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I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« on: March 09, 2016, 12:03:43 am »
I want to woo her

one day she bump into me, cos she run....Then she say sorry to me in fb

I said, nvm it is okay, maybe we gt affinity? in a cheeky way

she say reply "...=="

mean what uh?

we used to have dinner and meet up sometimes we talk in fb

She not interested in me? Do I still have chance?

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #1 on: March 09, 2016, 09:45:23 am »
Someone bumped into you, apologised in fb and you are speculating if she is interested in you? 

Shooting idol drama meh?
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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #2 on: March 09, 2016, 09:52:18 am »
TS too direct. U should take a slow observe approach.

For example, next day or when u get a chance to see her again. Just act u never see her, and then appear nearby and "accidentally" bump onto her again. Then pretend "eh its u again". From there u can start talking to see if got chemistry. LOL

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2016, 09:59:37 am »
Someone bumped into you, apologised in fb and you are speculating if she is interested in you? 

Shooting idol drama meh?

I perhaps watch too much idol drama


I ask u all something

if she nvr initiate fb chat with me AT ALL

always I talk first, mean she dun like me right, just treat me as one of her friend


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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #4 on: March 09, 2016, 10:09:16 am »
I perhaps watch too much idol drama


I ask u all something

if she nvr initiate fb chat with me AT ALL

always I talk first, mean she dun like me right, just treat me as one of her friend
Don't need to think so much lah.. If you like her, woo her. 

If she likes you, good for you.  If she doesn't like you, make her like you lor..
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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #5 on: March 09, 2016, 10:26:30 am »
I perhaps watch too much idol drama


I ask u all something

if she nvr initiate fb chat with me AT ALL

always I talk first, mean she dun like me right, just treat me as one of her friend

sorry buddy, you may come up as a bit of a desperate guy...dont worry, there are many fishes out there.....she is nothing but a girl....just live your life, it not your fault that you come up as desperate. btdt...

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #6 on: March 09, 2016, 10:38:48 am »
sorry buddy, you may come up as a bit of a desperate guy...dont worry, there are many fishes out there.....she is nothing but a girl....just live your life, it not your fault that you come up as desperate. btdt...

Girls are ironic people. When guy too aggressive, she think he is desperate. When guy too passive, she think he is not interested.

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #7 on: March 09, 2016, 11:47:33 am »
Girls are ironic people. When guy too aggressive, she think he is desperate. When guy too passive, she think he is not interested.

it is pathetic....this is why gender equality should is nothing but a illusion.......girls think that they can do guys think which may be true and may be false but man, they sure have problem making a decision.........girls are just being uninformative when they preach abolishing gender patriarchy but also didnt follow by its own principles...

this is one thing i learn about girls and even women/ladies, this is none of their fault as they are hardwire this way maybe due to weak genes or different wiring, man, girls do not follow their principles........unlike guys, our word is our bond....btw, dont even try to argue with me, female forum member, im right and always right on this.......dont argue back when ou say to a guy: i wont have sex with you after three dates while you did it after one date........funny girls.....why do you girls like to degrade yourself and dare to have the audacity to say that guys degrade girls??? in my experience of countless flirting in pub, street and work, it is usually girls like to argue between their own gender.....funny

btw, my statement only applies to GIRLS< read it right, not women and ladies, girls are totally different species from women and ladies.

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #8 on: March 09, 2016, 02:12:27 pm »
I think in school better concentrate on studying ..... once you have good career and well paying salary, women will flock to you like bees to honey .... #truestory ....
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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #9 on: March 09, 2016, 02:16:20 pm »
I think in school better concentrate on studying ..... once you have good career and well paying salary, women will flock to you like bees to honey .... #truestory ....

Bad idea... by the time u established, those good ones already taken by other guys alr. and u are left with gold diggers and relationship of convenience type of girls.

Besides, when u are all tied up at work, where got opportunity to know new people.

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« Reply #10 on: March 09, 2016, 02:20:03 pm »
Bad idea... by the time u established, those good ones already taken by other guys alr. and u are left with gold diggers and relationship of convenience type of girls.

Besides, when u are all tied up at work, where got opportunity to know new people.

Nope, second-hand ones have been tested through fire .... they have tasted their share of bad guys so you will get the gems ....
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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #11 on: March 09, 2016, 02:22:01 pm »
I think in school better concentrate on studying ..... once you have good career and well paying salary, women will flock to you like bees to honey .... #truestory ....

SO BASICALLY YOU subscribe to the theory of nice guys finish last and girls like money and attention which i dont deny but it does make guys pussy-whimped, lack of social skills and bad Casanovas.....do i also mention no balls nor courage to stand up for oneself if what you say that no bf/gf relantionship during teenager years?

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« Reply #12 on: March 09, 2016, 02:25:58 pm »
Nope, second-hand ones have been tested through fire .... they have tasted their share of bad guys so you will get the gems ....

not true nor false, but your method does make the probabaility to get a nice girl been lower compared during your teenage years, by that time you have your career, shelter, credits and power in the modest age estimation of 30 to 32 years old, most of the girls that flock to you mostly want to settle after years of riding the cock carousel, countless years of chasing the bad boys, countless years of shaming nice guys during their early and mid 20's, cheating, gold digging and many more that i wont say afterwards, most girls here get offended due to their insecurity......

you dont want to hear this fine but IT IS THE TRUTH....THE TRUTH HURTS, DONT LIKE IT?? CONTINUE EATING THE BLUE PILL, IM AN MGTOW.......GIRLS ARE NOTHING BUT DEPRECATING ASSETS.....ONLY A FEW WOMEN ARE APPRECIATING ASSETS AND MOST GUYS ARE APPRECIATING ASSETS

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #13 on: March 09, 2016, 02:36:06 pm »
sorry buddy, you may come up as a bit of a desperate guy...dont worry, there are many fishes out there.....she is nothing but a girl....just live your life, it not your fault that you come up as desperate. btdt...

Holy.....then what should I do?

teach me...:(

why no matter what I do also wrong :(

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Re: I try to talk to this girl in my school, did I do it wrong?
« Reply #14 on: March 09, 2016, 05:17:17 pm »
Holy.....then what should I do?

teach me...:(

why no matter what I do also wrong :(

Move on, just be yourself, be the best version of what you want to become, trust me, protect your own feelings but also treat her as a friend, dont put her on the pedestal which is the most common mistake for every guy......she is not a princesses and if you treat her like one, she gonna be one that you heard many guys hates: princess syndrome...

my advice is: just stop seeing her as a potential partner, focus on yourself, dont act desperate, socialize with others guys and girls, if she talk to you, just talk like a normal friend, but if you want to chase her...dont expect a miracle from me or other PUA or guru.....honestly, just act like you are focusing on yourself, trust me, it better......it a harder route but pay so much dividends