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How to be a less selfish lover?
« on: November 22, 2017, 05:37:15 pm »
My partner complains that I am too insensitive on the bed, only care for my own pleasures

But when I ask her what she likes and want me to do for her, she tell me nothing.

Lidat how to be more aware what she really want me to do for her?

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beaverjuice

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #1 on: November 22, 2017, 09:34:47 pm »
Use your head ! Use your head !  :P :P :P
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #2 on: November 22, 2017, 11:19:37 pm »
Foreplay lo.

I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2018, 11:23:02 pm »
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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2018, 12:44:26 pm »
I can give some solid pointers and even practicals ...  :P
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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #5 on: March 13, 2018, 12:34:14 pm »
don't ask directly... try to do smth and then ask her whether she likes it or not, if not then ask how she wants... I always speak to my partner openly... if there is something I don't like I tell, if there is smth my partner doesn't like I just ask how to fix it... perhaps you are in another type of relationships, but I always prefer openness

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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #6 on: March 19, 2018, 09:49:59 pm »
Yes. Open relationships are the best ....  :-*
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Re: How to be a less selfish lover?
« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2018, 08:09:43 pm »
wear bunny costume to amuse her and see what happens: make her laugh