What do u think?

What do u think?

as often as guys upgrade cars I think .....

What do you mean by "upgrade"?

You mean like upgrade the OS?  But must see the hardware compatible or not.

Where is @Tao Jiak ? What do you mean by "upgrade"?
I old auntie liao. Can't catch up with all those new lingos leh.

Is "upgrade" making the current boyfriend better ?

Or

Is "upgrade getting a new boyfriend that has better stats than the previous bf ? 

Is "upgrade getting a new boyfriend that has better stats than the previous bf ? 

Yes. This one.

I suppose so if their bf didn't cherish them.
don't upgrade next time suffer. 

Why would any girl want to down-grade? 

I don't think any girl would be that stupid right?

If she leaves for someone better aka "upgrade" , we can all understand . . . even laudable ....

But if she regresses and goes for someone worse than the current,  she'd be an idiot..... although i have seen a few cases like that ....

Yes. This one.

But do you mean the gal dumped the bf for a better one?

Or find a better guy than her ex after they parted ways?

But do you mean the gal dumped the bf for a better one?

I come across some girls who use this unethical way is secretly lining up a replacement behind BF's back then either replace him or cut off the new guy.

Double kill - super immoral and unethical. Such girl deserve greatest condemn, because she betrays (conditional commitment) the BF and mislead the new guy for her own uncertain selfish motive.

Anyway, these so-called upgrades also no warranty.  These girls who upgraded new boyfriends can also be dumped when the boyfriends go for their own upgrades.

Most important is check for warranty!

I come across some girls who use this unethical way is secretly lining up a replacement behind BF's back then either replace him or cut off the new guy.

Double kill - super immoral and unethical. Such girl deserve greatest condemn, because she betrays (conditional commitment) the BF and mislead the new guy for her own uncertain selfish motive.

Well, not only girls, guys do that too.
For me, its unacceptable.

What goes around, comes around.
Will tio karma deh!

I come across some girls who use this unethical way is secretly lining up a replacement behind BF's back then either replace him or cut off the new guy.

Double kill - super immoral and unethical. Such girl deserve greatest condemn, because she betrays (conditional commitment) the BF and mislead the new guy for her own uncertain selfish motive.

I feel that these girls you mentioned aren't totally wrong.
they probably have been hurt before by their ex-bfs who they are unconditional for yet reap nothing in return.. not even basic respect and love.
so in other words they learn to be smarter.

u can't blame them for dat.
if u dun like this type.
u go for someone who is a "clean slate" full of fantasies for pure love.

Why would any girl want to down-grade? 

I don't think any girl would be that stupid right?

If she leaves for someone better aka "upgrade" , we can all understand . . . even laudable ....

But if she regresses and goes for someone worse than the current,  she'd be an idiot..... although i have seen a few cases like that ....

those girls like the "moth to fire" type of attraction because it's so poetic and beautiful.