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If u go paktor...
« on: December 26, 2015, 12:29:59 am »
Then the girl never bring money expects u to treat her...will u?

Never treat means no more date
Treat means kena roberto

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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2015, 02:53:41 am »
As a guy, i will want pay for all expenses on the first date unless she violently objects, maybe even a not too expensive small gift too. Even if theres no second date, i am at peace with myself that i have shown my gentleman's chivalry well.
If theres second date, no expectations but i will hope she has the intentions to share our expenses. Unless u are really rich enough to be a roberto.
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #2 on: December 26, 2015, 08:47:43 am »
paktor means guys pay mah .... if you're a tight-wad,  your chances for a roll in the hay diminishes.

this is the ugly truth.  not because of princessy-character or gcp or what laaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrr .....

anyway, I feel good to be "roberto" or chai-tao .... i happy, gal happy okay liao ....

focus on the journey and the outcome - if the date is a happy event,  whoever pays doesn't matter (even if the bill is split right down the middle).  if the date is a sorry event,  even if free also not happy right?
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #3 on: December 26, 2015, 09:04:29 am »
As a guy, i will want pay for all expenses on the first date unless she violently objects, maybe even a not too expensive small gift too. Even if theres no second date, i am at peace with myself that i have shown my gentleman's chivalry well.
If theres second date, no expectations but i will hope she has the intentions to share our expenses. Unless u are really rich enough to be a roberto.

I agree with the above. Deep inside me, I don't feel good if I'm not the one paying, at least for the first date. If you as a guy is the only one paying, you happy then good for you. Up to the individual.
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #4 on: December 26, 2015, 09:14:28 am »
Let's wash dishes together and see how see reacts  ;D
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #5 on: December 26, 2015, 09:17:13 am »
Let's wash dishes together and see how see reacts  ;D

WF for Life. Hahaha
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #6 on: December 26, 2015, 09:18:54 am »
Tell her you prefer go dutch before meet, if she reject, then you can even save time n transport money 

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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #7 on: December 26, 2015, 11:18:54 am »
I agree with the above. Deep inside me, I don't feel good if I'm not the one paying, at least for the first date. If you as a guy is the only one paying, you happy then good for you. Up to the individual.

But if u don't like the girl n u pay, she will think she has a second chance of meeting u again...means u like her u pay  ???

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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #8 on: December 26, 2015, 12:03:05 pm »
But if u don't like the girl n u pay, she will think she has a second chance of meeting u again...means u like her u pay  ???

Well if you deem a relationship or a date to be simply transactional in nature then you are correct in your assumption.  ;)

But is it really?    ??? ???
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #9 on: December 26, 2015, 01:03:46 pm »
But if u don't like the girl n u pay, she will think she has a second chance of meeting u again...means u like her u pay  ???

Gentleman's chivalry prevails still. Even if u dont think u want a second meetup, hint or tell the girl that u two are more suited as friends after that. She will get it.

I was guilty of AWOL on a girl after a first meetup and i feel real bad about it until now. So my advice is to state ur intentions clearly whether to go for second meetup or not so as not to leave the girl hanging.
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #10 on: December 26, 2015, 01:44:23 pm »
.... unless she turns out to be those crazeee cat ladies  :-[ ....
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #11 on: December 26, 2015, 07:17:04 pm »
Of cos the guy pays lah!!! But seriously, Singaporean guys very giamsiap!!!

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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #12 on: December 26, 2015, 07:24:44 pm »
Of cos the guy pays lah!!! But seriously, Singaporean guys very giamsiap!!!

LOL .... i thought you aiming at some of those losers on EDMW .... kekeke ..... :P
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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #13 on: December 26, 2015, 07:34:40 pm »
LOL .... i thought you aiming at some of those losers on EDMW .... kekeke ..... :P

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Re: If u go paktor...
« Reply #14 on: December 26, 2015, 07:40:04 pm »
I intend to marry angmo and stay overseas. My fast ticket to freedom and naked beaches!!!

You mean you wouldn't give chance to some EDMWers? ??? Ang-moh where got good? ... they never serve NS and become boys-to-men !  8)
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