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I m single guy, I just want a gf, but girl avoid me
« on: February 01, 2016, 11:14:27 am »
Self into

I m 26 years old, study in ntu, my interest is in chinese song, tv series, movie, or event news or current affair, typical singaporean guys

I m not handsome, nor i m ugly, I wear spec

I m a chinese speaking guys,english not that good

Everytime I chat with girls, at first they are quite friendly, manage to ask them out for first time

But when I try to chat more about them, or ask them out second time, they will like just don't want to talk to me or just ignore

Some even avoid me

My friend say because i want to jio them, so they avoid me, but that what I intend to do what....?

What wrong with wooing girl I like?

Have been happen a lot of times

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Re: I m single guy, I just want a gf, but girl avoid me
« Reply #1 on: February 01, 2016, 11:24:41 am »
Self into

I m 26 years old, study in ntu, my interest is in chinese song, tv series, movie, or event news or current affair, typical singaporean guys

I m not handsome, nor i m ugly, I wear spec

I m a chinese speaking guys,english not that good

Everytime I chat with girls, at first they are quite friendly, manage to ask them out for first time

But when I try to chat more about them, or ask them out second time, they will like just don't want to talk to me or just ignore

Some even avoid me

My friend say because i want to jio them, so they avoid me, but that what I intend to do what....?

What wrong with wooing girl I like?

Have been happen a lot of times

you like KTV and mando-pop?
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Re: I m single guy, I just want a gf, but girl avoid me
« Reply #2 on: February 01, 2016, 11:25:30 am »

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« Reply #3 on: February 01, 2016, 11:31:10 am »
Yesss i do
maybe it is just a case of different channels.  sometimes ang-moh pai and terng-lang-pai got different wavelengths de.

I think I can intro you to some ah-lians at DV8 @ CQ when you graduate.  or if you prefer LKB, I can intro you some ah-lians at Shanghai Dolly.  but first you must graduate first from NTU then you can 闯荡江湖 with me.
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Re: I m single guy, I just want a gf, but girl avoid me
« Reply #4 on: February 01, 2016, 12:22:29 pm »
maybe to them you look to desperate? or there are some weird rumor abt you spreading

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« Reply #5 on: February 01, 2016, 12:33:30 pm »
Self into

I m 26 years old, study in ntu, my interest is in chinese song, tv series, movie, or event news or current affair, typical singaporean guys

I m not handsome, nor i m ugly, I wear spec

I m a chinese speaking guys,english not that good

Everytime I chat with girls, at first they are quite friendly, manage to ask them out for first time

But when I try to chat more about them, or ask them out second time, they will like just don't want to talk to me or just ignore

Some even avoid me

My friend say because i want to jio them, so they avoid me, but that what I intend to do what....?

What wrong with wooing girl I like?

Have been happen a lot of times

u from engineering?
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« Reply #6 on: February 01, 2016, 01:31:36 pm »
u from engineering?

I'm wondering what topics TS broach on the first date? ???
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« Reply #7 on: February 01, 2016, 01:32:25 pm »
maybe to them you look to desperate? or there are some weird rumor abt you spreading

If got rumour difficult to get first date bah? ???
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« Reply #9 on: February 01, 2016, 03:51:47 pm »
I'm wondering what topics TS broach on the first date? ???

Basically I talk about School stuff, because I dk much about the girls, I got ask a bit her life

But first date I didnt ask much

Is it okay to let a girl know I want to woo her?

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« Reply #10 on: February 01, 2016, 04:24:05 pm »
girl can sense it. maybe you are not their cup of tea that y dun wan to lead u on.

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« Reply #11 on: February 01, 2016, 04:24:47 pm »
Basically I talk about School stuff, because I dk much about the girls, I got ask a bit her life

But first date I didnt ask much

Is it okay to let a girl know I want to woo her?

not with most gals on the first date,  they'll like to get to know you better first so you might scare them off instead if you tell them that you want to woo them;  in any case it would be obvious to them so no need to hint or tell them de....  :-\  ...... but if ah-lian maybe can try your luck by saying "ai-kia stead mai?"

ah-lians have strong vibes .....  ;)

I don't think gals like to talk about school stuff unless they are in the same class with you.

why don't you talk to them about their interest? 
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« Reply #12 on: February 01, 2016, 06:47:40 pm »
not with most gals on the first date,  they'll like to get to know you better first so you might scare them off instead if you tell them that you want to woo them;  in any case it would be obvious to them so no need to hint or tell them de....  :-\  ...... but if ah-lian maybe can try your luck by saying "ai-kia stead mai?"

ah-lians have strong vibes .....  ;)

I don't think gals like to talk about school stuff unless they are in the same class with you.

why don't you talk to them about their interest?

🙊🙊🙊

I thinks TS types will attracts mores ah lians.
which isn't bad cz they can protects u!
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« Reply #13 on: February 01, 2016, 06:52:49 pm »
🙊🙊🙊

I thinks TS types will attracts mores ah lians.
which isn't bad cz they can protects u!

But whether he suits ah-lians? ???
Ah-lians have strong vibes de ....:P
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Re: I m single guy, I just want a gf, but girl avoid me
« Reply #14 on: February 01, 2016, 07:19:22 pm »
The girl he date just dun wan to lead him on la.

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