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Been seeing a guy for a month now and not sure what to expect of it  ;D

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #1 on: October 05, 2015, 02:46:18 pm »
Been seeing a guy for a month now and not sure what to expect of it  ;D

If you like him or are comfortable with him, just go ahead?

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #2 on: October 05, 2015, 04:45:30 pm »
Really depends on the chemistry level and how comfortable you are with him at this stage. If it is positive then go ahead, if he is a bit woody, you can take some initiative too. Good luck.  :D
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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #3 on: October 06, 2015, 10:15:24 am »
Really depends on the chemistry level and how comfortable you are with him at this stage. If it is positive then go ahead, if he is a bit woody, you can take some initiative too. Good luck.  :D

yea i think he's abit passive... but we have been going out consistently.

he says that he's evergreen so i guess he won't pop the question so soon  :P


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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #4 on: October 06, 2015, 01:01:54 pm »
we dated for a good 8 months before becoming "official". patient one that boy.

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #5 on: October 06, 2015, 02:58:06 pm »
we dated for a good 8 months before becoming "official". patient one that boy.

haha woah i dunno if i can wait 8 months. things are abit ambiguous now... don't even know if we are mutually exclusive.

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #6 on: October 06, 2015, 04:17:20 pm »
haha woah i dunno if i can wait 8 months. things are abit ambiguous now... don't even know if we are mutually exclusive.

in my case, it was more of me wanting to wait... no rush i guess... unless you have plans.

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #7 on: October 07, 2015, 01:51:45 pm »
haha woah i dunno if i can wait 8 months. things are abit ambiguous now... don't even know if we are mutually exclusive.

If it is ambiguous and you cannot wait, then should start take some action now. Good luck!  :D
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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #8 on: October 08, 2015, 10:32:02 am »
If it is ambiguous and you cannot wait, then should start take some action now. Good luck!  :D

thanks babe  ;D

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #9 on: October 08, 2015, 11:18:46 am »
If it is ambiguous and you cannot wait, then should start take some action now. Good luck!  :D

might need more info on what kind of actions to take!  ;)

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #10 on: October 08, 2015, 02:33:15 pm »
might need more info on what kind of actions to take!  ;)

argh he's currently overseas for work and didn't text me for a day

paranoid now  :(

should i initiate the convo?

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #11 on: October 09, 2015, 08:51:03 am »
argh he's currently overseas for work and didn't text me for a day

paranoid now  :(

should i initiate the convo?

yes, you should. just a simple text like, hey, hows overseas? :)
its ok to be friendly to friends =D

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #12 on: October 14, 2015, 10:12:12 am »
argh he's currently overseas for work and didn't text me for a day

paranoid now  :(

should i initiate the convo?

maybe hes busy. can just text him and then see how it goes.

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2015, 08:28:17 pm »
2.5 years. I hate him when i first met him.

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Re: How long did you date your SO before getting into a relationship?
« Reply #14 on: October 14, 2015, 08:31:00 pm »
Been seeing a guy for a month now and not sure what to expect of it  ;D

take it slowly girl... i guess u are early twenties?
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