answering

Though she didn't answer my questions, she will continue to chat with me.

Well, the above is what I encountered using dating app. While I understand that girls get tons of messages using dating apps and she may be exhausted answering the same questions over and over and over again, if she doesn't respond to questions, then I don't think she should even bother to continue with the chat, no? I mean, by responding doesn't mean to answer it but at least not ignore it and treat that question was never asked before. If not, meaningful conversation is hard to establishe. Cos if kenna ignored so many times, why would I bother to continue talking and asking? :-\

Agree? Disagree? Any advice appreciated. :-*
I will also feel irritated when ppl keep asking questions. So loh soh  ;D

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #3 on: January 01, 2016, 03:06:56 pm »
I will also feel irritated when ppl keep asking questions. So loh soh  ;D

Lol..then how do you make conversations? Talk about yourself? Like make comments on daily news?

E.g.
B: today's weather is so good. I feel like going for a swim.
G: oh ya lor. Me too.
B: I swim and cycle often. It's good for health.


Like the above ah?
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #4 on: January 01, 2016, 03:08:23 pm »
Because someone else is messaging her on Facebook / other dating site / youtube has something interesting , etc

Something else is getting her attention more than you .. it might be a cute cat video  ;D

But she will continue with the conversation as if I never asked the questions before :-\
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #5 on: January 01, 2016, 03:49:23 pm »
Lol..then how do you make conversations? Talk about yourself? Like make comments on daily news?

E.g.
B: today's weather is so good. I feel like going for a swim.
G: oh ya lor. Me too.
B: I swim and cycle often. It's good for health.


Like the above ah?
some guys jus know how to start the conversation and will make it fun chatting with them.
While some only ask questions, its very boring lor  ??? :-[

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #6 on: January 01, 2016, 03:55:10 pm »
Whenever I chat with a girl, sometimes she will just ignore some of the non-invasive questions asked.

Ok, non-invasive may be subjective but I'm not asking stuff like where she stays, where she works etc. I'm asking casual questions like, where will you be going for your trip and stuff.

The only reasons I can think of are:

1) she thinks that the answers can be found on Google

2) she missed them out cos of the long conversation we have

3) she can't be bothered / just don't feel like answering

Though she didn't answer my questions, she will continue to chat with me.

Well, the above is what I encountered using dating app. While I understand that girls get tons of messages using dating apps and she may be exhausted answering the same questions over and over and over again, if she doesn't respond to questions, then I don't think she should even bother to continue with the chat, no? I mean, by responding doesn't mean to answer it but at least not ignore it and treat that question was never asked before. If not, meaningful conversation is hard to establishe. Cos if kenna ignored so many times, why would I bother to continue talking and asking? :-\

Agree? Disagree? Any advice appreciated. :-*

My guess is, she might be missing on the questions lah...
Or maybe she doesn't know what to answer you?
If she is not interested in you, she also wouldn't continue to chat with you, right?
If you really want to know, ask her the qns again?

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #7 on: January 01, 2016, 04:04:12 pm »
some guys jus know how to start the conversation and will make it fun chatting with them.
While some only ask questions, its very boring lor  ??? :-[

For example?
 
I always thought that questions is a part of the conversation. Of course it shouldn't end up as a Q n A. That is no fun at all. For me, sharing personal experience about stuff can be interesting rather than the mere use of words.
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #8 on: January 01, 2016, 04:07:13 pm »
My guess is, she might be missing on the questions lah...
Or maybe she doesn't know what to answer you?
If she is not interested in you, she also wouldn't continue to chat with you, right?
If you really want to know, ask her the qns again?

There was once that the question is the last message sent. She couldn't miss it. In the end, she just went on about how she wasn't able to reply my message promptly and then gone, my question's ignored.

Well, it happened far too many times that I feel weird. So do you mean she think that the question is unimportant therefore she don't bother? :(
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #9 on: January 01, 2016, 04:12:55 pm »
For example?
 
I always thought that questions is a part of the conversation. Of course it shouldn't end up as a Q n A. That is no fun at all. For me, sharing personal experience about stuff can be interesting rather than the mere use of words.
I think u must ask @beaverjuice , see he so popular with the girls from fp till here.

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #10 on: January 01, 2016, 04:16:19 pm »
I think u must ask @beaverjuice , see he so popular with the girls from fp till here.

It's good to hear more views from the receiving end in this aspect.
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #11 on: January 01, 2016, 04:18:41 pm »
i skip question sometimes as well..
for myself is either,

1. the answer is too long i don't have time to type that long at that moment and i forget about it after that
2. i don't wish to let u know
3. i don't have a answer yet

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #12 on: January 01, 2016, 04:33:20 pm »
i skip question sometimes as well..
for myself is either,

1. the answer is too long i don't have time to type that long at that moment and i forget about it after that
2. i don't wish to let u know
3. i don't have a answer yet

@simplistic for the above, do you simply ignore the question or tell the guy the reason why you don't want to answer the question or don't want to answer yet cos its too long?
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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #13 on: January 01, 2016, 04:48:41 pm »
@focus I ignore it thinking that I will reply later but most often of the times I forgets  :-X

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Re: is it me or why do girls like to skip questions?
« Reply #14 on: January 01, 2016, 04:54:11 pm »
@focus I ignore it thinking that I will reply later but most often of the times I forgets  :-X
Same here!

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