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How to be a less selfish lover?
« on: November 22, 2017, 05:37:15 pm »
My partner complains that I am too insensitive on the bed, only care for my own pleasures

But when I ask her what she likes and want me to do for her, she tell me nothing.

Lidat how to be more aware what she really want me to do for her?

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beaverjuice

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #1 on: November 22, 2017, 09:34:47 pm »
Use your head ! Use your head !  :P :P :P
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #2 on: November 22, 2017, 11:19:37 pm »
Foreplay lo.

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2018, 11:23:02 pm »
petalbtye like only sharshar1989 n beaverjuice active


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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2018, 12:44:26 pm »
I can give some solid pointers and even practicals ...  :P
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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #5 on: March 13, 2018, 12:34:14 pm »
don't ask directly... try to do smth and then ask her whether she likes it or not, if not then ask how she wants... I always speak to my partner openly... if there is something I don't like I tell, if there is smth my partner doesn't like I just ask how to fix it... perhaps you are in another type of relationships, but I always prefer openness

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #6 on: March 19, 2018, 09:49:59 pm »
Yes. Open relationships are the best ....  :-*
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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2018, 08:09:43 pm »
wear bunny costume to amuse her and see what happens: make her laugh

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #8 on: June 15, 2018, 04:35:10 pm »
huh... if you're selfish from the very beginning you won't be changed

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2018, 02:34:56 pm »
No laa. I beg to differ. One can be changed for the better or worst depending on the kind of life-changing experiences that he/she had gone through.

9 out of 10 children are selfish as they will be given what they want from the onset. Its only at a later stage when they grow up, being able to understand how the world works, and how the parents taught them, that's where they will start to change to become even more selfish or more giving. Our parents and environment that we grow up in have a part to play that has caused us to become who we are today. 


huh... if you're selfish from the very beginning you won't be changed

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #10 on: June 25, 2018, 11:49:17 pm »
huh... if you're selfish from the very beginning you won't be changed

Ppl character do chg after they seen the world. Or experience some drastic encounter.
没有心,就不会痛 😉