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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #30 on: March 29, 2016, 12:17:13 pm »
couldn't have been much of a friend afterall,  much less a BFF ....... good riddance to the b!tch too ....  >:(

Well... if the gf is starting to waver betn her bf and the new guy, it already mean that the gf doesnt love the bf liao.

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« Reply #31 on: March 29, 2016, 01:04:08 pm »
which is why it is important for guys not to set-up any expectations when dating - just be yourself.

don't be prince charming if you are not.  don't pay like a king if you're really a pauper.

if the gal accepts you for what you really are,  then she knows what she's getting into.

but if you set the bar too high even for yourself to consistently and sustainably reach,  then I am not surprised to see the gal dumping you for pulling the wool over her eyes.

CMI guys shouldn't reach for swans ..... this is the ugly truth.  it hurts bad but it is the immutable truth nonetheless ......
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #32 on: March 29, 2016, 01:21:18 pm »
which is why it is important for guys not to set-up any expectations when dating - just be yourself.

don't be prince charming if you are not.  don't pay like a king if you're really a pauper.

if the gal accepts you for what you really are,  then she knows what she's getting into.

but if you set the bar too high even for yourself to consistently and sustainably reach,  then I am not surprised to see the gal dumping you for pulling the wool over her eyes.

CMI guys shouldn't reach for swans ..... this is the ugly truth.  it hurts bad but it is the immutable truth nonetheless ......

uncle not scared, later u become overly famous in hwz? become a target for flaming?

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« Reply #33 on: March 29, 2016, 01:27:23 pm »
uncle not scared, later u become overly famous in hwz? become a target for flaming?

i'm sure some hwz guys can recognize truth and self-reflect de larrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..... they are not so kum-gong one right?  :-\

I mean it is so simple right - if you are not Fan Bing Bing standard, still want to aim Fan Bing Bing - then sure kenna egg in the face one lorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..... WLE !!!!
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« Reply #34 on: March 29, 2016, 01:33:20 pm »
i'm sure some hwz guys can recognize truth and self-reflect de larrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..... they are not so kum-gong one right?  :-\

I mean it is so simple right - if you are not Fan Bing Bing standard, still want to aim Fan Bing Bing - then sure kenna egg in the face one lorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..... WLE !!!!

the thing is the guy dun know they are not Fan Bing Bing standard still aim for Fan Bing BIng. than come kp say girl

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« Reply #35 on: March 29, 2016, 01:35:42 pm »
the thing is the guy dun know they are not Fan Bing Bing standard still aim for Fan Bing BIng. than come kp say girl

then those type I dunno what to say larrrrrr ..... I better keep quiet and enjoy my side-dishes while I can ......
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« Reply #36 on: March 29, 2016, 06:00:44 pm »
Well... if the gf is starting to waver betn her bf and the new guy, it already mean that the gf doesnt love the bf liao.

What do u mean "wavering"? How to know if girl is "wavering"?

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« Reply #37 on: March 29, 2016, 06:05:20 pm »
What do u mean "wavering"? How to know if girl is "wavering"?

If the girl starts to compare the bf and the new guy, then its good as gone.

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« Reply #38 on: March 29, 2016, 06:21:44 pm »
If the girl starts to compare the bf and the new guy, then its good as gone.

Yupz .... i always like to ask my ah-beng runners to test such gals.  The goal is to help their boyfrens. Make sure the guys don't make a mistake for life :(
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« Reply #39 on: April 05, 2018, 01:23:28 pm »
What do u mean "wavering"? How to know if girl is "wavering"?

when you doubt yourself, then its time to talk to the girl... that may be wavering already

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« Reply #40 on: April 05, 2018, 11:18:24 pm »
when you doubt yourself, then its time to talk to the girl... that may be wavering already

To be sure,  better to hook some ah-lians with strong vibes ... this will either make or break ... and let you clear your thoughts ...
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #41 on: April 06, 2018, 12:33:33 am »
To be sure,  better to hook some ah-lians with strong vibes ... this will either make or break ... and let you clear your thoughts ...

Wad are some classic examples of ah Lian with strong vibes.
Is it like leng yein type..?
Your taste v heavy  :-X
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« Reply #42 on: April 07, 2018, 09:20:36 am »
Wad are some classic examples of ah Lian with strong vibes.
Is it like leng yein type..?
Your taste v heavy  :-X

when leng yein becomes tiger beer auntie ..... :-* :-* :-*
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« Reply #43 on: April 07, 2018, 01:07:48 pm »
upgrade doesn’t mean that you’ll get good compatibility…
most likely he will be the same in his intantions towards you only comes from different background
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« Reply #44 on: April 08, 2018, 09:42:36 am »
upgrade doesn’t mean that you’ll get good compatibility…
most likely he will be the same in his intantions towards you only comes from different background

yes, while it is important to ascertain his intentions towards you - upgrade also must have good reason lah eg. he's an inveterate gambler,  siam diu gold member,  drug-addict,  rolling-stone aka serial job-hopper,  mama's boy, closet-gay etc....

bad reasons to upgrade - eg. the other guy got a car
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