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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #15 on: March 25, 2016, 09:08:19 pm »
I think "upgrade" must be for a reason.  and please don't "downgrade".

More importantly if you "hentah-kaki" in the r/s,  ask yourself if you have fallen in love with the ideology of love but fallen out of love with the person ....

Dogma kills. Not love.
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #16 on: March 26, 2016, 04:44:39 pm »
I feel that these girls you mentioned aren't totally wrong.
they probably have been hurt before by their ex-bfs who they are unconditional for yet reap nothing in return.. not even basic respect and love.
so in other words they learn to be smarter.

u can't blame them for dat.
if u dun like this type.
u go for someone who is a "clean slate" full of fantasies for pure love.

Don't give girls too much benefit of doubt and blind trust. Not everything is due to hurt from past experiences. Now too many online dating guides teach girls to exploit guys and behave in morally unprincipled ways.

Girls are not the innocent sweet little angels that films made people believe.
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #17 on: March 26, 2016, 04:58:17 pm »
I think "upgrade" must be for a reason.  and please don't "downgrade".

More importantly if you "hentah-kaki" in the r/s,  ask yourself if you have fallen in love with the ideology of love but fallen out of love with the person ....

Dogma kills. Not love.

I hentah-kaki because when I ke belakang pusing I see alot of sunk cost le... want to cepat jalan oso kena tukar langkah tukar.

think best is get those cute flat face Persians...  ;D

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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #18 on: March 26, 2016, 04:59:57 pm »
Don't give girls too much benefit of doubt and blind trust. Not everything is due to hurt from past experiences. Now too many online dating guides teach girls to exploit guys and behave in morally unprincipled ways.

Girls are not the innocent sweet little angels that films made people believe.

if u think like that already maybe u can visit pet shops when u r free.

I think pugs and poodles r quite cute...

next time we will see more singles walking their cats n dogs on the streets.

since I'm an opportunist I'm already thinking how I can earn frm that.

 :P
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #19 on: March 26, 2016, 06:18:27 pm »
next time we will see more singles walking their cats n dogs on the streets.
Cats are not meant to be walked!  >:(
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« Reply #20 on: March 27, 2016, 12:51:48 am »
Cats are not meant to be walked!  >:(
walking with their cats.
and walking their dogs.
I mean.
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #21 on: March 27, 2016, 08:47:00 am »
walking with their cats.
and walking their dogs.
I mean.
If you ever keep a cat in future, you will realise that the cat walks the human instead.  ;)
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #22 on: March 28, 2016, 01:04:29 pm »
I come across some girls who use this unethical way is secretly lining up a replacement behind BF's back then either replace him or cut off the new guy.

Double kill - super immoral and unethical. Such girl deserve greatest condemn, because she betrays (conditional commitment) the BF and mislead the new guy for her own uncertain selfish motive.

WELL WHAT TO DO, MOST NEW GENERATION SINGLISH GIRLS ARE [people]....

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« Reply #23 on: March 28, 2016, 01:07:28 pm »
I feel that these girls you mentioned aren't totally wrong.
they probably have been hurt before by their ex-bfs who they are unconditional for yet reap nothing in return.. not even basic respect and love.
so in other words they learn to be smarter.

u can't blame them for dat.
if u dun like this type.
u go for someone who is a "clean slate" full of fantasies for pure love.

Typical NASTY FEMINIST SINGLISH SLUTT...SO IT IS JUSTIFIABLE FOR A SINGLISH GIRL TO BE COLD HEATED WHEN SHE VOLUNTARILY FINDING A BOYFRIEND AFTER HER OWN SHITTY PAST HISTORY??? ARE YOU EVEN HEARING YOURSELF SLUTT??? WOW, NO WONDER YOU LEFT YOUR BF AND HE LEFT YOU AND WHY??

CAUSE YOU ARE A NEW GENERATION SINGLISH SLUTT.....TYPICAL NASTY TRAMP.....WHOORES LIKE YOU DESERVE TO BE SINGLE.....

THEY LEARN TO BE SMARTER AND BETTER?? BITCH PLEASE, WHAT ABOUT THE NICE GUYS PERSPECTIVE, DO WE DESERVED TO GET CHEATED?? WHAT A SINGLISH SLLUT YOU ARE....NO WONDER YOU CANT HOLD DOWN ON A PROPER RELATIONSHIP...and cant blame them for that??/ no...wrong, girls/slluts like you choose the abusive relantionship and stick with it and hence ENTIRELY YOUR FAULT...


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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #24 on: March 28, 2016, 10:44:32 pm »
I hentah-kaki because when I ke belakang pusing I see alot of sunk cost le... want to cepat jalan oso kena tukar langkah tukar.

think best is get those cute flat face Persians...  ;D

You can't measure like that de larrrrrrr .....

Those sunk cost is like lessons in life so that you know what kind of character to look for and what kind to avoid.

My advise to chicks is within 6 months - 1 year the guy doesn't make the mark better to say adios amigoes or sayonara.  And vice versa for guys .... don't waste each other's time .... your shelf-life is precious ....
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #25 on: March 28, 2016, 11:04:45 pm »
And of course the key to upgrading is to ensure your BFFs see liao can give approval for dumping the other guy,  instead of going "huh? You left him for this guy?!!!!!!! -  ??? ::) :o :facepalm:" ...... if you elicit this kind of response means you make a mistake liao
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #26 on: March 29, 2016, 04:03:51 am »
And of course the key to upgrading is to ensure your BFFs see liao can give approval for dumping the other guy,  instead of going "huh? You left him for this guy?!!!!!!! -  ??? ::) :o :facepalm:" ...... if you elicit this kind of response means you make a mistake liao
Sometimes the BFFs give approval to dump liao then end up few weeks later 1 of the BFFs hooked up with the guy.  :P
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #27 on: March 29, 2016, 08:06:14 am »
Sometimes the BFFs give approval to dump liao then end up few weeks later 1 of the BFFs hooked up with the guy.  :P

couldn't have been much of a friend afterall,  much less a BFF ....... good riddance to the b!tch too ....  >:(
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #28 on: March 29, 2016, 12:14:24 pm »
You can't measure like that de larrrrrrr .....

Those sunk cost is like lessons in life so that you know what kind of character to look for and what kind to avoid.

My advise to chicks is within 6 months - 1 year the guy doesn't make the mark better to say adios amigoes or sayonara.  And vice versa for guys .... don't waste each other's time .... your shelf-life is precious ....

doesn't matter la.. if single.. can get a cat..
and get walked by the cat.
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Re: Is it common for girls to "Upgrade" their boyfriend?
« Reply #29 on: March 29, 2016, 12:16:17 pm »
If you ever keep a cat in future, you will realise that the cat walks the human instead.  ;)

yeah I uds. been in contact with a few cat friends in the past...
Cats r independent creatures...can't be restricted or controlled, likes to be free.
they get your attention when they want it.
bite if they don't want it anymore and you touch them... 8)
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