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Husband vs Parents
« on: October 19, 2015, 09:06:40 pm »
I have heard the most absurd reasoning some women gave. In the woman version, it was Wife or Mother. Some claimed that the moment you married, wife is your next of kin. Your mother shouldnt be of equal importance or higher. Putting this concept across, does that mean, if you have your husband, you should give up your parents who had provided life and care?
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #1 on: October 19, 2015, 09:09:12 pm »
I have heard the most absurd reasoning some women gave. In the woman version, it was Wife or Mother. Some claimed that the moment you married, wife is your next of kin. Your mother shouldnt be of equal importance or higher. Putting this concept across, does that mean, if you have your husband, you should give up your parents who had provided life and care?

We men are like delicious piece of McSpicy fillet...between 2 buns :(
Kena kiap tight tight one :(
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2015, 09:14:52 pm »
I have heard the most absurd reasoning some women gave. In the woman version, it was Wife or Mother. Some claimed that the moment you married, wife is your next of kin. Your mother shouldnt be of equal importance or higher. Putting this concept across, does that mean, if you have your husband, you should give up your parents who had provided life and care?

Use ancient china court rules to decide lor. i think empress dowager still more powerful than empress.

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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #3 on: October 19, 2015, 09:23:21 pm »
I have heard the most absurd reasoning some women gave. In the woman version, it was Wife or Mother. Some claimed that the moment you married, wife is your next of kin. Your mother shouldnt be of equal importance or higher. Putting this concept across, does that mean, if you have your husband, you should give up your parents who had provided life and care?

Why can't both be equally important? The man should put his wife first in the sense that he shouldn't let his mother come in between their marriage. Some moms feel that their precious sons are being stolen so they do stupid things. For women, I don't think their own moms actually think their daughter is being stolen leh.

Have never heard of any fathers complaining before..


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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #4 on: October 19, 2015, 09:40:41 pm »
Why can't both be equally important? The man should put his wife first in the sense that he shouldn't let his mother come in between their marriage. Some moms feel that their precious sons are being stolen so they do stupid things. For women, I don't think their own moms actually think their daughter is being stolen leh.

Have never heard of any fathers complaining before..

All lao peh read newspaper lim kopi one la dun care one  ;D
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #5 on: October 19, 2015, 10:53:09 pm »
All lao peh read newspaper lim kopi one la dun care one  ;D

Haha exactly. Therefore only husbands will need to mediate between his mother and his wife. The other combinations (wife caught in bet mother and husband, etc) no drama.

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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #6 on: October 20, 2015, 10:16:30 am »
i think both equally important la.

but i wont mind if my future husband dote/side his parents more.
after all without his parents he wont be around right? haha
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #7 on: October 20, 2015, 10:21:11 am »
Hence I don't understand too that why some women would force the man to "give up" their parents. What kind of wife will do this to her husband? To expect more importance over her and her family and less on his. Apparently from what I hear, seems like there is increasing agreement over this concept. Luckily from the response so far, it seemed like, there haven't yet any to think this way.
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #8 on: October 20, 2015, 10:31:08 am »
well, the husband/Son need to know how to handle the Relationship between the wife and the mother.

Both the wife/husband need to remember if you wan ur SO to treat ur parent gd. you must treat their gd too.

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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #9 on: October 20, 2015, 12:12:45 pm »
Really don't understand. A husband is perfectly capable of being both filial to his parents and doting to his wife, why the need to argue.

I mean if any wife restricts her hubby from spending time with his parents, wouldn't she be afraid that her son would neglect her when he marries in future?  ::)
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #10 on: October 20, 2015, 01:07:08 pm »
Really don't understand. A husband is perfectly capable of being both filial to his parents and doting to his wife, why the need to argue.

I mean if any wife restricts her hubby from spending time with his parents, wouldn't she be afraid that her son would neglect her when he marries in future?  ::)

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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #11 on: October 20, 2015, 01:53:40 pm »
Ah di... once u get married u will understand

And then it would be too late  ;D
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #12 on: October 20, 2015, 01:55:02 pm »
to solve this kind of problem easy. if ur SO dun like ur parent dun marry her lor easy. can always find another one

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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #13 on: October 20, 2015, 02:05:39 pm »
to solve this kind of problem easy. if ur SO dun like ur parent dun marry her lor easy. can always find another one

Only if the guy is as handsome as Andy Lau la then he can afford to choose ;D
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Re: Husband vs Parents
« Reply #14 on: October 20, 2015, 02:08:15 pm »
Only if the guy is as handsome as Andy Lau la then he can afford to choose ;D

well, Andy Lau wife jin rich too lei.