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Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« on: October 26, 2015, 02:33:20 pm »
No flaming please and provide your views objectively.

Eat out means having an affair , whether one time off, engaged paid services or long term relationship
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2015, 02:35:41 pm »
There are always 3 parties involved.

(1) Husband
(2) Wife
(3) Other party

Depending on the situation, the blame may be distributed differently but my view is that the guy will always be at least 50% at fault.

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2015, 03:17:03 pm »
at first i thought eat out means dining outside coz wife not cooking... LOL~

if want to eat out, then marry at the first place?

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #3 on: October 26, 2015, 04:04:48 pm »
i think wifey cooking no good that's why husband tabao
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #4 on: October 26, 2015, 06:02:30 pm »
well, the one that stray first need to take the blame. at least 60% of the fault lies with him/her. When a r/s fail instead of trying to work it out, they stray and make the r/s worse

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #5 on: October 27, 2015, 12:55:18 am »
The one with affair is 100% at fault. I don't cheat you don't cheat.

Want to cheat pls control and endure and finalise the divorce proceedings before going and humping around like bunnies.

This is only fair to both parties and any innocent child (if any). For a child to grow up with a single parent knowing that the other parent once cheated is very emotionally traumatizing.

Not to mention I always see Mediacorp movies, hubby eat outside and run road, single mum raised the kid, couldn't handle the pressure of low income and being betrayed by husband...abuse the child cos she went mental :(
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #6 on: December 20, 2015, 07:04:53 pm »
sometimes no time to cook, or some food difficult to cook at home e.g. hainan chicken rice

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #7 on: December 23, 2015, 01:22:34 pm »
I think it's the okt fault.
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #8 on: December 24, 2015, 08:39:25 am »
But then it is also getting more and more common of ladies having affairs outside.

My crush several years ago, now married, is said to have an affair outside.

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #9 on: December 24, 2015, 08:48:56 am »
maybe hubby never fulfill her emotional needs bah? ???  I think hubby should be able to accept if no sex is involved ....   :P
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #10 on: December 24, 2015, 01:24:52 pm »
maybe hubby never fulfill her emotional needs bah? ???  I think hubby should be able to accept if no sex is involved ....   :P

If your partner can't fulfill your emo needs, then shouldn't get married. Might as well be FB..

This kind creating the situation for both parties to eat outside...

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #11 on: December 24, 2015, 01:30:31 pm »
If your partner can't fulfill your emo needs, then shouldn't get married. Might as well be FB..

This kind creating the situation for both parties to eat outside...

maybe marriage is fulfilling an aspirational need for some gals or guys.....  or collecting keys to HDB flat bah .....

*haiz* ...... I think this is the mindset of the millenials .... instant gratification and sharing all their stuff ....
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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #12 on: December 24, 2015, 03:03:16 pm »
maybe marriage is fulfilling an aspirational need for some gals or guys.....  or collecting keys to HDB flat bah .....

*haiz* ...... I think this is the mindset of the millenials .... instant gratification and sharing all their stuff ....

Orh.. Then after that they will come here and consult uncle about their love lives and financial issues ah?

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Re: Is it man's fault to eat out in a marriage? Discuss
« Reply #13 on: December 24, 2015, 03:12:54 pm »
Orh.. Then after that they will come here and consult uncle about their love lives and financial issues ah?

LOL .... no larrrrr .... i don't think i give good advice anyways ....  should do opposite of what i advice .... :-* :-* :-*
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